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Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by gen2briz(m): 8:07pm On Aug 17, 2016
kolomax:
When a wife complains of her husband's sexual weakness, I ask her, what have you done to increase his sexual prowess? ?

The kind of food you feed your husband could make him perform soo poorly.

Sex is not an individual responsibility since both of you engage in it and enjoy it. Sex must be enjoyed equally.



If this is the case, wives you have a big role to play not by only inviting him to bed but helping him last longer in bed and doing the work excellently .

Let me remind you of Ginger and dried dates.

Ginger is a powerful natural aphrodisiac, increases sexual prowess, increase libido and makes one stay longer in bed.

Dear wives, when your lovely husband return from work in the evening and after serving his meal, just give him Ginger Juice.

Place ginger into a blender, cover with 1 and half cup of water and blend until ginger is thick and pasty. Strain and squeeze juice from ginger, place it on fire and allow it to heat a little bit then give it to oga to drink. he will climb mountain Everest with ease.

I have a friend who told me after making love to his wife just one round he fell off. Then his wife went to the kitchen, grinned ginger and inserted it into her vagina , that very moment his boneless leg became very hard and he climbed Kalahari mountain twice.

As for dates, make sure you both eat if before taking little of your 3 daily meals, it gives alot
(C&P)
Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by Kgdavid(m): 8:08pm On Aug 17, 2016
teekol

1. engage in sufficient pre-intimacy, that would heighten your stimulation prior to entry and reduce the amount of time needed for you to get going
2. get him to wear a condom. it reduces the level of stimulation
3. ask him to focus his mind on something very sad during the act (this works)

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Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by godimento: 8:08pm On Aug 17, 2016
Tell him to call this number 08032022142
Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by Timarodear(f): 8:09pm On Aug 17, 2016
Madam please stop calling and seeing your dear husband as one minute man. that's the first step, encourage him and let him know you understand his plight, then visit the doctor together for counseling! peace.

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Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by Edoblakky(m): 8:10pm On Aug 17, 2016
https://www.nairaland.com/2678541/how-last-longer-bed-men

I opened the above thread to solve issues such as this one.
Many ignorant people will tell you reduce sugar intake.
The technique I put up above describes very simple exercises to eliminate premature eja.culation.

Go through the thread and see for yourself.
Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by Afriface: 8:10pm On Aug 17, 2016
No Big Deal!

Tell him to visit www.askmegaman.com for a solution to his problem
Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by honestpoju: 8:10pm On Aug 17, 2016
teekol:
Hello fellow nairalanders, I got married in January this year and I have not enjoyed my husband for once. I mean he is okay in other aspects but in the bedroom, he doesn't satisfy me . He barely lasts up to 5 minutes and it is really frustrating considering the fact that I have been in other relationships in the past and I know what a good sex feels like. My husband is tired , so am I. Anyone with a reasonable solution please?No insults, only reasonable comments. Thanks
Visit a doctor my dear.....
Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by bullabawz77(m): 8:10pm On Aug 17, 2016
Tramadol 200mg 1hr b4 sex and see wonders

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Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by hardbody: 8:11pm On Aug 17, 2016
teekol:
Hello fellow nairalanders, I got married in January this year and I have not enjoyed my husband for once. I mean he is okay in other aspects but in the bedroom, he doesn't satisfy me . He barely lasts up to 5 minutes and it is really frustrating considering the fact that I have been in other relationships in the past and I know what a good sex feels like. My husband is tired , so am I. Anyone with a reasonable solution please?No insults, only reasonable comments. Thanks

This is the negative side of no sèx till after marriage.

PM me for a recommendation that works.
Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by Youngetskilz23(m): 8:11pm On Aug 17, 2016
buy samsu oil for him. with a capusule of vega 100. plus weed. grin thank me later

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Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by roymary: 8:12pm On Aug 17, 2016
teekol:
Hello fellow nairalanders, I got married in January this year and I have not enjoyed my husband for once. I mean he is okay in other aspects but in the bedroom, he doesn't satisfy me . He barely lasts up to 5 minutes and it is really frustrating considering the fact that I have been in other relationships in the past and I know what a good sex feels like. My husband is tired , so am I. Anyone with a reasonable solution please?No insults, only reasonable comments. Thanks

Stop feeding him RICE, EBA and Yam. He should stop drinking Alcohol. Have him run 1-2 miles every evening. It's a gradual process but he will improve.

Lastly, Have him think about BUHARI and APC while making love to you. He will never be excited- You Kumm outta excitement but setting his mind on Nigerian economy will never excite any human being.


DIET - Most important. Have him stay off starch for some months but replace that with Boiled Unripe Plantain and vegetable. Cook Beans.

Exercise: Equally important.

Alcohol- Men should only drink occasionally.

Mind Game during se x: Don't get too excited.

Love him regardless and understand his situation cos he will surely get better. You don't need 1 hour of love making to make babies anyway.

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Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by 4dor: 8:12pm On Aug 17, 2016
iLegend:


Sex is mental. He can be retrained.

teekol, this is the only person that knows what the real problem is. Listen to her.
Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by Bensam5060(m): 8:12pm On Aug 17, 2016
taking a cup of water all the time especially first thing in the morning before every meal.

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Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by alex81(m): 8:12pm On Aug 17, 2016
social media isn't d best place to bring issues such as ds to.

u and hubby shld go see and a doctor. he/she will b in d best position to advice u on wat to do.


cc: teekol

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Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by smartolala(m): 8:12pm On Aug 17, 2016
Get a copy of etrainer
Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by Flexherbal(m): 8:13pm On Aug 17, 2016
teekol:
Hello fellow nairalanders, I got married in January this year and I have not enjoyed my husband for once. I mean he is okay in other aspects but in the bedroom, he doesn't satisfy me . He barely lasts up to 5 minutes and it is really frustrating considering the fact that I have been in other relationships in the past and I know what a good sex feels like. My husband is tired , so am I. Anyone with a reasonable solution please?No insults, only reasonable comments. Thanks
Check my signature. That is all you need.
Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by kollysnut(m): 8:13pm On Aug 17, 2016
if ur serious, call dis number 08035688323
Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by blaqiz: 8:13pm On Aug 17, 2016
he should be taking much of fruit...........i belive it was a no sex till after wedding
Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by lollmaolol(m): 8:13pm On Aug 17, 2016
teekol:
Hello fellow nairalanders, I got married in January this year and I have not enjoyed my husband for once. I mean he is okay in other aspects but in the bedroom, he doesn't satisfy me . He barely lasts up to 5 minutes and it is really frustrating considering the fact that I have been in other relationships in the past and I know what a good sex feels like. My husband is tired , so am I. Anyone with a reasonable solution please?No insults, only reasonable comments. Thanks

Give him good food.

Encourage him to hit the gym, fitness is key.

Stop reporting him for your conscience sake. smiley
Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by Afriface: 8:14pm On Aug 17, 2016
With sexual experience and age, men often learn to delay orgasm. Premature ejaculation may occur with a new partner. It may happen only in certain sexual situations or if it has been a long time since the last ejaculation. Psychological factors such as anxiety, guilt, or depression can also cause it. Long time infection can also be a factor

visit www.terminateitnow.com

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Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by greenify: 8:14pm On Aug 17, 2016
teekol:
Hello fellow nairalanders, I got married in January this year and I have not enjoyed my husband for once. I mean he is okay in other aspects but in the bedroom, he doesn't satisfy me . He barely lasts up to 5 minutes and it is really frustrating considering the fact that I have been in other relationships in the past and I know what a good sex feels like. My husband is tired , so am I. Anyone with a reasonable solution please?No insults, only reasonable comments. Thanks
@op on this issue, I have heard from many married men dat complained of not satisfying their wife on d bed but they can have sex for longer period with their girl friends outside. I don't know Wht is d cause of this but I know it happens.
I know if your husband have sex with new lady he will perform better. This is psychology.

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Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by Boyooosa(m): 8:15pm On Aug 17, 2016
kolomax:
When a wife complains of her husband's sexual weakness, I ask her, what have you done to increase his sexual prowess? ?

The kind of food you feed your husband could make him perform soo poorly.

Sex is not an individual responsibility since both of you engage in it and enjoy it. Sex must be enjoyed equally.



If this is the case, wives you have a big role to play not by only inviting him to bed but helping him last longer in bed and doing the work excellently .

Let me remind you of Ginger and dried dates.

Ginger is a powerful natural aphrodisiac, increases sexual prowess, increase libido and makes one stay longer in bed.

Dear wives, when your lovely husband return from work in the evening and after serving his meal, just give him Ginger Juice.

Place ginger into a blender, cover with 1 and half cup of water and blend until ginger is thick and pasty. Strain and squeeze juice from ginger, place it on fire and allow it to heat a little bit then give it to oga to drink. he will climb mountain Everest with ease.

I have a friend who told me after making love to his wife just one round he fell off. Then his wife went to the kitchen, grinned ginger and inserted it into her vagina , that very moment his boneless leg became very hard and he climbed Kalahari mountain twice.

As for dates, make sure you both eat if before taking little of your 3 daily meals, it gives alot
(C&P)
@op pls if this works for u, mention me
Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by monerozi5590: 8:15pm On Aug 17, 2016
kay4fun:

Here are two methods recommended to stop premature ejaculation. Stop-and-start method: Have intercourse as usual until you feel yourself coming uncomfortably close to orgasm. Immediately and abruptly, cease all stimulation for 30 seconds, and then start again. Repeat this pattern until you’re ready to ejaculate. Squeeze method: Have intercourse as usual until you feel like orgasm is seconds away. Abruptly, stop other stimulation and gently squeeze your thumb and forefinger around the part of the penis where the glans meet the shaft (or your wife could do this).

After squeezing for a few seconds, try and pause all stimulation for another 30 seconds before resuming intercourse. Repeat this pattern until you’re ready to ejaculate.

Then try and change sexual positions. Some intercourse positions put less pressure on the glans (or the most sensitive part of the penis). Here’s what to do: Try “passive” positions. Lie beneath your wife, or try a side-by-side (or spooning) position. Avoid “active” positions.

Missionary and rear-entry positions place the most stimulation and friction on the glans, so consider taking them off the menu for now. And then take it slow. Depending on your personal sensitivity, slowing your movements and opting for gentler, more teasing intercourse can help you hold off orgasm longer. If you find yourself getting too close to orgasm, slow down a bit, change to a new position, or take a break to stimulate your wife in fore play. Make sure you focus on pre-intimacy.

Sometimes, “premature” ejaculation is a frame of mind. Even if your ejaculation comes quickly during intercourse, you can still give your wife a great sexual experience through more extended, intimate, attentive and generous pre-intimacy. Stimulate your wife enough manually, orally or with toys, and she may not need or want a long session of intercourse to finish happy.

Then of course, do PC muscle exercises. Flexing and strengthening your pubococcygeus (PC) muscle can help you exert more control over ejaculation. (Note that this is also called Kegel exercises, which you might have heard me recommend for women. The muscle is the same in both sexes.) Locate your PC muscle. Put one or two fingers right behind your testicles.

Pretend that you are urinating, and then try to stop the flow with a quick muscle contraction. That muscle you just used to stop the flow from the bladder is your PC muscle. Flex the muscle regularly. Try to do 10 to 20 squeezes in a set, 2 or 3 times a day. Do a set whenever you’re bored or stationary, like when you’re sitting at your desk or in traffic. No one will be able to see that you’re doing them. Squeeze your PC muscle when you feel ejaculation coming on. Once the muscle is strong enough, you should be able to hold it off just like stopping flow when urinating. Practise controlling your orgasm. When you are with your wife, focus on improving your control over your climax. Stimulate yourself to the edge of climax and then stop.

Do this several times before finishing. As you practise, learn to recognise the feeling of getting close to orgasm, and take note of how close you can get and still effectively stop, and when you’ve reached a “point of no return.” During intercourse, use that knowledge to slow down or adjust your movements if you get too close too early. Condoms reduce stimulation for most men, which should prolong the time before ejaculation. But while looking for a condom to buy, steer clear of condoms that are marketed as extra thin. Instead, get a brand that allows more stimulation later. Some condoms are coated with a slight numbing gel on the inside. This can help you put off ejaculation for longer without causing numbness to your wife. (Just make sure you know which side is where when you put it on.) Use an analgesic cream or spray. There are two classes of these products. The first is the traditional “numbing” creams and sprays that have been in the market for some time. The advantage is that you’ll feel less sensation, which will delay ejaculation. While the disadvantage is that your wife may suffer a loss of sensation as well and of course less sensitive intercourse is not always an appealing notion, even in these circumstances. There is a new class of topical herbs that absorb into the skin to deliver a mild anaesthetic to the sensory nerves below the top layer of skin of the penis.

This allows men to have ejaculatory control but with less loss of sexual sensation, and reduces the transference to their wives. If you routinely ejaculate less than a minute and a half after beginning vaginal intercourse, and none of the above fixes have worked, it might be time to see a sex therapist.

Courtesy: Funmi Akingbade
http://naijanursesforum.com/viewtopic.php?f=20&t=779&p=1494
..............this is just d best solution... period!
Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by Tkayhandsome(m): 8:15pm On Aug 17, 2016
No wonder bible say flee formication. If you haven't tasted other dicks, you wouldnt know which one is mind blowing sex. I just pray you don't cheat. Did you even court at all?
teekol:
Hello fellow nairalanders, I got married in January this year and I have not enjoyed my husband for once. I mean he is okay in other aspects but in the bedroom, he doesn't satisfy me . He barely lasts up to 5 minutes and it is really frustrating considering the fact that I have been in other relationships in the past and I know what a good sex feels like. My husband is tired , so am I. Anyone with a reasonable solution please?No insults, only reasonable comments. Thanks

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Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by Tunagee(m): 8:15pm On Aug 17, 2016
mabelinah:
Hi lady,don't forget u married him because of that thing under his trousers,is better u find solution to it yourself by taking him out

The most foolish comment so far.

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Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by pippimp(m): 8:15pm On Aug 17, 2016
teekol:
Hello fellow nairalanders, I got married in January this year and I have not enjoyed my husband for once. I mean he is okay in other aspects but in the bedroom, he doesn't satisfy me . He barely lasts up to 5 minutes and it is really frustrating considering the fact that I have been in other relationships in the past and I know what a good sex feels like. My husband is tired , so am I. Anyone with a reasonable solution please?No insults, only reasonable comments. Thanks


This is why you have to have plenty of responsible sex before marriage. The worst thing that can happen to you is to be stuck with a partner you are not compatible with sexually. That is a recipe for disaster. The best advice i can give you is to talk to him and suggest using viagra.
Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by Osujonajokross(m): 8:15pm On Aug 17, 2016
teekol:
Hello fellow nairalanders, I got married in January this year and I have not enjoyed my husband for once. I mean he is okay in other aspects but in the bedroom, he doesn't satisfy me . He barely lasts up to 5 minutes and it is really frustrating considering the fact that I have been in other relationships in the past and I know what a good sex feels like. My husband is tired , so am I. Anyone with a reasonable solution please?No insults, only reasonable comments. Thanks
Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by Nobody: 8:16pm On Aug 17, 2016
teekol:
Hello fellow nairalanders, I got married in January this year and I have not enjoyed my husband for once. I mean he is okay in other aspects but in the bedroom, he doesn't satisfy me . He barely lasts up to 5 minutes and it is really frustrating considering the fact that I have been in other relationships in the past and I know what a good sex feels like. My husband is tired , so am I. Anyone with a reasonable solution please?No insults, only reasonable comments. Thanks

There are drugs to help him. Write your email and I'll give you a list of recommendations.
Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by oblak00(m): 8:16pm On Aug 17, 2016
There was a night I took three bottles of star after which I progressed to have sex with a lady. Normally I would last just 4 minutes but after drinking the alcohol, It was very difficult for me to release and I lasted up to 12 minutes. Maybe he should try it

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Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by LaExpert: 8:16pm On Aug 17, 2016
teekol:
Hello fellow nairalanders, I got married in January this year and I have not enjoyed my husband for once. I mean he is okay in other aspects but in the bedroom, he doesn't satisfy me . He barely lasts up to 5 minutes and it is really frustrating considering the fact that I have been in other relationships in the past and I know what a good sex feels like. My husband is tired , so am I. Anyone with a reasonable solution please?No insults, only reasonable comments. Thanks

contact Flexherbal.

I've heard lots of testimonies from people about him.
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Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by ogawisdom(m): 8:17pm On Aug 17, 2016
teekol:
Hello fellow nairalanders, I got married in January this year and I have not enjoyed my husband for once. I mean he is okay in other aspects but in the bedroom, he doesn't satisfy me . He barely lasts up to 5 minutes and it is really frustrating considering the fact that I have been in other relationships in the past and I know what a good sex feels like. My husband is tired , so am I. Anyone with a reasonable solution please?No insults, only reasonable comments. Thanks

Sex is over rated

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