It is now very common to see many people (including poor ones) clamouring for wedding.


Wedding and marriage are two different concepts, right?


Marriage is the joining of husband and wife in court or through other means while wedding is just the celebration of such joining.


Must you go for wedding after marriage when you don't have the wherewithal to stay together as a family?


Can't you use such money for living?


Think about it: anyway, it is your decision.


Many poor brides and grooms started suffering immidiately after wedding. They must have spent all their hard earned money for celebration and unable to get corresponding gifts or donations because they were not affluential.


Wedding is good if you have great connection that can fend you great benfits. Althoug it is a fantastic memory, but does it worth it to suffer after wedding?


I have seen many poor brides and grooms who spent their hard earned money on wedding. Some spent money earned over 4-5 years in just a day in the name of wedding and committed themselves into abject poverty.


Even some couldn't provide for babies' provisions.


Why don't you strengthen your income base first, then do your wedding after marrige, even after giving birth to children, if you don't have financial capability right away.


Think of living first before wedding; such mistake is the major cause of divorce among the poor ( Just my observation).


Share your observation.