Most married woman are not in love with their husband ....cos dey are always in a hurry to settle down....dey end up marrying d available not necessarily out of love...which acount for d reason a lot are not happy in their marriages.....pls advice the singles........

don't worry there's still a lot of singles decided not to settle down due to economic crisis...

Relationship born out of desperation is bound to suffer. Courtship is really important before settling down. But all in all putting God first and seeking His guidance before entering it fully.

Your value is not in being able to keep a man nor being in a relationship.

Your ultimate goal should be to work on being the best person you can be for yourself and not for anyone else.

That way, if/when you chose to be with someone, you do it because it is what you want not because you are looking for the person to fill a gap in your own life. There is a difference between want/need. Wanting to share your life with someone is okay, needing is unhealthy and that's when you find yourself making choices to satisfy the need without thinking it through.

You cannot give the best of yourself when you are not at your best.

Better to fail and try again that not have tried at all. Use the lessons of the past to make better judgements in the present.

Be self aware and always evaluate who you are, continue to have that dialogue with yourself. That way you ensure your continued growth.

Have fun, there is no age limit to this. Don't stop doing something you enjoy and isn't detrimental to you, because you feel your are getting to old. A youthful mind will keep you young, both inside and out.

Be open-minded if you do want to find love. Don't limit yourself because of ideologies (e.g I cannot date outside my tribe, country, religion, someone younger than I am etc.)

There are 7 billion people on this planet, very good chance that one of them is the right one for you.

Don't give a fvck about what people say or think, only you know what it feels like to be you. Do you at all times.