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My Mother Cured My Craze by Davidflight: 9:35pm On Jan 15, 2017
20 years in retrospect, I was a pupil in a community primary school in the ancient Uli land. You remember the city? The location of the defunct Biafran airport where Ojukwu took off from. In school, I was somewhat average academically, being not calm enough to earn the A grades. Well, as a stubborn and almost impossible kid, my consciousness then had not developed to think less of those naughty childish games kids play, so, it was smart sticking a pile of books to my buttocks to soak up the fire from the cain of my class teacher as I was a habitual late comer. Scaling our dwarf class blocks was a fun way of escape at times when “neatness or note supervision” was to be conducted and, you might want to know, we would spend the rest of the school hours in the bush finding pears or pursuing grass cutters during that exercise.
One couldn’t possibly convince me we weren’t rich because, at least, most mornings before trekking to school, I would stock my stomach with “fufu/akpu” and the usually crayfish garnished soup; not forgetting my bottled water I regularly filled with palm kernels and sometimes, the roasted palm fruits I fillled my school bag with which I needed to settle my stomach should it get agitated at the intervals of lessons in the class. Of course, I cared less of writing in class. Since Gloria would lend me her note, I would rather spend my precious time in class creating troubles and ridding on class chairs. My freedom in class was both a cherise gift and a necessity. I needed it so direly that I would take out an hour after closure to hang out with my little friends; after all, it was a community primary school, no parents or elders would come to take us home unless at that time when we had well overstayed that our parents would come after us with canes to drive us home. My mother was a regular visitor in this manner.
On several occasions, my mother had broken her cane on me. She couldn’t just understand why I chose to be that stubborn. So, this fateful evening after she caned me home, she demanded I show her all we did in class that day. I had never been so shocked. It was so strange. My mother that had never even bothered to ask if our teacher reported to school my whole times in the school would suddenly demand for my notes that third term of my SS 2 was unbelievable. Unfortunately for her, there was nothing to show. That day was the neatness supervision day and Gloria, my only source had gone home before we could arrive from the bush. My mother couldn’t get anything better than the empty notes I gave her. The beating of my life she gave me kept me away from school for a week and, when I resumed, I understood I must be responsible.
How many parents know what their children do in schools especially, the public schools?

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Re: My Mother Cured My Craze by ReneeNuttall(f): 10:40pm On Jan 15, 2017
nice one,parents of nowadays are always on the move looking for money and abandoning their parental duties.during my teacher training practice I discovered that most children don't even have anyone to assist them with their home works.their parents are so busy that they don't even attend PTA meetings, instead they will beg their relatives to cover up for them,this is outrightly wrong,and tomorrow they will start blaming teachers.

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Re: My Mother Cured My Craze by Davidflight: 6:10am On Jan 17, 2017
@Reneenutall...honestly; and what's mind-wrecking is the excuse some parents give on having so much responsibilities to face. But in this equation, you will find parents with even more demanding responsibilities who still give their all for their children's sake. And men, pushing everything to their already burdened wives is yet another blow to proper education of their children.

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