Donjazzy12:

It is worse, most women watch lesbians porn. Your supposed girlfriend is being serviced by another girl right now!

TrapQueen77:



Ur absence making her feel empty & sexually hungry.. Why not try or introduce phonesex with her or video sex? At least both of you are doing it.

Libragem:

Well, this statement is far from the truth. I know the effect of porn and I try to avoid it as much as I can. Secondly , even having a deep sexual talk with her now that I am far away is something I also try avoid, she knows because I told her. I told her we should avoid such senerio until we are physically united with each other again.... this is because " when the desirable is not available, the available becomes desirable "

LeView:
You sound so immature to be married. Why you asking us the questions you're meant to ask her?
It's like only dumb people come on nl. So watching porn now means someone can not have strong principles and morals such as being faithful. If she was going to cheat trust me she wouldn't need porn and self stimulation, she'd be getting laid which means no need for the porn.
Instead of handling your business like a real man your here all emotional like a mitch!

soberdrunk:
If she didnt tell you nko, how will you know? Give her some credit for honesty, you better dont worry yourself over 'nothing' because a cheating woman will cheat whether you are around or not. For your own good, quickly apologize and let it go, continue to give her plenty "attention" because statistics has shown that lack of attention is one of the major reasons women cheat.........

TrapQueen77:



Ur absence making her feel empty & sexually hungry.. Why not try or introduce phonesex with her or video sex? At least both of you are doing it.

TrapQueen77:



Ur absence making her feel empty & sexually hungry.. Why not try or introduce phonesex with her or video sex? At least both of you are doing it.

Libragem:
Abeg make una sufre insult me , and also mind the comments cos she is a nairalander and she just saw the thread.

StFrank2:
My brother forget gadgets matta o. That woman don get plan b o. Meaning she go get person wey go dey nack her steady now based on those porn wey she dey watch. She no suppose put eye for porn videos since her man no dey near by cos she go dey tempted man. My brother she don dey nack person Jor.

LeView:
You sound so immature to be married. Why you asking us the questions you're meant to ask her?
It's like only dumb people come on nl. So watching porn now means someone can not have strong principles and morals such as being faithful. If she was going to cheat trust me she wouldn't need porn and self stimulation, she'd be getting laid which means no need for the porn.
Instead of handling your business like a real man your here all emotional like a mitch!

chiefolododo:
The heart of man can be so corrupt

Libragem:
If you live abroad, far away from your spouse and she now confesses to you she watches porn(even at midnight), what does that indicate?
Is it not absurd and an abomination for a married lady to be looking at other guys dick and watching how he is using it on other ladies all in the name of porn?
When she becomes aroused as a result of such videos, is there no possibility she now have to satisfy herself using all/any form of sexual gadgets?
Infact is there no possibility she now has one or more standby boyfriends outside for sexual pleasures ?
Can such a lady still be trusted?
I am so curious because this is the state I am now. I am so so angry and disappointed right now, and my love for her just went flat as a result of that. I am in a state of dilemma, I need advice.

Libragem:

Worst advice ever.

TrapQueen77:



Ur absence are making her feeling empty & sexually hungry.. Why not try or introduce phonesex with her or video sex? At least both of you are doing it.

Azil:


"Secondly , even having a deep sexual talk with her now that I am far away is something I also try avoid, she knows because I told her"

Did you get thrown from the 1800's into 2017? No wonder she watches porn ( which isn't a big deal). I won't be surprised if you're the missionary only kind of lover too. Jeez!!

Libragem:

Well, this statement is far from the truth. I know the effect of porn and I try to avoid it as much as I can. Secondly , even having a deep sexual talk with her now that I am far away is something I also try avoid, she knows because I told her. I told her we should avoid such senerio until we are physically united with each other again.... this is because " when the desirable is not available, the available becomes desirable "

TrapQueen77:



Ur absence are making her feeling empty & sexually hungry.. Why not try or introduce phonesex with her or video sex? At least both of you are doing it.

krauss:
Many of the comments on this thread show one and only one thing; many if not most people are very confused and unstable in what they believe. Funny enough, many of these people will claim to hate porn and know how bad it is yet, they will advice you to neglect this. One problem I have with this(op) is the extent to which you hold unto what you believe. One of the risks in coming on to a forum like this to seek advice is the issue of the 'tyranny of the majority'. How are you going to make your decision now based on what people say even though you can't ascertain the [b]veracity of the preponderant [/b]opinion. Of course this question also seems to corroborate the submission from one of those who commented that you are immature to be married but I wouldn't be that mean to say it. Porn is bad. What makes it bad is not the end which it helps one to realize( in this case sexual gratification), but rather, the facts you've alluded to in most of the responses I've seen you give to the comments on your thread. Making money is good, what is bad is the means many go about to achieve it. I need not tell you why porn is bad 'cos I believe you should know that as many reasons abound. Many people here will make comments based on simple emotions. I would only advice you to be very cautious and articulative with this. Look well before you leap. If you look at many of the comments, you might baffle at what those who wrote it will do or say when you try to seek out why they made their comments and how much thought they gave this.

Libragem:

Well, this statement is far from the truth. I know the effect of porn and I try to avoid it as much as I can. Secondly , even having a deep sexual talk with her now that I am far away is something I also try avoid, she knows because I told her. I told her we should avoid such senerio until we are physically united with each other again.... this is because " when the desirable is not available, the available becomes desirable "

Libragem:

Well, this statement is far from the truth. I know the effect of porn and I try to avoid it as much as I can. Secondly , even having a deep sexual talk with her now that I am far away is something I also try avoid, she knows because I told her. I told her we should avoid such senerio until we are physically united with each other again.... this is because " when the desirable is not available, the available becomes desirable "

glossy6:


watching porn due to your absence does not make her a loose person. I am in the same dilemma with her and my hubby refused to engage in phone intimacy and a friend introduced me to porn on the phone. I watched it for a while and felt disgusted with everything about it. I told my hubby and he said it's not a big deal for me to have watched it. Mind you, I've never attempted having s3x outside my marriage even when under severe emotional pressure