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Re: Domestic Violence: An Undeserved Experience For Women by henrydadon(m): 10:02pm On Nov 29, 2016 |
Re: Domestic Violence: An Undeserved Experience For Women by Lilac91: 10:05pm On Nov 29, 2016 |
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Re: Domestic Violence: An Undeserved Experience For Women by creamylicious(f): 11:12pm On Nov 29, 2016 |
#onbecoming |
Re: Domestic Violence: An Undeserved Experience For Women by lohresloco: 12:26am On Nov 30, 2016 |
my own is simple, don't hit me in the name of being a woman. i will so beat you. end of a short tale 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Domestic Violence: An Undeserved Experience For Women by lohresloco: 12:26am On Nov 30, 2016 |
nor be only man dey abuse woman lohresloco: |
Re: Domestic Violence: An Undeserved Experience For Women by lafean20(f): 1:31am On Nov 30, 2016 |
I am loving these argument.....interesting |
Re: Domestic Violence: An Undeserved Experience For Women by cococandy(f): 5:21am On Nov 30, 2016 |
Domestic violence is mostly a result of unbridled patriarchy than anything else. 1 Like |
Re: Domestic Violence: An Undeserved Experience For Women by cococandy(f): 5:21am On Nov 30, 2016 |
Lilac91:What's his name on NL? |
Re: Domestic Violence: An Undeserved Experience For Women by Sgwash: 6:02am On Nov 30, 2016 |
Mindfulness:Yeah right, buh haven't u seen or heard of forced chemistry One borne out of lust and love of frivolities. I think that's what the guy u quoted is trying to explain. |
Re: Domestic Violence: An Undeserved Experience For Women by Nobody: 6:58am On Nov 30, 2016 |
There are two things that could be life threatening to a woman in marriage, a philandering man and a wife beater, even though the bible said till death do you part,it didn't mean till he causes your death, that is where people get it wrong.And women need to realize that using the kids as an excuse to stay will only be to the detriments of the kids as it affects the psychology of the child and might even follow them to adult hood that is if she survives the violence. 2 Likes |
Re: Domestic Violence: An Undeserved Experience For Women by Nobody: 9:46am On Nov 30, 2016 |
1bkaye: Wealth is not a trait, and money can only keep one attracted for a while. Money is like a toy: the more you play with it, the more you get bored of playing with it. Why do you think the wives of some very wealthy men cheat on their husbands with broke guys? Maybe the broke guy is a Spartacus in bed, and maybe the woman had not factored in sexual compatibility before getting married to her rich hubby. I'm not saying money should take the backseat because it is in fact pivotal. All I'm saying is it shouldn't be a prime determinant when spouse-hunting. So long as the guy has enough to cater for the basic amenities, a woman should not love him less because he can't afford a Porsche. ... And as for men placing high valuation on beauty, whence did you come about that? Do you mean before they get into a boy-girl relationship or into marriage? As for me and the guys in my social orbit, beauty is important, but is not as important as some other qualities. For example, I'd rather marry a reader of average beauty than marry a non-reader who's a deadringer for Marilyn Monroe.
I'm an avid observer of the world around me. I drew inference from what I've seen and heard. 2 Likes |
Re: Domestic Violence: An Undeserved Experience For Women by Kayceenaz(m): 10:28am On Nov 30, 2016 |
DarkRebel101: Feminism, I believe, would remain a fantasy due to the inconsistency between the way of life of a good number of ladies that propagate it and the school of thought. This has particularly disinclined me to their cause. The recent antics of a distinguished female judge in the country accused of involvement in justice commercialisation emphasizes the said. I come across ladies, both online and offline, that declare their zest for this movement, yet they act in manners that make no suggestions to one clamouring for a reasonable space in our socio-political and intellectual affairs. Frivolities like aligning with unimportant trends hold sway in their focus and concerns. If this continues, feminism could end up as a mere illusion. |
Re: Domestic Violence: An Undeserved Experience For Women by Nobody: 11:00am On Nov 30, 2016 |
Kayceenaz: I strongly disagree with this. Feminism has gone beyond a mere Disneyland will-o’-the-wisp. Because of feminism, we have women's suffrage. Because of feminism, women now hold esteemed offices in spheres originally thought to be the perogative of men: politics, engineering, etcetera. Lise Meitner – the woman who discovered the nuclear fission of uranium and was denied a Nobel prize for her discovery due to her gender – was initially declined admission into a German university because she was a woman, and because according to the general weltanschaaung at the time, women had no business being in the sciences. She had to wait eight years before she finally got admitted, even at that she had to take her classes in the school's basement because the school thought a woman wasn't worthy and cerebral enough to share a classroom teeming with brilliant male scientists. Feminism has changed all of that, and intellectual discrimination against women is at its lowest ebb in this century than has ever been before. So yes, feminism has crossed the boundaries of fantasy and now, slowly and steadily, treads the terra firma of practicality and realism.
I agree, and the fault lies with feminists, not feminism.
Some of them don't even fully understand what the movement is all about, ditto some men. It's why it gets trivialized to the extent that insubstantial arguments like who gets to pay for a dinner date or who settles the bill is infallibly the moot point in many debates on feminism, leaving the more pertinent gender issues unattended to. |
Re: Domestic Violence: An Undeserved Experience For Women by sbabimbola(f): 6:50pm On Nov 30, 2016 |
Kayceenaz: #PaintMeOrangeNotBlue-Black# MAY GOD BLESS REAL MEN.... Not weathered beaten ones, who claim to be men. 1 Like |
Re: Domestic Violence: An Undeserved Experience For Women by Nobody: 5:48pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
Sgwash: I have never heard of forced chemistry. |
Re: Domestic Violence: An Undeserved Experience For Women by Nobody: 5:50pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
DarkRebel101: How will I sleep with him in one bed and do the rest that is done in the oda room if I am not attracted to him physically? For me, attraction is non-negotiable. |
Re: Domestic Violence: An Undeserved Experience For Women by Nobody: 5:59pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
Mindfulness: I almost thought you deliberately evaded the question. Physical attraction is bi-faceted: a man may not have the facial looks but could be attractive in other areas, and vice versa. When you told Haneefah that you cannot overlook ugliness, I wasn't sure if it was restricted to just facial ugliness or if it includes other physical attributes. |
Re: Domestic Violence: An Undeserved Experience For Women by Nobody: 6:13pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
DarkRebel101: People do not have to look like celebrities, flawless and in perfect shape, to be attractive, I agree. Sometimes it is the way someone talks, moves or carries him/herself that makes us crave their attention. |
Re: Domestic Violence: An Undeserved Experience For Women by Nobody: 6:31pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
Mindfulness: Interesting. Thanks for reinforcing something I already knew. 1 Like |
Re: Domestic Violence: An Undeserved Experience For Women by Sgwash: 8:24pm On Dec 04, 2016 |
Mindfulness:We learn everyday |
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