Hello NL

I tot i shud talk a bit abt dis cos of certain things i have witnessed as a husband nd a father.

I hav been married for eight years to a lovely angel in whom i am well pleased.

At a point wen we had issues,she told me she was only in the marriage for the kids sake.

The problem wit such words were

1.All her attention went to the kids

2.Her love for me gradually went to the kids

3.She cared less abt me but the kids

4.She cud do the kids laundry bt not mine

This really affected me as i saw a strain btw us.

It took me lots of effort to make her understand that though we hav kids,our love for each other shud not be affected.

My advice to couples here is not to stay in marriage cos of their kids.

1.You found ur spouse b4 ur kids

2.Your kids will smday leave the home,only you nd ur spouse will be left just the way it was b4 they came into ur lives

3.Make ur spouse ur priority

4.A child leaving a home is never a divorce bt a husband or wife leaving it

Op What You Said Is True Cos Some Wife Doesn't Know How Painfully And To Me (Stupidly) They Sound When Spitting That Shitty Sentence Out.
But All The Same That's Why Marriage Is Called The Fairy Institution.
May God Let That Kinda Woman Understand Asap Before That Her Own Children Start Correcting Her On That Kinda Awkward Speech.