As much as we hate to admit it as nigerians as i assume we all are on this great forum, but many of us didnt like school. It made us cry, it gave us the chills we had anxiety. We fail to accept that and find solutions to it instead we label the student as 'lazy'. What is different from us and white people is that they recognize their fears and find solutions to it, not living every day hating life. They realized that some students were anxious n school, so they made homeschooling, they started online schooling... Recognize those people that dont feel happy about school and recommend http://skillonpage.com/personalized-learning-method/ as a starter. Dont live in fear of everyday. find solutions to your problems