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How To Stop Your Child From Lying by anike85: 7:16pm On Jul 13, 2016
Femi is a young boy of six from a small town in Nigeria. He spoiled a toy in school and was confronted by his teacher. Instead of telling his teacher the truth, he decided to lie that his brother did it. The teacher punished Femi’s brother by flogging him in front of the assembled student the next morning.
You might have had a similar story; even your child might have done something similar to this. What will you do? Will you just leave him believing that he will change has he grows older. That would be an erroneous thinking. If you want your child to grow up to be a respectable, morally upright adult, then you need to come in.
HOW TO STOP YOUR CHILD FROM LYING
MAKE YOUR CHILD BELIEVE THAT ALL LIES ARE BAD
Some people believe that there is a white lie which is good and there is a black lie which is bad. If you are also an advocate of this philosophy, then it will be difficult for you to help your child who lies. Human has this psychological ability to turn something that is bad to good. All that is required; is to consistently assure yourself that this thing that people believe is bad is good for me.
This psychology ability of human goes through three stages:
The first stage is; wishing that something that is bad is good
The second stage is; believing that what is bad is not all that bad
The final stage is; totally convinced that what is bad is good
How does this psychological reasoning affect your child you might ask?
Children are very smart. If you believe in this theory of white and black lie, they will sense it in your utterances and it won’t be long before they start turning those lies you termed as black to white on their head.
KNOW THE TYPE OF LIES THAT IS BEING TOLD BY YOUR CHILD
We have three different types of lies
1. Malicious lies: These are lies that are told to harm another person.
2. Pressure of the moment lies: These lies are told under the pressure of the moment perhaps to avoid embarrassment or punishment.
3. Normal lies: These lies are http://mywardandi.com.ng/2016/07/13/how-to-stop-your-child-from-lying/

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Re: How To Stop Your Child From Lying by Khaliyah(m): 7:23pm On Jul 13, 2016
Ok!!! I have heard
Re: How To Stop Your Child From Lying by sweetginger(m): 2:13am On Jul 14, 2016
It's also very good to be close to your children so as to detect any unwanted behavior early and also give explanations and advice after every punishment.

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