Rosabelle:

So this evening I read around NL and checked out that 'most times' a thread doesnt get abusive until a man starts.

Rosabelle:

PS: Lets see who will start abusing me first!

tpia.:

@ topic

because thats how they'll handle their partners.

Baby Jinx:

NL men. . .Abusive?!! Well I never heard such a thing!!

They are not abusive. . .just misunderstood.

You know when they call women names, they are just trying to express their gentlemanliness.

You gotta learn to read between the lines when it comes to this perfect creatures called NL Men.

Next time one of 'em calls you a LovePeddler or slut. . . reach out and give him a hug because what he's really saying "You remind me of my mama"

When he calls you a slutty desperate and frustrated girl, what he's means is "You are almost at my sister's level but she's light years ahead of you"

See, understanding is the key, it is what makes the world go round.

Now let peace reign!!

adagz 01:

@poster,so u hav now finally decides 2 abuse d men in NL,i think u will hav a cup full of it, BICTH

netotse:

@OP
you too u hv mouth o, first time we "met" you were saying or implying (cant rem which) that all naija men are badly brought up!

There are a thousand and one females on this board who have multiple orgasm dissing guys.

tpia.:

@ topic

because thats how they'll handle their partners.

ChinenyeN:

Then what are you women doing besides complaining? Abi, boycott NL & Nigerian men. Or better yet, boycott all men. Is that so hard? Sheesh.

*Hauwa*:

stress due to their jobs and striking uni lecturer. some are hungry by the time they go to internet cafe. an hungry man is and angry man

ezeagu:

Most nairalanders are from the US and UK.

Rosabelle:

So this evening I read around NL and checked out that 'most times' a thread doesnt get abusive until a man starts.
I dont get it. Sometime ago, women used to be known as abuisve, talkative, gossips etc. Today, everywhere you look (especially in our culture), things are quiet until men enter the equation. They brull and stamp and basically act like they have to be heard at all costs.
Whats up with the trouble-looking attitude that MEN are beginning to develop so strongly.
Is it a lack of confidence or what?
Am I the only one who feels this way? Or have you noticed similar?

PS: Lets see who will start abusing me first!

ezeagu:

Because they have abusive mothers. . . .

sweetpie23:

fool

Rosabelle:

Not true. Most NLanders are from Lagos. You only have to check the way they abuse people. Its only lagosians I know in the whole of nigerian (and I dont mean yorubas', but basically people in lagos) that abuse people without break cos that place is crude and errodes all finery a human being can have