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What Does Parenting And Discipline Mean To You? by ideologies(m): 11:35am On Feb 04, 2017 |
What Does parenting and discipline mean to you? When I was sixteen years old, we lived in South Africa about eighteen miles outside the city. One Saturday my father had to go to town to attend a conference and he didn’t feel like driving so he asked me if I would drive him into town and bring him back in the evening. My parents also gave me many small chores to do in the town, like getting the car serviced and the oil changed. When I left my father at the conference venue, he said, “At five o’clock in the evening, come here and pick me up, and we’ll go home together.” I said, “Fine.” I rushed off, did all my chores as quickly as possible, left the car in the garage—and went straight to the nearest movie theatre. I got so engrossed in a double feature that I didn’t realize the passage of time. The movie ended at 5:30, I came out and ran to the garage and rushed to where my dad was waiting for me. It was almost six o’clock when I reached there and he was wondering what had happened to me. The first question he asked me was, “Why are you late?” Instead of telling him the truth, I lied to him, and I said, “The car wasn’t ready; I had to wait for the car,” Not realizing that he had already called the garage. When he caught me in the lie, he said, “There’s something wrong in the way I brought you up that didn’t give you the confidence to tell me the truth, that made you feel you had to lie to me. I’ve got to find out where I went wrong with you, and to do that I’m going to walk home.” There was absolutely nothing I could do to make him change his mind—and I couldn’t leave him and go away. For five and a half hours I crawled along in the car behind Father, watching him go through all this pain and agony for a stupid lie. I decided then and there that I was never going to lie again. It’s almost fifty years since the event, and every time I think about it I still get goose bumps. That is the power of non-violent action. It’s a lasting thing. It’s a change we bring through love, not fear. Anything that is brought by fear doesn’t last. But anything that is done by love lasts forever”. As a parent, what are the measures in disciplining your kids at childhood stage ? Which method left a lasting impression ? Which helped them develop and boosted their self esteem ? Practice Discipline with love. Culled from http://www.ideologieshub.com.ng/parenting-and-discipline-with-love/ 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Does Parenting And Discipline Mean To You? by nightingalee: 11:40am On Feb 04, 2017 |
... This is to me very insightful. Your Father, is a Father. 1 Like |
Re: What Does Parenting And Discipline Mean To You? by goldwaters(f): 1:58pm On Feb 04, 2017 |
A very wise father I must say. There are very effective non violent ways to handle children, that brings out the best in them. Sometimes children who are beaten too often, develop thick skins and behave badly bracing themselves to collect the beating. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Does Parenting And Discipline Mean To You? by Nobody: 3:50pm On Feb 04, 2017 |
nice article. Only few people can say they were brought up with love, the others, it's by fear. Discipling a child through love is something I must learn before ever having children. I hope I have that patience. Kids can be difficult and complicated 1 Like |
Re: What Does Parenting And Discipline Mean To You? by ideologies(m): 8:47am On Feb 07, 2017 |
Many thanks @ all |
Re: What Does Parenting And Discipline Mean To You? by ideologies(m): 9:39pm On Feb 23, 2017 |
cool |
Re: What Does Parenting And Discipline Mean To You? by dungas30(m): 10:45pm On Feb 23, 2017 |
tumps up to u 1 Like |
Re: What Does Parenting And Discipline Mean To You? by ideologies(m): 9:13pm On Mar 07, 2017 |
thanks bro dungas30: |
Re: What Does Parenting And Discipline Mean To You? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 12:13am On Mar 08, 2017 |
Spare the rod and spoil the child, but it must be done with love. 1 Like |
Re: What Does Parenting And Discipline Mean To You? by ideologies(m): 10:04am On Mar 08, 2017 |
cool TonyeBarcanista: |
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