Haven't been on Naira land for a while but had to come back and post this story from my very close friend
About 2days ago my guy called me and told me that he needed to see me that he needs someone to talk to I said no wahala that he should reach my crib.
On that day he told me that he WS addicted to something he couldn't say it guess he WS ashamed after much persuasion he finally said masturbation,I thought it ws a joke until he ddnt for a while ..
He said it started two years ago in 2014 he WS watching porn and saw a guy wanking and tried it ever since then he's been hooked on it he said he has been doing it till today that's 2yrs plus I really shocked when he was telling me,I mean this WS my very good Friend whom I WS close too but didn't have the slightest idea he WS passing through something
He went further to say that he WS so hooked up that he didn't need to watch porn to masturbate. . . he would just picture a face or A phone no he'd collected.
He said he has tried he's best to stop but no avail.he said sometimes he could go a week without jerkin off but when he relapses he covers for lost time
I WS so shocked hearing this,me personally I might have done it once or twice but never have I lost control of myself on another occasion he said one day he's bro almost caught him he forgot to lock the door and when he heard the sound if the door he ran into the bathroom
I just told him what everybody says to put it in prayer but if you have any specific advice or u were once an addict please just help me out lemme help my friend I think its even affecting him physically he's hair is looking some how and he is quite thin. .please any meaning ful advice would be appreciated.
Please this is not about likes or front page this is a real life situation. . told him to open to his mum but he said he just cant

This is no be new thing. He will overcome it with time. And ppl shd stop this shiit of "pray about it" prayers don't usually work for mind/psychy issues...it sometimes complicate it sef.

As he gets older and understand life and know why God made man and woman he will calm himself down.

Oh dear me.

He no dey f**k


Once he start f**king pussies anyhow



No one will tell him, is orientation will change

iamharkinwaley:
He no dey f**k



Once he start f**king pussies anyhow




No one will tell him, is orientation will change

Tomorrow when it's time to face the responsibilities involved in such a lifestyle you will start asking people to feel sorry for you, are you prepared to be a father?.

Face your education and focus on your future

I'm sorry...but I still don't understand how they get hooked on that sheet when a pussycat is always a short distance away. Unbelievable thing is the cat won't interest you again. Whew, it is well o.

Pidgin2:


Tomorrow when it's time to face the responsibilities involved in such a lifestyle you will start asking people to feel sorry for you, are you prepared to be a father?.

Face you're education and focus on your future

Come here, is your eyes hurting you or what? And what's it with face ur education? Are you my father or are you sponsoring my education? Am just giving the dude my opinion, what I think will work for him and mind you any one is free to express his own thought. So you can f**k off for all I care...Ipob oshi...duh

iamharkinwaley:

And your solution is promiscuity?

Op. Its you abi?

* Find an outlet by being creative, playing sports, or finding a new hobby.
* Make a plan for avoiding masturbation and limit your alone time.
* Stop watching porn and installing porn-blocking software.
* Stop punishing yourself and know that things will improve.
* Know when to seek professional help.

http://www.wikihow.com/Stop-a-Masturbation-Addiction

Avoid being alone...

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And your solution is promiscuity?[/quote better than masturbating...

Softorgasm:
This is really sad, for him to summon courage and open up to you after two years means he must have been suffering in such silence for too long..
A heart filled with guilt, anyone that is a slave to emotions, never enjoys life..
Life is ironical indeed..
confessing to you is a right step that he took, now he should get busy, whether in school or at work, he should stay away from sex oriented materials like movies that displays nudity, songs that talks about sex, discussions that involves sex whether with friends or online, he should get video teachings of pastor Chris oyakhilome or dkg olukoya of mountain of fire, anytime he is alone and idol, he should just plug his headset to his smartphone or laptop and listen to wonderful teachings of the word of GOD..
By doing this, his mind will be renewed and the holy spirit will help him overcome.

I totally agree with all you said, except I don't know the two pastors you mentioned & can't endorse what I haven't heard them preach.
However, I hope the young man takes this advice.

Raging hormones are a normal stage of adolescence...
He'll get over it.
And more importantly, it'll teach him self-control