Fhemmmy:

No matter where you give birth to a child, the presence of the father and the mother as the role model is so important.
Give birth to a child in America and neglect the child, they will be worse than Ajegunle kids, have you ever seen people with opportunities and yet have no clue how to take advantage of those?
Just love your kids and plan the best for them, and regardless of where they were born and raised, they will get to the promise land

posakosa:

Have you ever heard stories of father= professor, mother=professor, , child= a useless Arrow. 

It takes prayer and a lot of direction. Even when the parents are the perfect role models, Children do not always turn out soo well.

Location matters IMO. But prayer, direction, and understanding also help.

I hear children these days <in Nigeria> start joining cults from secondary school. not sure how true this is.

posakosa:

Have you ever heard stories of father= professor, mother=professor, , child= a useless Arrow.  

posakosa:

It takes prayer and a lot of direction. Even when the parents are the perfect role models, Children do not always turn out soo well.

posakosa:



Location matters IMO. But prayer, direction, and understanding also help.

chic2pimp:

.Of course location matters. A child brought up in surbabian america is more likely to have been better trained @ home  than a kid brough up in ajegunle.

posakosa:

or Urban America,

posakosa:

Give birth to your child in America, Nothing beats a U.S. citizenship, then mail your child home immediately for boarding school and then bring them back up here for UNI.


Often times though, religion help direct a child's path regardless of where they are raised.

sweetpie23:

now people go by mail also

~Sissy~:

born and raise your kids in north america, east america, northern nigeria, southnorth, westeast, or southwest. wherever, all that matters most is your

parental skills, disciplinary skills, and your commitment to your role as a parent. parenting is the hardest and sometimes in many instances most rewarding ever. and more often than none, what you put in, is what you get.

while sometimes the environment plays a role in this, to me it matters less(imho) compared to the other things listed. you will see a child raised in suburban who still turn out bad compared to the one raised in a rural area. there are bad influences everywhere. there isnt a perfect place to raise kids.

Word though i would like them to experience survivor style boarding school

canuck:

Parents who send their kids to naija boarding schools have no clue what they're exposing their kids to - From personal experiences of my contacts who did so, only about 20% of the kids turn out well, The majority of the kids are wayward because papa/mama dey obodo oyinbo dey slave for dollars/sterling.

posakosa:

Give birth to your child in America, Nothing beats a U.S. citizenship, then mail your child home immediately for boarding school and then bring them back up here for UNI.


Often times though, religion help direct a child's path regardless of where they are raised.