Don't feel too important about yourself as regards your relationship with people.

Don't feel people will always come to your aid when you need them, because the truth is that everyone needs help but the kind and volume of help and varies.

You do not need to hold grudge against people when they fail even when you think they are physically fine.

Do not forget the power of the cloth we wear, the make up and the beautiful smile that portrays one to be happy even when fire is burning under the cloth.

Please, no one owes you anything as you do not owe them any responsibility, if you are assisted by chance just be grateful and if those you think will rise up to your aid fails, just keep putting them in prayers because you don't know the true colour of what they are going through since appearance is not reality.

When you ask for help from people, no matter how sure you are about the person, it is advisable not to rely on it because anything can rise up, life isn't bed of roses and what no one ever expected may just arise which might not be their fault.

They shouldn't be the determinant of your destiny. Their disappointment should be your strength and their approval should be just a booster.

We are humans and are bound to have issues which you must put into consideration when seeking financial assistance especially.

Something that is certain is that if it has been destined that you will be assisted by that person nothing can change it. And if fate has it that you will be assisted by that person, you don't need to stress too much as it has happened even before you ask.

Always be ready for whatever the outcome of you seeking assistance from people will be without any emotional attachment, because they that you are asking for assistance from also have one thing or the other they cater for.


Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2016/07/they-didnt-help-you-do-not-mean-they.html

You were doing well until you involved the destiny part.