I use to think that my family would never bother me to get married because we all feel its disturbing and its a desperate move. Im an edo guy, working class, in the southwestern part of the country in the midst of a lot of yoruba ladies, which in those days are tot to be very easy to marry. Yes dey are but to only their fellow tribe mate. Its been hard getting to interact because thier attitude is not homely at all, they discriminate against ibo somuch. Infact if im getting sometine i the market or wherever and im bieng spotted that i cant speak thier language they end up calling me omo ibo and there after they would engage in cheating me.
Other strategys are theyre are cheats, ibiles are a dense mass of thier population they act hungry all the time. I cant gake dat home,
My dad called last night asking me howfaa. I told him i havent seen a nice yoruba girl dat i need space.

Well i just wanted to air this out, cos it has been in my thinking why the yoruba girls are so odd, others characters includes bieng fetish, most of them are baby mamas, no virgin bt i dnt care, racist to the call.. Maybe its just abeokuta but i doubt.
One love

I feel your pain bro

Try nairaland girls na
.twitter, Fb, etc you can meet ladies from other tribes

2SWT:
I feel your pain bro

Try nairaland girls na
.twitter, Fb, etc you can meet ladies from other tribes

You know nairaland is a faceless forum, its just for fun, ive not been connected to any, i just comments dats all.

Beside why is ur status female when youre actually male.... I smell a poo

These attributes you mentioned are virtually inherent in all tribes in Nigeria. You just haven't found your soul mate yet. There are good ones among the aforesaid...I am not Yoruba. Just saying!.

kimbra:
These attributes you mentioned are virtually inherent in all tribes in Nigeria. You just haven't found your soul mate yet. There are good ones among the aforesaid...I am not Yoruba. Just saying!.

All tribes, i doubt.. Not all tribes re been fetish and decietful like they got it in thier gene. Well just some family push for me to become a man and claim additional responsibility than myself. I also agree there might be good ones left by i think dey re scares, its a community attitude towards outsiders.
Its a way of life... Have u been in this part of the country before? [color=#990000][/color]

Erums:



All tribes, i doubt.. Not all tribes re been fetish and decietful like they got it in thier gene. Well just some family push for me to become a man and claim additional responsibility than myself. I also agree there might be good ones left by i think dey re scares, its a community attitude towards outsiders.
Its a way of life... Have u been in this part of the country before? [color=#990000][/color]

Nigerians are fetish. It cuts across all tribes. Though it's relative, I needn't visit that part of the country to know that. It's in our DNA and I can as well tell you that my tribe isn't excluded.

All I'll tell you is...Don't search for a wife desperately. don't let your parents pressurize you into it. You're prone to make mistakes while doing it desperately. You've already boxed every lady from that tribe as "fetish", I don't see why you're still searching for a wife among them. If you think any tribe is better, then look elsewhere.

The irony!!! When an Edo man accuses other tribes of infidelity , lacking carriage and elegance

kimbra:
Nigerians are fetish. It cuts across all tribes. Though it's relative, I needn't visit that part of the country to know that. It's in our DNA and I can as well tell you that my tribe isn't excluded.

All I'll tell you is...Don't search for a wife desperately. don't let your parents pressurize you into it. You're prone to make mistakes while doing it desperately. You've already boxed every lady from that tribe as "fetish", I don't see why you're still searching for a wife among them. If you think any tribe is better, then look elsewhere.

Dont get me wrong, i specified in abeokuta, i know not all are fetish bt theyre very scarces thus the low probability of getting a homely girl among them... Now i work in abk making me to look around where i reside... Looking elsewere means a distance relationship stuff which is most times never healthy because u tend not to know eachoda on the longrun. So what tribe are u frm?

Erums:



You know nairaland is a faceless forum, its just for fun, ive not been connected to any, i just comments dats all.

Beside why is ur status female when youre actually male.... I smell a poo

I find it difficult to believe you didn't find any non-yoruba girl in Abeokuta. Except u just created this thread to seek attention

Atk1nson:


I find it difficult to believe you didn't find any non-yoruba girl in Abeokuta. Except u just created this thread to seek attention

What
Pls if you cant aid a good discussion, den i dnt need your opinion. Didnt u read befote commenting. Im not talking abt a non yoruba. Attention giver!!!

Erums:
I use to think that my family would never bother me to get married because we all feel its disturbing and its a desperate move. Im an edo guy, working class, in the southwestern part of the country in the midst of a lot of yoruba ladies, which in those days are tot to be very easy to marry. Yes dey are but to only their fellow tribe mate. Its been hard getting to interact because thier attitude is not homely at all, they discriminate against ibo somuch. Infact if im getting sometine i the market or wherever and im bieng spotted that i cant speak thier language they end up calling me omo ibo and there after they would engage in cheating me.
Other strategys are theyre are cheats, ibiles are a dense mass of thier population they act hungry all the time. I cant gake dat home,
My dad called last night asking me howfaa. I told him i havent seen a nice yoruba girl dat i need space.

Well i just wanted to air this out, cos it has been in my thinking why the yoruba girls are so odd, others characters includes bieng fetish, most of them are baby mamas, no virgin bt i dnt care, racist to the call.. Maybe its just abeokuta but i doubt.
One love

I am a yoruba girl but Edo guys tho, I hope you are not from Isan. There are good yoruba girls hun

Shossie:
I am a yoruba girl but Edo guys tho, I hope you are not from Isan. There are good yoruba girls hun

Hmmm, i agree they re just scarce... U know im telling the fact here. So what abt ishan... Whats ur take on them cos im one

Erums:



Hmmm, i agree they re just scarce... U know im telling the fact here. So what abt ishan... Whats ur take on them cos im one

Haa, people who come from Auchi and Benin city say things about you guys being fetish, and I just don't know why, none of my Ishan acquaintances have proved me otherwise. Hunhun

What's your aim exactly?

You sound like a terrible person full of hate, bigotry and prejudice.

Every Saturday, hundreds of Igbo men are marrying Yoruba ladies and vice versa. and you're Edo o.

Shossie:
Haa, people who come from Auchi and Benin city say things about you guys being fetish, and I just don't know why, none of my Ishan acquaintances have proved me otherwise. Hunhun

Ok dats a modern day lie, but yea in da old days ishan was known for witchcraft and fetishness too, mind u benin is worse because they own the oba and dats where the culture originates and reside in sp eben till date some binis are still fetish, but civilizations is influencing the odd cultures gradually, so some fetish pple carry out thier doings in secret or odd hours bt in abeokuta its visible and seen everyday... They just finished lisabi festival where sacrifice are carried out and u go they meeting beutiful maidens wit fire pot on thier head and statues dey claim are thier Gods... Hope u will confirm this too for me

Joavid:
What's your aim exactly?

You sound like a terrible person full of hate, bigotry and prejudice.

Every Saturday, hundreds of Igbo men are marrying Yoruba ladies and vice versa. and you're Edo o.

Wtf are u talking about.... Can u stop insulting me. Why dnt u just prove me wrong and quit talking abt how the ibos are marrying fake.... Bring out your facts... And dnt get me wrong ok, when its time to marry from my own consent i can marry any tribe. But im talking at the discriminatory attitude of the yorubas towards an outsider... Like in my workplace too...

Erums:


Ok dats a modern day lie, but yea in da old days ishan was known for witchcraft and fetishness too, mind u benin is worse because they own the oba and dats where the culture originates and reside in sp eben till date some binis are still fetish, but civilizations is influencing the odd cultures gradually, so some fetish pple carry out thier doings in secret or odd hours bt in abeokuta its visible and seen everyday... They just finished lisabi festival where sacrifice are carried out and u go they meeting beutiful maidens wit fire pot on thier head and statues dey claim are thier Gods... Hope u will confirm this too for me

I am not from Abeokuta neither have I stayed there, so I don't know, but in Ibadan here, things are different here. That doesn't mean there are no fetish people here too

Shossie:
I am not from Abeokuta neither have I stayed there, so I don't know, but in Ibadan here, things are different here. That doesn't mean there are no fetish people here too

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I kinda agree wit u.... Ibadan is moving fastef that abeokuta... So to say... I come to ibadan once a month for meetings, i interact and deyre never cold like the pple in ogun, abeokuta....so what part of ibadan re u based... Hope u dnt minds airing

yeye dey smell..... ishan man dey call another tribe fetish. ishan are worst, full of poo. few ishan I have met are just terrible, which I know not all with be like that

Funny Man, you are not even ready for marriage, are there no Edo ladies in the part of the country you are, if there are non, tell your folks to get that "Mary" for you from your village, and desist from bad mouthing your hosts.

OLAFIMIX:
yeye dey smell..... ishan man dey call another tribe fetish. ishan are worst, full of poo. few ishan I have met are just terrible, which I know not all with be like that

My brother i never said u shudnt air ur nptions abt the ishans.... Unfortunately im not in an ishan land but a yoruba land.... So get ur sleeves and talk with proven fact if not ure not for this discussion

Erums:



You know nairaland is a faceless forum, its just for fun, ive not been connected to any, i just comments dats all.

Beside why is ur status female when youre actually male.... I smell a poo

what makes you think am male?

MARKone:
Funny Man, you are not even ready for marriage, are there no Edo ladies in the part of the country you are, if there are non, tell your folks to get that "Mary" for you from your village, and desist from bad mouthing your hosts.

Markone sincerely, the intention is not to bad mouth my host community, im Just bieng factual abt what goes on around me or communal way of life observed... Let de facts be established wether for isan, binis, ibos, fulanis and yorubas....

2SWT:
what makes you think am male?

Just saying, how u relate... Its reafd like a male relating.. Sorri

2SWT:
what makes you think am male?

Just saying, how u relate... Its read like a male relating.. Sorri

2SWT:
what makes you think am male?

Just saying, by the way u relate.... Read as a male... Sorri

Erums:
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I kinda agree wit u.... Ibadan is moving fastef that abeokuta... So to say... I come to ibadan once a month for meetings, i interact and deyre never cold like the pple in ogun, abeokuta....so what part of ibadan re u based... Hope u dnt minds airing

Nihort, after Jericho. Nah, I don't mind.

Erums:



What
Pls if you cant aid a good discussion, den i dnt need your opinion. Didnt u read befote commenting. Im not talking abt a non yoruba. Attention giver!!!

Sorry I didn't aid your discussion. Tell ur concerned-dad to help you find one loyal, non-fetish n homely girl from ur home town. I believe they shouldn't be hard to find in ur hometown.

Shossie:
Nihort, after Jericho. Nah, I don't mind.

Lost, thou ve heard of jericho... Im used to ring road and eleyele, and its environs... Tnks ok....

Can we get unveiled just for ourselves... Ur reasonable. I like it. . .

Atk1nson:


Sorry I didn't aid your discussion. Tell ur concerned-dad to help you find one loyal, non-fetish n homely girl from ur home town. I believe they shouldn't be hard to find in ur hometown.

Like seriously, ure frm the camp that never learns. Can u pls grow up... I read ur statements verywell trust me i understand 2 detail... Dnt get hurt... Truth is bitter

Erums:


Lost, thou ve heard of jericho... Im used to ring road and eleyele, and its environs... Tnks ok....

Can we get unveiled just for ourselves... Ur reasonable. I like it. . .

"Zero Eight Zero For three For won nine five nine six", you should decode those words in quote.

Erums:


Like seriously, ure frm the camp that never learns. Can u pls grow up... I read ur statements verywell trust me i understand 2 detail... Dnt get hurt... Truth is bitter

On the contrary ur comments show u r very narrow minded. Don't know what ur intention is, but you clearly have an issue. I don't expect any reasonable person to say Edo girls are prostitutes, but u wrote that thrash up there generalizing a whole people. My parents are from two different tribes and they cope well, if u know u can't cope with someone outside ur tribe pls go n marry from ur village, don't label a whole class of people as "cheats, not homely".

BTW, I have a good reason to be bitter. It's not about it been true, it's DAT I didn't expect someone to create a thread this shallow in the family section. I thought such minds were confined to the romance section. Go and recreate this thread in d romance section, you will find the solution you seek.