Family is indeed important but this new trend is worrisome!

I know there are many benefits as well as disadvantages of a typical African extended family system. However, this new trend in which pressure is mounted so much on young boys and girls who are trying to grow (make a living) is becoming too rampant now-a-days.

A situation where a young man or lady who's working or doing business and needs to pay his/her bills ( and perhaps settle down too) receives so much financial pressure from family members (and friends) such that it adversely affects his/her growth; is this good for us? How can this trend be corrected?