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Just Been Married For 7 Months Wife Files For Divorce by Igodieo: 3:54am On Oct 07, 2009 |
Just been Married for 7 months wife files for divorce. Reasons. She is not getting what she wants at the right time. I have never refused her anything but provide it when i have the means. Latest request is a FREELANDER. last request was a blackberry storm, which she has just got. she says she does not love me anymore. what should I do people. |
Re: Just Been Married For 7 Months Wife Files For Divorce by Nobody: 7:12am On Oct 07, 2009 |
Re: Just Been Married For 7 Months Wife Files For Divorce by Nobody: 7:45am On Oct 07, 2009 |
Who are all these liar opening topics just to promote gender bashing.So your wife divorced you cuz you couldn't buy her some stuffs that the biggest lie i've heard. Even sluts that are married don't divorce for that.Only in nairaland |
Re: Just Been Married For 7 Months Wife Files For Divorce by 190: 8:37am On Oct 07, 2009 |
POSTER Ur wife is devoricing u cos of things like dis read https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-333780.0.html#msg4682643 |
Re: Just Been Married For 7 Months Wife Files For Divorce by Nobody: 9:01am On Oct 07, 2009 |
That's a very unreasonable story Come oh, must you post a thread on NL |
Re: Just Been Married For 7 Months Wife Files For Divorce by Igodieo: 9:15am On Oct 07, 2009 |
Ujujoan:It is a very true story . who is entitled to post a thread on NL ? pc guru:Trust Nigerians, attitude. How can you call someone a liar when you don't know the facts. chaircover:Yes, I can. I think she is taking advantage. |
Re: Just Been Married For 7 Months Wife Files For Divorce by Igodieo: 9:25am On Oct 07, 2009 |
190: Yeo @190 you are right. That is exactly what happened. I think I have got the solution. I have to move on. She's been married before and has a son. I was trying to save the marriage but she is bent on breaking it. |
Re: Just Been Married For 7 Months Wife Files For Divorce by Nobody: 9:54am On Oct 07, 2009 |
Igodieo: I'm sorry okay? But your story is not convincing enough!! Why would she want to divorce you cos you dont want to buy her a car If at all what you are saying is true then the only explianation I can get is that for you to be able to afford all those things and decided to marry a woman who's divorced or widowed, den you are a probably divorced or widowed yourself. I'll bet you are years older than her and you promised her these things just to get her to marry you. Now you are married, you want to dodge! |
Re: Just Been Married For 7 Months Wife Files For Divorce by Igodieo: 11:12am On Oct 07, 2009 |
Ujujoan: Majority of men are older than their wife. That is correct. I did not promise her anything. There is an assumption in naija ,that when you live abroad you have money. I am not dodging. I am the one trying to save the marriage. |
Re: Just Been Married For 7 Months Wife Files For Divorce by Ournaija: 11:17am On Oct 07, 2009 |
I dont even know where to start from. Bros we need more info about you and her. Give us details of your courtship period and the 7 months of marriage. |
Re: Just Been Married For 7 Months Wife Files For Divorce by spikedcylinder: 11:20am On Oct 07, 2009 |
When you suspect all she needs are material things, there's a big problem. |
Re: Just Been Married For 7 Months Wife Files For Divorce by Nobody: 11:23am On Oct 07, 2009 |
Igodieo: I'm not saying you are older, I'm saying you are much older!! I'm with your statement (the one I highlightd). People assume? If I had a BF abroad and I cant even begin to expect him to buy me a freelander! Except of course he made me believe he can give it to me without batting an eyelid. Why then wont I get pissed if I ask for it and he refuses for no just cause!! I didnt say you are dodging out of the marriage, just out of the promise (of buying her a car or whatever you promised her). Men do it all the time, especially older men. If you really want to save your marriage, then give her what you promised to give her and next time before you make a promise, think twice!! * And dont give me that 'I didnt promise her anything crap. Cos you and I both know its not true!* |
Re: Just Been Married For 7 Months Wife Files For Divorce by Nobody: 11:27am On Oct 07, 2009 |
spikedcylinder: That's because he knows that was what he used to get her, and now he dosent want to give it. You see, he dosen't care that she misses him or thatshe thinks he dosen't treat her well enough, he just assumed her interest is in material things because that was what he offered in the first place! |
Re: Just Been Married For 7 Months Wife Files For Divorce by Ournaija: 11:28am On Oct 07, 2009 |
I dont even know where to start from. Bros we need more info about you and her. Give us details of your courtship period and the 7 months of marriage |
Re: Just Been Married For 7 Months Wife Files For Divorce by whitesturd(f): 11:31am On Oct 07, 2009 |
I cant afford to believe this, how will a reasonable woman want to get a divorce cos of a goddam car.i am |
Re: Just Been Married For 7 Months Wife Files For Divorce by Igodieo: 11:43am On Oct 07, 2009 |
Ujujoan: I think you just after me. I did not promise her anything. Used to get her? I have been to Nigeria 3 times this year just because of her. Ournaija: Like I said in my earlier post we did not court for long. But we've been friends online for about 2years I found out that there was a lot of pretence before the marriage. As I don marry her now wetin I go do? leave her ? Ladies and gentlemen I dey ask for solution that you may have. I nor say make una come attack me. |
Re: Just Been Married For 7 Months Wife Files For Divorce by Nobody: 12:26pm On Oct 07, 2009 |
Igodieo: *roooollz eyez* I'm after you like she's after your wealth abi? Paranoid! You came to Nigeria to see her cos you wanted to marry her. Dont act like you were doing her a favour! |
Re: Just Been Married For 7 Months Wife Files For Divorce by ifyalways(f): 12:36pm On Oct 07, 2009 |
Na wao for this story She filed for divorce,u dont want her to go,then get her the darn things now if u can afford it.If u cant afford it or u can afford it but u just dont see urself getting her those things u shld be in ur church having a thanksgiving. |
Re: Just Been Married For 7 Months Wife Files For Divorce by Nobody: 12:43pm On Oct 07, 2009 |
Re: Just Been Married For 7 Months Wife Files For Divorce by Igodieo: 2:08pm On Oct 07, 2009 |
chaircover: Thanks I appreciate this. ifyalways: Thank You very much. I have one week more to spare before I give up. It is not a do or die affair. Ujujoan: I don't want to marry her we are already married. All your discussions are always gbegy. Attitude . |
Re: Just Been Married For 7 Months Wife Files For Divorce by Nobody: 2:35pm On Oct 07, 2009 |
Igodieo: So why are you broadcasting that you came to Nigeria 3X in a year 'because' of your wife. Hmmn! Na wa oh! |
Re: Just Been Married For 7 Months Wife Files For Divorce by Igodieo: 3:57pm On Oct 07, 2009 |
You see, he dosen't care that she misses him or thatshe thinks he dosen't treat her well enough, he just assumed her interest is in material things because that was what he offered in the first place! I only said I came to Nigeria 3 times because of what you said above. It seems you are not following your own thread. wahala. |
Re: Just Been Married For 7 Months Wife Files For Divorce by Fhemmmy: 4:18pm On Oct 07, 2009 |
If he is divorcing you cos of all these things, then, count yourself lucky and go to church and have a thanksgiving that she is leaving. However, when you were dating her, did u promise her heaven on earth if you do, then, u are bound by your words. |
Re: Just Been Married For 7 Months Wife Files For Divorce by Igodieo: 4:47pm On Oct 07, 2009 |
Fhemmmy: Thanks for your advice, Honestly I did not promise her anything. Even at the time of marriage I told her I don't have a job because of the credit crunch. She said we will manage. |
Re: Just Been Married For 7 Months Wife Files For Divorce by Fhemmmy: 4:59pm On Oct 07, 2009 |
Igodieo: then, that means she is done managing, so u need to direct and let her go. managing is not for everyone. |
Re: Just Been Married For 7 Months Wife Files For Divorce by Nobody: 5:08pm On Oct 07, 2009 |
Thanks for your advice, Honestly I did not promise her anything. Even at the time of marriage I told her I don't have a job because of the credit crunch. She said we will manage. You don't have a job but you just said you could afford what she was requesting for! |
Re: Just Been Married For 7 Months Wife Files For Divorce by Fhemmmy: 5:09pm On Oct 07, 2009 |
Ujujoan: |
Re: Just Been Married For 7 Months Wife Files For Divorce by Igodieo: 5:36pm On Oct 07, 2009 |
@ Fhemmmy Just leave the woman alone. I think because I do respond to her thread that is why she is going on like broken record. She hasn't got nothing important to say. I have read all her previous contributions she is simply trouble. woooow ujujoan or whatever be you name I nor need your advice. |
Re: Just Been Married For 7 Months Wife Files For Divorce by Fhemmmy: 5:45pm On Oct 07, 2009 |
Igodieo: Lol |
Re: Just Been Married For 7 Months Wife Files For Divorce by rubi(f): 6:31pm On Oct 07, 2009 |
Igodieo: The highlighted statement is striking me I have a red flag on that I can tolerate her demand but adding that statement Your intelligent might be played |
Re: Just Been Married For 7 Months Wife Files For Divorce by Igodieo: 8:35pm On Oct 07, 2009 |
rubi: Thanks for your observation. I am getting stronger with every comment. |
Re: Just Been Married For 7 Months Wife Files For Divorce by Fhemmmy: 4:07am On Oct 08, 2009 |
Igodieo: good to hear |
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