What do you think of the idea that opposites attract? Does it hold any truth in your relationships/marriage? And if, indeed, you are attracted to your opposite and decide to marry him/her...will it last? Will you date/marry someone with thesame character/attitude like you?



Honest answers please...

NO I WON'T.

I MEAN, I WANT SOMEONE ELSE ENTIRELY. SOMEONE THAT HAVE HAD A DIFFERENT EXPERIENCE ABOUT LIFE, SOMEONE I CAN LEARN FROM, A UNIQUE CHARACTER.

NOT MYSELF..... I USE A TAMPON!!!!

HE SHOULD HAVE ABIT OF MY PERSON WHICH IS A NECESSITY BUT NOT A REPLICA OF MYSELF.

Let me think about it....

Someone like me is a disaster.

In the tins of God, he is like me, only better. In the area of picking offence, he is as a child, which is my opposite thus inspiring to me. I want to be like him cos he is not like me.

Oh mymy that is my prayer almost everyday. I wish I can marry myself sometimes, it'd be a match made in heaven, no stress , no fight, I'd totally understand if I don't call me for hours, I'd never cheat on me emotionally or otherwise, I know what I like and don't like, I don't need to start explaining....
I wishhhhh
But I know its almost impossible.
I'm also not fazed by the possibility of not ever being married
But if I happen to be married to a man like me, as in exactly like me, mehn I'd be too happy

I can't marry someone completely opposite because we'll fight all the time. So I guess someone where both we share similar values but he still has some opposite characteristics but not to the extreme. So basically 75-80% similar and the rest can be opposite but not to the extreme.

I am a Mel-phleg, I am a Sapiosexual, I am intelligent and witty so yes I want someone like me. Though not one in my profession sha.
Sadly in life you don't always get what you want.

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yommeey:


I am Capricorn, Melphleg, Sapiosexual, intelligent, witty and an anti-social introvert. Seem like we have a lot in common.

Not trying to 'toast' you though: D

I logged in because of this madam. I'm VIRGO, melphleg, drawn to women with class, gravitas, elegance and creativity. Above all spiritual. Me, I want to toast you o. Lol. Just because of the fact that you're a Capricorn. I have read so much about them. I would like to be a friend to one. would you mind?

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yommeey:


I don't mind. I need friends.

Really? you know anything about VIRGO? I will rather you know them well before making friends. May I have your number? Or whichever contact your comfortable with.

yommeey:


I am Capricorn, Melphleg, Sapiosexual, intelligent, witty and an anti-social introvert. Seem like we have a lot in common.

Not trying to 'toast' you though

Lol lool lol , you sef na wa.
Capricorns are usually heady and difficult to deal with, maybe yours is different sha .
Wait fes you're not Mel-phleg jare. Maybe 90% Mel sha.
We surely would have a lot in common, yeah

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Nahhh, very unlikely

No way
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Getting married to someone who is like you in all things is no different from sealing the nuptial knot with a vanity mirror. Unless one is Narcissus from Greek mythology, I see no reason why anyone's genitals should tauten at the idea of wedding their very own self reflections.

I wish to marry someone different, but not markedly different, and certainly not so different as to the extent whereby both our feet do not stand on the grounds of shared interests. The differences could exist in more noble, more naunced ways e.g. We could both be literatis, except while she takes to thrillers or chick-lits novels, I, on the other hand, could be besotted with non-fiction books. In such case, even though our literary interest overlap mildly, the sweet taste of literature is appreciated differently by our palates.

Surely a little behavioural dimorphism would make for a more interesting match-up than a situation whereby one party is an impeccable facsimile of the other.

Of course, i would love to date someone like myself although not totally alike. In that case, I'm sure he won't stray and i get to have an intelligent partner - a great turn on for me.

coveredchic:
Of course, i would love to date someone like myself although not totally alike. In that case, I'm sure he won't stray and i get to have an intelligent partner - a great turn on for me.

Would you be kind enough as to clarify?;

What turns you on? Is it an intelligent partner?

Yes I will