IF YOU LOVW SOMEONE, YOU WILL. . . ALWAYS BELIEVE IN HIM, ALWAYS EXPECT THE BEST OF HIM. 1COR. 13;7
We rarely discern others accurately, almost every conclusion we have about them is flawed and based on limited knowledge. We give up too soon because we can't sees what God is looking at. Someone close to you right now has a great future. God has already determined it. in fact, if you knew their potential, you would withold your words of criticism and invest more time and energy into them. Remember joseph, Don't make the mistake the brothers made. The person who aggravates the living daylights out of you today, could be the one you will turn to for help tomorrow. So keep that in mind and treat others graciously
Look beneath the surfavce, appearances can bew deceptive. Remember Ruth, the migrant laborer working in the field for less than minimum wage? she will become the wife of Boaz who owns the fields. In the future she might be signing your paycheck . so when you meet her be sure to leave handfuls purpose to bless her see ruth 2;16.
Take another look at the situation you don't understand. Remember Mary nthe mother of Jesus, looking for a place to spend the nightand have her baby? here is the opportunity of a lifetime, don't miss it, why did jesus say in the sermon on the mount. Love your enemies see luke 6;27, Because saul of Tarsus( the one who is giving you much trouble and grief at the moment. May become paul the Apostle, bringing multitudes into the kingdom and writing books that changes lives including yours. So ask God to help you see in others what HE sees