To those who are married: did you marry someone very much like yourself (in terms of personality, habits, approach to life & money)?

The thread is more of a survey, not necessarily the pros and cons, although debates about these two approaches, and your reasons as to why you prefer one over the other are allowed.

And to the singles, take your time to reflect on your habits, beliefs & personality. Would you like to settle down with someone with same personality etc., or a partner with slightly different habits, perhaps, opposite?

My partner must not be like me buh more crazier dan I am...

donbenedict:
My partner must not be like me buh more crazier dan I am...

Hunie did I get it?

Yuneehk:

Hunie did I get it?

yaaaaaay... let's go and parry

Few things I know he must posses
Great sense of humour
Must be patient with me cos I am impulsive and a nag
*I only nag when I want something's*
Money: he must not be a lavish spender and STINGy is a no no for me

Ofcus he's gotta be that man I just thought about with a soothing smile


I didn't answer your question did I?
Lastly must have a high libido as me and willing to give and take anywhere
I cannot shout

Off topic
For me
Same personality with a bit of more romantic cos I am emotional

My partner must be fun-loving dan me ooo bcox smtimes I'm kinda too boring .

He must be crazier, must be d outing type nd i'm not marrying 4rm my tribe at all.

I wanna learn new tinsssss

To an extent i will like my spouse to have same personality as me. but a slight difference will be nice.

I'm seeing things...!


I'll like someone with same belief system, a talkative I talk less, think & type/write more so a talkative like Idaya ( Dyt ) won't be bad at all.

Yeah, I married someone I share same values with..say 90%......

Can't be attracted to the opposite. ..

Acidosis:
I'm seeing things...!


I'll like someone with same belief system, a talkative I talk less, think & type/write more so a talkative like Idaya ( Dyt ) won't be bad at all.

Include both my middle and last name plus the previous I was answering

Clown

You are still eyeing me?
I will tell your babe

HateU2:
My partner must be fun-loving dan me ooo bcox smtimes I'm kinda too boring .

He must be crazier, must be d outing type nd i'm not marrying 4rm my tribe at all.

I wanna learn new tinsssss

Wow! Thank you for the clue

No time to waste on these girls.

RuggedArab:



Wow! Thank you for the clue

No time to waste on these girls.

I will prefer to marry someone who share the same personality with me tho with little differences as for the marriage not to be boring. He must be communiucative, i can't stay in the same house with someone who keeps quite a lot, he must be neat, i can't come nd be cleaning everytime, good sense of humour and more outgoing than me, i prefer to stay at home so i need someone who will pull me from my comfortzone.

Dyt:

Include both my middle and last name plus the previous I was answering Clown
You are still eyeing me? I will tell your babe

I'm eyeing you oo

Dyt:

Include both my middle and last name plus the previous I was answering Clown
You are still eyeing me? I will tell your babe

I'm eyeing you oo

Acidosis:

I'm eyeing you oo

Acidosis:


I'm eyeing you oo

You had to quote twice?


But you were condemning one gentle man for loving a single mum?

Dyt:


You had to quote twice?


But you were condemning one gentle man for loving a single mum?

Really?

The closest person to me on earth is about getting married to a single mom and they're getting my support 100%. While I don't remember opposing anyone on Nairaland, I'm sure I must have done that based on other reasons.

HateU2:

How much is that una bride price again?

Calculate and sum everything ( Chiefs, Elders, Pops, Moms, extended extended familys....Etc) and let me know.

i wanna meet HateU2....honestly...

My partner is a lot like me, I won't have it any other way because it's easier for us to understand each other without waste of words. We have our slight differences though but 90% of the time we reason alike. No boredom as we are both very gifted in the entertainment department .

RuggedArab:


How much is that una bride price again?

Calculate and sum everything ( Chiefs, Elders, Pops, Moms, extended extended familys....Etc) and let me know.

lmsaooooooooo. Your "toasting" skills is outdated ooo .

U mean u wanna marry me abi , oya nah, no wahala.

naughtynaughty, do u approve this guy
im thinking of getting married to him tomorrow ooo here on NL.

dammydrumz:
i wanna meet Ha.teU2....honestly...

Im blushing . Im here bro, oya meet me but wait, are u single or plural

lol... i'm single, i so hope you are too, even if you are not...ahdontmind

HateU2:
Im blushing . Im here bro, oya meet me but wait, are u single or plural

dammydrumz:
lol... i'm single, i so hope you are too, even if you are not...ahdontmind

You dont believe it .
I yam single but not ready to be pluralised

Hmmmn, i'm heart broken....i so had ideas

HateU2:

You dont believe it .
I yam single but not ready to be pluralised

HateU2:
lmsaooooooooo. Your "toasting" skills is outdated ooo .

U mean u wanna marry me abi , oya nah, no wahala.

naughtynaughty, do u approve this guy
im thinking of getting married to him tomorrow ooo here on NL.

awwww his a cutey

Ruggedarab how crios r u about my frnd? Don't lemme call the wedding planner in vain ooo.

Acidosis:

Really?

The closest person to me on earth is about getting married to a single mom and they're getting my support 100%. While I don't remember opposing anyone on Nairaland, I'm sure I must have done that based on other reasons.

OK let's get to business
I am mothering more than 10 kids from different mother and father and I carry the bills alone
Can you cope?

HateU2:
lmsaooooooooo. Your "toasting" skills is outdated ooo .

U mean u wanna marry me abi , oya nah, no wahala.

naughtynaughty, do u approve this guy
im thinking of getting married to him tomorrow ooo here on NL.

HMMMM...... Abegi!!!!! Who NL marriage don epp?

I want to send the cost to my friend who knows a friend that knows his village brother that wants You.

Ehen! Naughty.Naughty with big big talk............. why cant you proof that you are the true kim K of NL.

dammydrumz:
Hmmmn, i'm heart broken....i so had ideas

Share ur ideas

naughtynaughty:
awwww his a cutey

Ruggedarab how crios r u about my frnd? Don't lemme call the wedding planner in vain ooo.

lol! I am only referring her to a friend that knows a friend

RuggedArab:



HMMMM...... Abegi!!!!! Who NL marriage don epp?

I want to send the cost to my friend who knows a friend that knows his village brother that wants You.

Ehen! Naughty.Naughty with big big talk............. why cant you proof that you are the true kim K of NL.

Village brother!!!
You are wicked.
Lemme continue my search for Don Jazzy
Wicked boy

naughtynaughty is trully the official Kim K of Nig not NL

lol...do u do italian

HateU2:
Share ur ideas