Tiwa Savage’s courage will help Nigerian women who are stuck in mad marriages. In the video, yes we can see an emotional woman who has been broken by a man who has treated her badly, made wrong accusations about her and called her honour into question.

However, most importantly we can see a Tiwa Savage rising from the ashes of her failed marriage, and breaking the chains tradition and society has placed on women in insufferable unions.

Wiping away her tears Tiwa Savage admitted to two years of emotional abuse from a man she loved with all her heart. She spoke on his alleged drug use, wild and expensive lifestyle and his infidelity.

Tiwa Savage told a tale of a woman who was determined to make her marriage work at great costs. She funded her husband’s expensive lifestyle, paid his debts and ignored his infidelity until she was choked by his unfaithfulness. Not only did she fund Tee Billz’s lifestyle she was the sole breadwinner of the house.

Before Tee Billz made damning accusations about his wife and tried to commit suicide, Tiwa Savage had already given up on her marriage. She had called it quits.

Why do I call Tiwa Savage bold, courageous and strong? It takes a woman with a solid spine and guts in Nigeria to call it quits on her marriage that was bringing her more pain than joy. She was the one bringing money to the home but still put up a front that her husband was in control.

There are millions of Nigerian women in this situation. They are suffering in silence, their cries are unheard because the Nigerian society has placed a yoke on them that they must endure pain in their marriages. The burden of whether the marriage works lies solely on them. This is wrong.

There are so many women who are the ones supporting their families. Many men have abandoned their roles as the head of the home because the society allows it, and the wives have to work extra hard to make ends meet for the entire family.

The society places a stigma on women who leave their marriages. We call them sluts and shame the women who have the courage to end their suffering by leaving these hell holes. Why does the Nigerian society hold back women in bad marriages? Why is the blame placed on them and not the man?

Before her interview, Tiwa Savage was slammed online for being allegedly sexually promiscuous. With tears in her eyes she defended her honour. Kudos has to be given to her for having the strength to end her marriage. She admitted that she was tired of it all.

One quote in her interview struck me deep. Tiwa Savage said “I don’t care at this point if I don’t ever get married again.” This statement is a liberating one not only for Tiwa Savage but for Nigerian women as well.

Tiwa Savage is now a symbol for women who are in the position she was before. Hopefully her story gives women the courage in this similar situation to come out and end their bad marriages.

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what do expect her to say in her defence before. She definitely make herself feel like the hero.
Stop the hype, until both parties are being interviewed together.

She merely applied the end justifies the means approach on tunji. She now has a baby boy and at the peak of her career.Tiwa might have had genuine intentions from the beginning but, someone implanted ideas into her head to dispose the the mofo husband since he's now a liability. Tunji had the option of murdering tiwa, his mother-in-law, Jamal, Don jazzy, Dr Sid, double face innocent idibia and then disappear or hand himself to the police. That's how a man takes revenge and not taking your own life cos of some glory hunter that used you.

OP,

Nigerian women gini? You kidding right?

Did you miss the part where she said

A. The man just made it easy for her to walk away.

B. She was advised to stay put cos our society frowns at women leaving, reason is immaterial....

Make no mistake OP, some women are still going to pound yam tonight after a couple of slaps!!

Divorce is alien to our culture, most of the people that will still troll Tiwa about her inability to hold on to her man+keep her home will be women!! Mark my words!!

who all this Tory help Nigerians cha... more pressing issues in our country..

tollyB:
who all this Tory help Nigerians cha... more pressing issues in our country..

Ghostlady?

Nawa oo.this institution called marriage sef..and some babes are singing *i don go wedding tire many saturdays e don tey,and I never marry,oluwa provide a boo o* .its well.tiwa's situation is not different from what most married women are going through..nobody feels your pain,only you.

herald9:

Ghostlady?

sweety....How is school?

tollyB:
sweety....How is school?

Jeez.. So its really you? How come.. Where did you dump Ghostlady.. That moniker was weird tho

Welcome back.


School is schooling... We just resumed sef.

herald9:

Jeez.. So its really you? How come.. Where did you dump Ghostlady.. That moniker was weird tho

Welcome back.


School is schooling... We just resumed sef.

It became nobody Lol....
Thank you....missed you though...
when are u rounding up in school?

tollyB:
It became nobody Lol.... Thank you....missed you though... when are u rounding up in school?

LOL. Same here.
Hopefully next year, assuming the Nigerian factor doesn't come into play.. LOL.

We are going somewhere.