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Re: Female Genital Mutilation: Woman And Husband Escapes With Children (pic) by SaffronSpice: 3:46pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
So this guy had to invent this ruse to get asylum LOL. Where do people beat up parents for not allowing their child to get circumcised? Hehehe . |
Re: Female Genital Mutilation: Woman And Husband Escapes With Children (pic) by MayorofLagos(m): 4:29pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
HungerBAD: Economically, it is very bad in the country at moment. Add to that high level of insecurity everywhere. Getting visa to travel out is also highly difficult. It is so terrible in Nigeria that a visa to Cambodia is celebrated as a success. So people find loopholes in the system to exploit. There are controversial hot topics, often defined around cultural values in the West, embodied by the media as standard practice and packaged as liberty under democratic principles. Some are as follows: 1 - gay and lesbian rights 2 - transgender and gender change identity 3 - non binary identity 4 - female circumcision 5 - abortion rights ...and so on. So if a person can make a convincing claim, as these couple have done, however absurd it sounds, to hint and produce evidence on social media that their liberty of life is threatened and they are victim or targeted under any of these hot points, then they will be contacted and soon be sponsored by a rights advocacy group from a Western country. It is untrue that Yoruba practice female circumcision. There are numerous Yoruba cultural rites and texts that attest to the female as a equal and powerful gender. There is even a deity in the culture and which is venerated as the gateway of cosmic benevolence. However, these parents have a need and are exploiting the culture, falsely, to meet that need. 2 Likes |
Re: Female Genital Mutilation: Woman And Husband Escapes With Children (pic) by JustHere2Observ(f): 5:26pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
Oh Africa, oh Mother Africa! Cry for your children. |
Re: Female Genital Mutilation: Woman And Husband Escapes With Children (pic) by kulumo: 6:37pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
sademola:The story is unbelievable my Brother. The place where he was beaten doesn't have a name, state , local government? This is a news publication to corroborate asylum abroad I believe. No culture in the entire Southwest will do this to anyone for genital mutilation. It's a sponsored propaganda to procure or backup an asylum application abroad. Afterall. Oyinbos finds it hard to recognize blacks let alone one with a swollen face. 1 Like |
Re: Female Genital Mutilation: Woman And Husband Escapes With Children (pic) by lolaluv1(f): 7:33pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
Ramcie: Which is why it's good to do KYC (know your customer) before getting hitched. God forbid bad thing. I'll fight with everything I've got even if I didn't know before getting married to him. |
Re: Female Genital Mutilation: Woman And Husband Escapes With Children (pic) by lolaluv1(f): 7:46pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
hoodboy: Which one is safe FGM? Research actually shows that circumcision done on a male could be beneficial as the foreskin can harbour dirt, bacteria and become infected. It also does not affect a man's sexuality and if anything, heightens his sexual experience. For a female, the least done is to cut off the clitoris which makes her to not enjoy sex. It could also lead to issues during childbirth and is a very traumatic experience for those who experience it. The irony (for those who think it keeps a girl decent), is that she could start sleeping around in the search for elusive satisfaction. In fact, I know someone who made a sex tape with a girl who comes from such a culture. Also, Edo girls are mostly circumcised, and you and I know what's up with a lot of Edo girls.... It's time we teach our daughters restraint and self control while single. But when it is time, she also has the right to enjoy sex. 3 Likes |
Re: Female Genital Mutilation: Woman And Husband Escapes With Children (pic) by Ramcie(f): 7:53pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
lolaluv1: Same here I'll never take such. It's barbaric what nonsense. I'm sure if she had spoken out they won't do it but you know how some women can be just for the Inlaws to see them as the best 1 Like |
Re: Female Genital Mutilation: Woman And Husband Escapes With Children (pic) by organicfoods(m): 8:00pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
This story Looks like a lie...what is the name of the community?...the names of the kinsmen that are not battling this Buhari time and have time for enforcing genital mutilation. |
Re: Female Genital Mutilation: Woman And Husband Escapes With Children (pic) by hoodboy(m): 9:28pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
sonnie10: Please enlighten me, how do you know female circumcision has no health benefits? just to let you know that same way some scholars say it has no benefits is the same way other scholars argue that it does, just that research around female circumcision is poorly funded and largely ignored due to western bias. How do you know male circumcision has any health benefit, beyond the religious injunction that makes it acceptable to the people who promote it? All I am saying is don't criminalise female circumcision, rather, promote healthy ways to go about it e.g. the ability to get it done by trained professionals in a clinic using industry set safety standards |
Re: Female Genital Mutilation: Woman And Husband Escapes With Children (pic) by hoodboy(m): 9:46pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
SaffronSpice: for your information, there are different types of female genital cutting that vary in degree of what is cut off. all i'm saying is if male circumcision is ethically okay, so also is female circumcision, however cultures that allow it should be sensitised so as to reduce identified risk, such as too much cutting or disease transfer through unsterilised equipment. Just so you know there are cases of male circumcisions that are quite harmful, http://ulwaluko.co.za/Photos.html |
Re: Female Genital Mutilation: Woman And Husband Escapes With Children (pic) by fm4real2k6(m): 5:44am On Jul 25, 2016 |
Well it is REAL . I even heard in a particular state, their Government Hospitals does this. For me I desire to do a documentary on this. I need a good Investigative Journalist or individual and someone/company that can produce a CNN-standard Documentary. You can call or whatsapp me on +2348066920770 Its urgent plz, let saves lives. |
Re: Female Genital Mutilation: Woman And Husband Escapes With Children (pic) by TRHM: 6:11am On Jul 25, 2016 |
lolaluv1: what you said is total nonsense! first, you owe Edo girls an apology..... Female circumcision has been practiced by dozens of African cultures for centuries in Ethiopia, Erithrea, Nigeria, etc. here in Nigeria, the Igbos and most southern communities are well known for practicing it and it is extremely beneficial in terms of hygiene. it's sad now that western countries are pushing their stupid culture on us under the guise of female liberation and they always find something in African culture to attack and at the same time, they want us to start practicing their homosexual and pedophiliac cultures. let's look at your logic.... you said girls who are circumcised don't enjoy sex.... that is total rubbish. i know (and have been with) dozens of circumcised girls who totally enjoy sex... sexual satisfaction is a function of the person you are doing it with, love and personal mood. there is no scientific research to support that it's better for those who are uncircumcised. also, circumcision has NO negative impact during childbirth.... infact, it's the other way round as those who are uncircumcised are easily exposed to diseases that can affect them during childbirth. most veginal infections are air/water bourn which can easily stick to a flapping clitoris during urination or just squatting down. Also, the danger of sleeping around is mostly found with uncircumcised girls because they cannot be easily satisfied sexually. girls who are not circumcised, their men don't easily satisfy them... and they mostly resort to lesbianism, sleeping with different men, using all kinds of dildos and other forms to satisfy their ever raging sexual urges. It's sad that most ppl in this forum are condemning female circumcision as a bad practice without any proof of its adverse impact. they don't know that the western cultures that are pushing these practices on us are not doing it because they love us so much.... Oyibo ppl don't give a flying (cow dung) about our girls... they are only trying to get us to relinquish our culture and copy theirs. and, as long as Africans keep copying oyibo culture, Africa will never be free. |
Re: Female Genital Mutilation: Woman And Husband Escapes With Children (pic) by SaffronSpice: 10:47am On Jul 25, 2016 |
hoodboy:The anatomy of the female g3nitalia is such that even little mutilation can be dangerous. I can't remember saying male circumcision is unharmful;I only hinted at the difference in the tissues removed in both cases and its effect on their sex life. 1 Like |
Re: Female Genital Mutilation: Woman And Husband Escapes With Children (pic) by hoodboy(m): 10:50am On Jul 25, 2016 |
SaffronSpice: And who told you i hasn't affected our sex life, I've read that uncircumcised men get heightened sensation as against circumcised men. Plus like they say what you don't know won't kill you, just like a lady here that said she didn't know she was circumcised till her bf told her.. if he was none the wiser, i'm sure they would have carried on like there was nothing amiss. Westerners tell you little mutilations can be dangerous, yet it's not illegal to get piercings and what not in the very same Instruments |
Re: Female Genital Mutilation: Woman And Husband Escapes With Children (pic) by SaffronSpice: 11:04am On Jul 25, 2016 |
hoodboy:This is not about Westerners or piercings. Anyway, a circumcised willy looks better than an uncircumcised one(no homo),and "heightened sensation" is subjective. It depends on the ability of who is using the tool(no homo). |
Re: Female Genital Mutilation: Woman And Husband Escapes With Children (pic) by Klare(f): 2:06pm On Jul 25, 2016 |
HaneefahRN: Its still pratice |
Re: Female Genital Mutilation: Woman And Husband Escapes With Children (pic) by lolaluv1(f): 8:35pm On Jul 25, 2016 |
TRHM: I read your long epistle and I'm lmao here. You are soooo ignorant. Flapping clitoris ko, flying clitoris ni! In your ignorance you alluded to the fact that you slept with numerous circumcised girls. Thought the circumcision was supposed to make them remain virgins. And stitching shut the vagina and scar tissue from circumcision cannot cause birth issues, Abi? What level of education have you attained please?? 2 Likes |
Re: Female Genital Mutilation: Woman And Husband Escapes With Children (pic) by TRHM: 7:00am On Jul 26, 2016 |
lolaluv1: flapping female clit...you know, that thing that causes your camel toe. my education level is not important at this point, just know that it's sufficient to expose your crappy logic.... you call someone ignorant, but you don't seem to understand auto-correct for vulgarities. (i expect you to understand that nairaland auto corrects some words..... like Clits....) actually, there is no stitching with circumcision, it usually heals within 4-5 days. perhaps you shouldn't talk about circumcision as you really don't know much about it. and circumcision is not done in the vagina .... its done in the clit.... as someone who has one of those, you should know the difference. i didn't say circumcision is done to keep girls virgins.... i said it's mostly done for hygienic purposes. |
Re: Female Genital Mutilation: Woman And Husband Escapes With Children (pic) by chiraqDemon(m): 6:39pm On Aug 10, 2016 |
So u mean most of them nor get cletoris ...eiyah so dem never enjoy d koko wey if i suck my babe she go be like who wan faint....im just pitying them....btw i never heard this in my side..aks...its just barbaric. ...btw wetin concern d ppl wey beat am.....if e nor wan do free am And in other news send d man back to naija....my town nor de practice this thing so instead of am to use excuse gain papers go overpopulate person country make e come back come live for my town.....now because of the way he will explain this practice to the white ppl they will now be thinking that all of naija is full of barbarians |
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