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Re: Is This Not A Red Flag??? by Gpopsicle(m): 7:35pm On Jan 04, 2017 |
;Dbeen laughing since... u know d obvious yet u ask for advise... let me just continue laughing been laughing since... u know d obvious yet u ask for advice... let me just continue laughing |
Re: Is This Not A Red Flag??? by TheeDetective: 8:17pm On Jan 04, 2017 |
Abeg make I laugh small, hehehehe (abeg no vex say i dey laugh o) ; the lady get mind o, she raise hand slap your bro and come give am black eye on top ; chai; she be tigeress? You’re asking how to deal with her right? Ok don’t give her an audience when she arrives ; simple and short. She’ll get the message from there and she’ll know the game is up for her to move on and let your brother be. Your bro better open his eyes wide now and get ride of a person who can’t control her temper; otherwise, he’ll suffer constant abuse in that relationship, based on how you have described the lady in question. 1 Like |
Re: Is This Not A Red Flag??? by Gpopsicle(m): 9:34pm On Jan 05, 2017 |
tartarus: u try ooo. how long did u keep up with ds kind of physical abuse |
Re: Is This Not A Red Flag??? by Nobody: 9:51pm On Jan 05, 2017 |
richyblink1:And you wanna beg on her behalf? The Lady will frustrate your brother eeehh and distance him from his siblings and parents if married. Better advice your brother to drop her off abeg. Life is too short to allow someone frustrate ya. |
Re: Is This Not A Red Flag??? by Nobody: 9:56pm On Jan 05, 2017 |
tartarus:You dated a wrestler? |
Re: Is This Not A Red Flag??? by kidsam: 10:28pm On Jan 05, 2017 |
Guy, beware!!!!! a husband killer in the making is dating ur younger brother. |
Re: Is This Not A Red Flag??? by Idydarling(f): 11:05pm On Jan 05, 2017 |
how I'm i sure dis didn't happen to u op, this one wer u get last minute details like this |
Re: Is This Not A Red Flag??? by bigcp(m): 11:19pm On Jan 05, 2017 |
Joavid: leave him...let him be asking stupid questions....u think u r still a kid...na until u go hear say...ur younger brother has been shot(God forbid) na dat time ur brains go reset....no go borrow sense...even my 7yrs old cosine would never ask such stupid n senseless questions... |
Re: Is This Not A Red Flag??? by yedidiah(m): 11:24pm On Jan 05, 2017 |
I like your brother. If it is the Spirit of the Lord that is at work in Him, then it is a good thing. Obviously, the girl has alot to learn. I don't also know if your brother is as saintly as you have painted him to be. But that's not the question now. I am sure he loves her, but love is not powerful enough to sustain a relationship in itself. With time, when it is put undér pressure, it will ask questions. I just hope it won't be too late by then. I am sure she has her good sides, possibly her problem is one of upbringing or just this misunderstood idea of feminism/ boss lady gibberish that is blowing the heads of our younger sisters nowadays. But whatever it is, when she comes to you, talk to her; straight talk! and if you notice she is adamant to change, tell your bro to call it quits or ask her for a break for sometime for both of them to go and reassess themselves. Character flaws must be actively tackled. So if she works on herself. It is obvious they can't go into marriage like this. It is better to nip it in the bud now than live like hell in a cell. 1 Like |
Re: Is This Not A Red Flag??? by richyblink1(m): 4:59pm On Jan 07, 2017 |
Idydarling: Lols. I am actually married with kids. So it can't be me. Thanks for your contribution anyway |
Re: Is This Not A Red Flag??? by richyblink1(m): 5:02pm On Jan 07, 2017 |
yedidiah: Thanka a lot. You made some valid points. She has her good sides, but very very quick to temper and always want to have her way |
Re: Is This Not A Red Flag??? by richyblink1(m): 5:06pm On Jan 07, 2017 |
bigcp: Thought a wise one like you claim would learn to talk like an adult and shun insults. Grow up 1 Like |
Re: Is This Not A Red Flag??? by richyblink1(m): 5:07pm On Jan 07, 2017 |
kidsam: Lols! So funny |
Re: Is This Not A Red Flag??? by richyblink1(m): 5:08pm On Jan 07, 2017 |
Nma27: I understand. I think he has gotten the message |
Re: Is This Not A Red Flag??? by yedidiah(m): 7:31pm On Jan 07, 2017 |
richyblink1:well, if it is temper, then it can be worked on. |
Re: Is This Not A Red Flag??? by Idydarling(f): 12:09am On Jan 08, 2017 |
richyblink1:totally unnecessary info Sir, a simple 'yes' or 'no' would've sufficed. |
Re: Is This Not A Red Flag??? by richyblink1(m): 7:19am On Jan 08, 2017 |
Idydarling: Necessary enough to correct your assumption. Thanks all the same |
Re: Is This Not A Red Flag??? by richyblink1(m): 7:20am On Jan 08, 2017 |
yedidiah: I hope so. Personally, I have maintained my distance since I am a third party. 1 Like |
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