No doubt, evicted fake Big Brother Naija housemate, Ese Eriata, has big ideas about love, romance, and sexual satisfaction. Little wonder Big Brother specially hand-picked her alongside fake housemate, Jon, to storm the Big Brother house with the major task of putting the real housemates on their toes to bring their A-game to play in the reality TV show currently taking place in South Africa.

In a recent chat with Potpourri, the model turned singer, who recently released her debut single, Super Love, expressed her opinion about the use of intimacy gadgets to derive sexual satisfaction. To her, there is nothing wrong if a woman satisfies her libido with a intimacy gadget, but she should make sure her man is in the know.



“To me, I don’t think it’s a bad idea having a intimacy gadget because it would reduce the level of cheating in relationships, but whenever you use intimacy gadgets, you should always tell your man about it. I don’t think there is anything wrong for a lady having a intimacy gadgets”, the sensual singer, who recently returned to Nigeria after fulfilling her mission in the Big Brother house, believes that intimacy gadgets could help in the drastic reduction of crisis in relationships.



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There are lots factors that results in the high rates of crises in relationships so intimacy gadgets are not always the answer. One man's food could be another's poison, meaning the use of intimacy gadgets depends on the individual's preference. The major solution to drastically reduce broken relationships is "BRUTAL HONESTY". If an adult is consenting to have any form of relationship with another, they should be totally honesty with each other. It will go a long way in reducing crises in relationships. 99.9% of broken relationships are built on lies.

ZirdoRoray:
There are lots factors that results in the high rates of crises in relationships so intimacy gadgets are not always the answer. One man's food could be another's poison, meaning the use of intimacy gadgets depends on the individual's preference. The major solution to drastically reduce broken relationships is "BRUTAL HONESTY". If an adult is consenting to have any form of relationship with another, they should be totally honesty with each other. It will go a long way in reducing crises in relationships. 99.9% of broken relationships are built on lies.

Honesty is not the major solution to broken relationships because people still cheat under the umbrellas of honesty. Left for me I would say the solution would be making a self decision to stick to your partner regardless any situation.

Anderlis:



Honesty is not the major solution to broken relationships because people still cheat under the umbrellas of honesty. Left for me I would say the solution would be making a self decision to stick to your partner regardless any situation.

If a partner is cheating, he/she is not honesty. Cheating is always kept secret and lied about. If a partner tells the other that they are of a promiscous nature on the onset of the relationship, they will likely keep the relationship an open one. Monogamy/polygamy is not a choice, it depends on the personality. Some people have a great deal of self-control while some are easily carried away despite the fact that they love their significant other. If both partners are honest about their nature before venturing into a relationship, they can make good decisions. I know of many couples who have been in open marriages for over a decade and they are still strong together. I also know of people who are a strictly monogamous and have few bumps in their relationships because they were very open and honest about their personalities on the onset of the union so they knew they were very much compatible which made the affair a harmonious one.

ZirdoRoray:


If a partner is cheating, he/she is not honesty. Cheating is always kept secret and lied about. If a partner tells the other that they are of a promiscous nature on the onset of the relationship, they will likely keep the relationship an open one. Monogamy/polygamy is not a choice, it depends on the personality. Some people have a great deal of self-control while some are easily carried away despite the fact that they love their significant other. If both partners are honest about their nature before venturing into a relationship, they can make good decisions. I know of many couples who have been in open marriages for over a decade and they are still strong together. I also know of people who are a strictly monogamous and have few bumps in their relationships because they were very open and honest about their personalities on the onset of the union so they knew they were very much compatible which made the affair a harmonious one.

Well people have different ideas of relationship that works for them