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Re: Reasons Why Married Women Should Ignore Their Cheating Husbands. by maclatunji: 6:51pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
KanwuliaExtra: Hmmmnn, you have not changed preaching this wrong approach to women. |
Re: Reasons Why Married Women Should Ignore Their Cheating Husbands. by EfemenaXY: 6:57pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
maclatunji: Oga you still dey? Longest time. Howdy?? |
Re: Reasons Why Married Women Should Ignore Their Cheating Husbands. by maclatunji: 7:55pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
EfemenaXY: Yes Ma, we still dey and take God for life. Hope you and the crew around here are all doing great. Saw post this morning, I heard she has transformed to an 'angel' #Hehe |
Re: Reasons Why Married Women Should Ignore Their Cheating Husbands. by EfemenaXY: 8:26pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
maclatunji: Lol! Times have changed na. D'you still write / review stories? I've good good memories of our Continue The Lola Story... You and Ihedinobi - my no.1 nland critics |
Re: Reasons Why Married Women Should Ignore Their Cheating Husbands. by Nobody: 5:58am On Jul 18, 2016 |
Men aren't polygamous by nature ogbeni. Just the way you Christians say it wasn't "Adam and Steve", well it wasn't "Adam and Eve and Joseline and Lisa" either. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reasons Why Married Women Should Ignore Their Cheating Husbands. by CrazyMan(m): 6:58am On Jul 18, 2016 |
LaJose78:So you'd rather encourage young wives to turn a blind eye on their husbands hyper active sexual lifestyle. Including sleeping with the maid and attempting to rape her underage niece, and bother more about the trip to dubai, new dress he promised, the perfume or wrist watch he got for you last night. Oh well! Thank God you aren't a marriage councilor. LaJose78:And how exactly did you arrive at this statistics that 90% of married men cheat on their wives? So according to you out of every 100 men 90 are chronic cheats? Lord have mercy! You should know that not all men have high libido. And if you're very conversant with current news, you'll discover that most divorce cases pending in our courts today are being instigated by the wives on the grounds that the man cannot satisfy them sexually, hence their decision to end the marriage. Truth is if you see a man cheating on his wife, then know that the woman has a hand in his promiscuity. LaJose78:Marriage is for matured people. You can't tell me that you love and respect your family (wife and kids) and still cheat on them. If both of us are business partners, and you respect me, you wouldn't cheat me regardless of how little the profit we're meant to share is. Being a man doesn't mean sleeping with your wife alone and ensuring you satisfy her sexually and materially. Its also the ability to control one's sexual desires when your wife is in no position to help you out (during childbirth, menstruation...etc). You must be able to tell yourself I'm married and I love my family so I wouldn't engage in such act. That's the maturity I'm talking about. Truth is you wouldn't cheat on a woman you love. Your conscience wouldn't let you do it. So if you're the type that constantly cheat on your wife with little or no remorse felt after the act, then the love you have for her (your wife) is zero percent. LaJose78:Its just an expression...it will only become a reality when you begin to play the role of a "he goat" in your marriage just to satisfy your selfish sexual desires. LaJose78:I disagree. Whoever wrote that article is just a teenager who has little or no knowledge about the institution called marriage. The reason why the love you had for her deprecated is because you married her based on her beautiful face and sweet body and not because she was your friend. When you love a woman and become her best friend it will be impossible to spend the night outside your home with another lady. Why because you two wouldn't be able to stay without each other even for a second. LaJose78:This is the dumbest advice I've come across in a while. So she should play dumb and expose herself and kids to sexually transmitted diseases as a result of his promiscuity simply because he's providing for them? What makes you feel the woman can't provide for herself as well? And why should the woman be totally dependent on the man to the extent that he'll begin to cheat openly and you (the woman) will play the mute role simple because he's providing for you? That's slavery if you ask me. Women should learn to be financially independent if you want your husbands to take you seriously. You shouldn't dump the financial burden on the man, unless sooner or later he'll begin to grumble. A woman who depends solely on her husband for financial assistance with zero contribution coming from her own end will be regarded as a parasite whether or not her husband is cheating on her. LaJose78:So provided I have some cash to spend its ok for me to cheat right? Cheating destroys a home regardless of how faithful you are to your wife. She'll eventually discover your dirty little secrete and decide to pay you back by cheating as well. Then what will be your gain when you discover that the carpenter whom you patronize on daily basis and give tips as well is screwing your wife? Cos most women when they want to get back at you, they cheat with guys far below you. LaJose78: You've failed as a husband and you're just trying to justify your acts by dragging pastors into your mess. I feel so sorry for your wife cos she's the one who will suffer more. Any man who listens to the voice of his manhood rather than his heart will encounter problems in life. What if this girl of yours decide to get you drunk and have unprotected sex with you? What then? Then pop out one morning and tell you she's pregnant and abortion isn't an option. What will you do? 8 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Reasons Why Married Women Should Ignore Their Cheating Husbands. by Mopricelezz(f): 7:32am On Jul 18, 2016 |
CrazyMan: God Bless You So Much For This.. 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why Married Women Should Ignore Their Cheating Husbands. by maclatunji: 9:28am On Jul 18, 2016 |
EfemenaXY: Time is scarce for literary appreciation O, maybe in a few years sha. |
Re: Reasons Why Married Women Should Ignore Their Cheating Husbands. by WetSmoke: 12:13pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
its weak men that cheat. they have no strength for self control and cant discipline themselves. he who has found a wife, has found a good thing and obtains favour from the Lord. if you cheat on ur wife the reverse will be the case for you. u r cursed. 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why Married Women Should Ignore Their Cheating Husbands. by imurboss: 3:36pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
Ioannes: Thank you and God bless you! 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why Married Women Should Ignore Their Cheating Husbands. by Nobody: 4:42pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
imurboss: God bless you too plenty plenty. |
Re: Reasons Why Married Women Should Ignore Their Cheating Husbands. by Fiwasayo(f): 5:27pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
Ioannes: Wow....preach it on brother,do preach to them. cheating with respect 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why Married Women Should Ignore Their Cheating Husbands. by Nobody: 8:58pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
Fiwasayo: Lol. |
Re: Reasons Why Married Women Should Ignore Their Cheating Husbands. by KanwuliaExtra: 3:02am On Aug 03, 2016 |
maclatunji: Change ke? I resembooo APC BROOM? |
Re: Reasons Why Married Women Should Ignore Their Cheating Husbands. by KanwuliaExtra: 3:03am On Aug 03, 2016 |
EfemenaXY: Hello dia!!!! My birthday is still 2 months away. Thanks in advance. |
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