Don't mind them.

When hunger fire their intestines, nobody go tell them to do the needful

obataokenwa:
All our great men and women came out from the most remote when there was no zinc house. I have five uncles in the USA today as Dr., all got scholarship reading in their mothers kitchen when there was no electricity. my Dad told me about one that always put physics text book in his pocket whenever they go hunting. till today in my village they always use him as instance that no matter how u read, u can't read more than him. one of the respected engineers in Ford motors today.

ireneony:
Sincerely from my heart, please don't relocate. Since you can feed your family i don't see the need to do so.
don't worry your wife Will get a better job later.
not all job are worth it.

From what i see the salary would be peanut.

You are the man of the house have your stand in this.

Money is not all that matters in life. read Ecclesiastic 5:12-20, 6:1-3

ireneony:
Sincerely from my heart, please don't relocate. Since you can feed your family i don't see the need to do so.
don't worry your wife Will get a better job later.
not all job are worth it.

From what i see the salary would be peanut.

You are the man of the house have your stand in this.

hmm this ur advice e get as e be oo

Thank you everyone please keep giving us your advises. I am reading them with my wife and its helping our decision making. God bless everyone

ireneony:
Sincerely from my heart, please don't relocate. Since you can feed your family i don't see the need to do so.
don't worry your wife Will get a better job later.
not all job are worth it.

From what i see the salary would be peanut.

You are the man of the house have your stand in this.

Ma'am.......are you discussing the same topic as the op

Everyone is crying about joblessness that accelerates hardship, breaking families whilst at it and you are saying she must postpone everything. Whilst money is not everything, how did you get to the conclusion that her earnings will be peanuts?

mostyg:
Your moniker tells me not to take you serious. How can a married man with two kids use such moniker?

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obataokenwa:
Money is not all that matters in life. read Ecclesiastic 5:12-20, 6:1-3

so you see as someone that read bible

ireneony:
so you see as someone that read bible

You're finished then. No wonder my people say u know the wisdom of a child when he talks.

ireneony:
You are the man of the house have your stand in this.

This is disgusting.


OP pls don't adopt this archaic mentality ooooo

& pls don't relocate to Ur state of origin.
its an exceedingly bad idea for the family as a whole.

Relocating your family to your home state is not a bad idea as long as your extended family member knows the boundaries, beside l relocating to my home state for the past 10 yrs but in another local government as hardly do l see my family members as none is living in the said LGA and am loving it,please do the needfull as you will not regret

[i][/i]you can't eat your cake n have it..

I can't think of any state in Nigeria in which its capital city isn't okey,since she got a job in the state house then u can locate them in the capital,they will definitely be very secure estates there.just make sure dey are settled in before leaving..you will end up saving more if she is earning and also not staying in Lagos provides less expenses.

If you really want her to take the job, and if she also loves and wants the job but her apprehension comes from her fear of interference, then it is a simple matter.

It is YOUR prerogative to ensure she doesn't become meat in the mouth of your people; to be chewed, swallowed or spat out as the case may be. There should be nothing like village people carrying their burden to "our brother's house" or going to spy how big she's cutting meat for her soup. Or packing "our brother's rice" from the store.

If there is a clear cut divide, she will enjoy the place more than she does Lagos which is crazy and fast-paced.

You are based in Lagos yet you are not spending much time in Nigeria. If the amount of time you are away, will remain the same, then let your wife relocate to your home state. The issue is temptation. If there is too much time apart, impure thoughts will creep into both of your minds. Be careful.

Is your entire homestate just a street?

Assuming you are from Benue, Lets even assuming all your extended family lie in Makurdi, you can settle your wife in Gboko
If youre from Nasarawa your family lives in Keffi you can settle your wife in Lafia or Akwanga

EVen if its in the same city you can live so far away from them in the same city that the distace will discourage any unncesary interference

handsomePussy:
A state in the middle belt, not so civilized tho

I am sure it's Benue or Kogi State

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