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Sex And Fasting *part1* by pencil143(m): 4:55pm On Feb 27, 2017 |
As soon as I cleared out the
dinner table, I went into the
bedroom, not bothering to say
goodnight to Kenny in the living
room. I knew he was going to be
coming to bed soon enough. I
needed him to think I was fast
asleep by the time he came to
bed. I quickly got into the
bathroom and had a quick
shower before climbing into bed.
I made sure I put on my long
pyjamas so there was no way he
could have easy access to my
body. About an hour later when I
heard him climb into bed and
turn the other way, I finally let
out the breath I was holding. I
managed to escape the sex
tonight.
By the time I woke up the next
morning, I knew we were going
to have another round of noise
and fight and I quickly said a
silent prayer to God for strength.
I could feel his hand roaming
round my body relentlessly and
there was no doubt in my mind
what the expected end result to
be. I opened my eyes and took a
glimpse at the clock on the wall.
It was just 6.am. I turned and
removed his hands from my
body and tried to get up only to
be pulled back. By the third time
of going through the same
motion, he finally spoke up.
''Babe, what is the excuse today?
It has been 2 weeks for Christ
sake. How am I supposed to be
happy if you won't even have sex
with me?'' He said with obvious
frustration in his voice.
''So your happiness is now tied
to sex? You still don't get it do
you? I am doing this for us. For
our home and our future. I told
you before I started that this was
going to happen and you agreed
and now you want to make me
feel guilty. Seriously I am
confused.''
''Omololami, you know I am not
opposed to prayer and fasting. I
love God too and I go to church
but you cannot honestly expect
me not to have sex for the next
100 days just because you want
to fast''
I was so angry at that statement
and I flared up,
''Seriously Kenny, are you kidding
me right now? What happened
to self control? This just shows
how far you have fallen from the
faith. Is this not the same you
that used to fast with me all the
time before we got married? So
all that spirituality was a lie? Did
we not court for two years
without sex? So you must have
been cheating on me.''
''What? How can you say that?
Are you crazy? How can you even
compare both scenarios? I was
single then now I am married.
Why did I get married if I can't
have sex?''
''Oh so now I am a sex machine?
You married me for the sex?'' I
asked
''You know what, I wont waste
my time having this fruitless
conversation with you. I am
warning you for the last time. I
wont take this your fasting
bullshit and you will learn to
respect me in this house. If this is
the rubbish they are teaching
you in church, I will ban you from
going there''
''You wont dare Kehinde
Ayorinde. You will not dare. If I
ever have to choose between
you and my God, trust me, you
will loose. It is God first and you
second. That devil that is trying
to use you, will not find a place''.
''Try me, Lola, just try me'' he said
as he walked into the bathroom
and slammed the door.
I walked out of the room and
went into the kitchen
heartbroken. As I went about
making Kenny's lunch that he
usually takes to work I was so
sad. I didn't understand Kenny's
bitterness towards my
relationship with God. I didn't
expect to have these kind of
issues just 6 months after
marriage. He knew how much I
loved God and how much that
relationship means to me and he
was proving so difficult. We even
talked about this while we were
courting and he used to tell me
how much he loved my passion
for God. We have tried getting
pregnant for the past 5 months
and nothing has happened and I
knew I needed to tackle it in
prayer before 5 months turned
to 15 years and I told him I
decided to join the 100 days fast
in church. Initially, he had agreed
to join me but 3 days after he
stopped. I didn't get offended. I
decided to do the prayers myself,
I just did not expect him to be so
bitter about it. As I finished
packing his lunch about 30
minutes later, Kenny came out
fully dressed and just walked
past me without picking up his
food as usual. I quickly ran after
him and caught up with him just
as he was getting into his car.
''You didn't take your food'' I
said.
''Take that rubbish food and get
out of my sight. I don't want
your food, now or ever until you
learn to respect me and until you
decide what is more important
to you'' he said and slammed the
door, driving away while I stood
there mouth agape.
We had a lot of disagreements
over sex in the last two weeks
but I had never seen Kenny so
bitter before. I knew there and
then I needed to pray for my
home. Casting out every demon
that suddenly possessed my
husband. …
_…Kindly Request for *Part 2* |
Re: Sex And Fasting *part1* by elsatom: 5:11pm On Feb 27, 2017 |
Please ur story is very interesting cos its been experienced in some families. I second for d part two. |
Re: Sex And Fasting *part1* by pencil143(m): 9:09pm On Feb 27, 2017 |
elsatom:part 2 is out 1 Like |
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