don't know yet

dont worry otokx, afterall you are still a virgin

@ Nicetohave, If he is a virgin or not, does not have anything to do with it!

i think it does, why else is he still unsure

I'd be there. I'd probably even get it on tape. For the records. The day the son or daughter disrespects his mother, I'd sit him down and play it for him. It would definately get sense into his head.

cammax7:

I'd be there. I'd probably even get it on tape. For the records. The day the son or daughter disrespecs his mother, I'd sit him down and play it for him. It would definately get sense into his head.

thats some way to go brother

I might be in another state. No where near the delivery room, because i am not sure i can survive that experience. But i am not yet sure if i want kids, but if i have kids i will have my woman,baby mama, or wife sign a disclaimer that i do not have to be there. I am not a fan of blood....

Adoption is an Option

cammax7:

I'd be there. I'd probably even get it on tape. For the records. The day the son or daughter disrespects his mother, I'd sit him down and play it for him. It would definately get sense into his head.

awwww....

It's nice to read all your replies.

who else should be there? just too bad we can't split the pains.

ma man has to be there.................end of story... he has to be there, to see the end of wht he had started.

personally i will love my hussy to be inside wit me.

Well well well.this is an interesting one.

Personally I think it would depend on the type of man for a husband I have.  If he is the strong, shoulder-to-cry-on, can-stand-anything, i-can-really-count-on type of guy then why not? afterall, it will be good for me and good for him. Plus he can get the cameras rolling and capture every bit of the birth (i would love that).

Now if he's the weak, cowardly, can't-stand-the-sight-of-blood, mama's-boy type, then you know to tell him to stay at home and do the cleaning. afterall, he'll only be a pain in the rear end if he throds along to hospital, plus in such cricumstances, and being the person i am, i could possible bite of his head in sheer frustration or simple make him do this ------>    or even this -------> 

Some girls would insist on seeing their man, if that's who my wife is, then I'll be there to satisfy her.

mizkay:

Now if he's the weak, cowardly, can't-stand-the-sight-of-blood, mama's-boy type,

I doubt if you will marry that kinda guy.

yummy:

Some girls would insist on seeing their man, if that's who my wife is, then I'll be there to satisfy her.

If you're only doing it to satisy your wife, you're doing it for the wrong reason

nferyn:

If you're only doing it to satisy your wife, you're doing it for the wrong reason

Go and learn how to contribute to post.

If my wife want me with her, why would i refuse to be with her? It's sure am gonna be around the room but if she wants me in and i didn't wanna get in, I'll get in cos she wants it. What if that's gonna make her alright?

hot-angel:

I doubt if you will marry that kind of guy.

my sista i doubt i will o....but they say love is strange. you always end up with the guy you SWORE you will never want to end up with hehehe

nferyn:

If you're only doing it to satisy your wife, you're doing it for the wrong reason

I don't see what is wrong with it if a man be in the labour room[b] just[/b] to satisfy his wife

i wonder too

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yummy:

Go and learn how to contribute to post.

And you are going to teach me?

yummy:

If my wife want me with her, why would i refuse to be with her? It's sure am going to be around the room but if she wants me in and i didn't want to get in, I'll get in because she wants it. What if that's going to make her alright?

It has nothing to do with refusing anything. I just cannot understand that men don't want to be there when their [/b]children are being born. Of course, comforting your wife is important, but it's about more than that. It's about being there at the most important and magical moment in your children's life. The joy you feel when your child is born and give it's first bath cannot be compared to anything else.

nicetohave:

I don't see what is wrong with it if a man be in the labour room[b] just to satisfy his wife

Obviously, it's better than not being there, but it should [b]also [/b]be about your child. You can be madly in love with your wife, but this bond doesn't even come close to the one you have with your child.

nferyn:


Obviously, it's better than not being there, but it should [b]also [/b]be about your child. You can be madly in love with your wife, but this bond doesn't even come close to the one you have with your child.

Are you sure about that?  aint got no child birth experience (of mine own that is, ive witnessed the birth of over 300 in my short career so far though) but i used to think the bond between a man and wife is stronger than parent and child........they're both strong, just think the spousal one is stronger 

nicetohave:

Are you sure about that?

Yes, of course there will be exceptions, but in general, the bond between you and your child will be stronger than between you and your wife (of course, this is not an either/or situation).

nicetohave:

aint got no child birth experience (of mine own that is, ive witnessed the birth of over 300 in my short career so far though) but i used to think the bond between a man and wife is stronger than parent and child........they're both strong, just think the spousal one is stronger

I think the fact that you don't have children explains why you hold that view. If you don't have children, it's hard to explain what a parent-child bond really is.

nferyn:


I think the fact that you don't have children explains why you hold that view. If you don't have children, it's hard to explain what a parent-child bond really is.

.....but at least i know what a child-parent bond is all about and anyway im working on making the parent-child bond experience a reality, i'll get back to you on the topic when i have a first hand experience

These smileys suck.

on the contrary, they are bolder and brighter and more meaningful.........

And to sum it up, what sucks to men is bolder, brighter and more meaningful to women   

nicetohave:

And to sum it up, what sucks to men is bolder, brighter and more meaningful to women

Be careful, this may very well be misrepresented (no comments about my dirty mind, please)

LMAO thanks nferyn, i didnt even realise what i have started, now i see blimey nferyn, your mind is truly dirty _{please dont corrupt my virgin mind}