1. Just because you did not flourish the first time does not mean you are not valuable. Maybe you are not yet valuable to others but there are hidden potential in you.
2. Don’t let the assessment of others determine your future. Their negative prophecies is not the correct assertion of your future.
3. You may need to change your environment in order to flourish. Maybe leave that friendship, that place etc You need the atmosphere that encourages your development and not where you are judged. You need a place that value you NOW for who you are as they work with you to become who you want to be - very important!.
4. If you develop yourself, you can later be accepted where you were rejected.
5. People do not owe you acceptance, you have no right to their favours! It is YOUR JOB to develop your competence and they will ‘like’ you based on merit. Now you can dictate your terms because now you are valuable to them and they need you.
6. Your value is in your development. Your income is tied to your value and the perceived value you can add. Find out how to ‘develop your brilliance’ and dedicate your life to it, it will soon affect your income.
7. Be decisive, be very very decisive. Leave when you think you should. Do what you think you should.
8. "Never cry over spilled milk”…so it did not work out? Let it go. Forgive yourself and forgive others too and never say never in your disappointments. Don’t make decisions from your hurt. Move on, it can truly get better if you decide to focus on the true essentials. There is a difference between your life and what happens to you, so focus on your life and not on what happened to you.
9. LIVE IN FULLNESS EVERYDAY