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Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Toks2008(m): 12:00pm On Mar 21, 2017
alexialin:




It's me.
vous regardez si mignon
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Nobody: 12:13pm On Mar 21, 2017
Toks2008:


vous regardez si mignon



Hia! U don turn Spanish Abi French?
Abi u no be nija again?

Whats the meaning o?
Interprete pls
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Toks2008(m): 12:22pm On Mar 21, 2017
alexialin:



Hia! U don turn Spanish Abi French? Abi u no be nija again?
Whats the meaning o? Interprete pls
Lol! you can Google it.
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by crunchyg: 8:14pm On Mar 21, 2017
Shossie:
Shossie is my name
Ok I am james by name, stays in Lagos, ar you on whatsapp?
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by AK481(m): 9:06am On Mar 22, 2017
helpforever:
When someone doesn't have morning erection, what's the meaning and consequence ? I am also suffering from E.D

It's not good.

But if you abstain from porn,mastubation,and orgasm, you ll be fine.

Do u masturbate and watch porn heavily.
Do u masturbate based on your libido or do you masturbate after the porn sensatiin(not driven by libido)

If u want solution,u must answer these questions genuinely.

Btw,how did ur hospital visitation go?
Did u see a urologist?
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by crunchyg: 6:22pm On Mar 22, 2017
Shossie:
Shossie is my name
Shossie a nice name you have got there, mine is James, are you on whatsapp?
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Shossie(f): 9:23pm On Mar 22, 2017
crunchyg:

Shossie a nice name you have got there, mine is James, are you on whatsapp?
Hi James, pm me
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by MrPRevailer(m): 9:58pm On Mar 22, 2017
Loisemm:

Better.
But come o. You have so much bile in you. You are supposed to be a Chosen o grin ... Comport yourself.

I should be telling you demeaning hater that. Please go and beg for sense and read my post again. Cause i don't know where you got bile from. It's most likely your comment. As for mine, i was being sincere. You are actually jobless, and quick to respond to something you don't understand because of your HATE. Do something quickly or this thing will grow inside you and eat you up to your destruction.


@If you're not a hater, why were you so quick to accuse me when i meant well, saying "fingers crossed".
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by crunchyg: 10:46pm On Mar 22, 2017
Shossie:
Hi James, pm me
I have done that dear, you can as well send me your email so I can send you my number through there, wouldn't want to send it here
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Shossie(f): 11:45pm On Mar 22, 2017
crunchyg:

I have done that dear, you can as well send me your email so I can send you my number through there, wouldn't want to send it here
gracedamii@gmail.com
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by crunchyg: 11:12am On Mar 23, 2017
Shossie:
gracedamii@gmail.com
babe check your email, have sent it
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Collyno82(m): 7:32pm On Apr 17, 2017
FortuneTeller:
I am coming today with tears in my eyes for my little sis. She is kind, sweet, and a very nice young lady. She met a 35 year old man last year who courted her and convinced our family of his sincerity. He is a nice guy and very handsome. They went for medical tests before the marriage and were told everything was fine. They have now been married for 3 months without sex. My sis has cried to me for the past 2 weeks. She says he has tried some herbal supplements and even saw a pastor, but nothing has changed. They did not have sex before marriage, but she says she has seen him with an erection before and after the marriage. However when he is about to insert himself, he loses the stiffness. I don't know what to do. Someone from our area says he is known to visit many prostitutes. I don't believe he is seeing them now because he has been with our family for some time now and even working in the family business. As they have not consummated the marriage, we are thinking of returning the things he bought so she can be free. How can a 35 year old man be impotent?? My sister shall not suffer.
very pathetic story. Let her pray more
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Nobody: 6:48pm On Apr 19, 2017
Collyno82:
very pathetic story. Let her pray more

You are very late to this story. His money has been returned and my sister is free.

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Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Collyno82(m): 11:12am On Apr 20, 2017
FortuneTeller:


You are very late to this story. His money has been returned and my sister is free.
yet she still needs prayer in her future endeavors. Wait ooh tot u specializes in telling n reading the future. Wat went wrong that u couldn't see her predicament before misfortune befell on her
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by lovethchioma(f): 11:29am On Apr 20, 2017
alexialin:
Maybe he has donated his manhood for higher powers who knows.
Lol... like seriously this really sounded funny to me...
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Nobody: 2:01pm On Apr 20, 2017
Collyno82:
yet she still needs prayer in her future endeavors. Wait ooh tot u specializes in telling n reading the future. Wat went wrong that u couldn't see her predicament before misfortune befell on her

We all need prayer, but no one is going to be a fool. I suggest if you are a chronic masturbator to stop now. It will ruin your life and possibly destroy your family. My sis is free and happy.
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Collyno82(m): 6:08pm On Apr 20, 2017
FortuneTeller:


We all need prayer, but no one is going to be a fool. I suggest if you are a chronic masturbator to stop now. It will ruin your life and possibly destroy your family. My sis is free and happy.
dear was the correlation between praying n masturbating? Is that wat led to ur in-laws present health status? Is DAT all u can c, if DAT is the case ur spiritually blind
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Obinoscopy(m): 4:20am On Aug 10, 2017
Heromaniaa:
Yesterday was the day kasala burst for my head. I was on my way to an interview. Since 5 years wey I graduate, bros, I never see real job. But that yesterday, something told me that was the end of my job search. My girlfriend had linked me to a friend that had friend who was the GM in a manufacturing company. When I contacted the so called GM, he picked the phone and answered me like a vampire had given him a Mouth Gig.

“Who be rat? He spat out.

“It’s me Psalm. A friend of Sarah, who is a friend to Akpan, your good friend. He said you are the GM of Green food Industries.”

I could hear him chuckling on the other end.

“Werin you wan make I ju for you?” he replied. I was already getting pissed.

“I want to submit my CV to your company. I was told you could help me get a job”

“Bring am tomorrow, I go help you give the GM”

“Are you not the GM?

“Bro e be like say you never ready. I be the Gateman, your friend no tell your friend to tell your friend to tell you?

My jaw dropped. But I had no choice; I tidied my white shirt and dusted my CV. I must get that job the next day...

As early as 8 AM the next day, I set out. My gf had made a delicious afang soup the other night. I quickly heated four wraps of fufu, devoured it and left feeling like a bouncer. It had rained the other night and the bad roads were still muddy. I did my best to avoid reckless drivers from splashing dirty water on me. My best, as usual, was not enough.

A man in a black prado Jeep zoomed past, emptying a pot hole of muddy water on me. I did what any other frustrated man would do.


I boarded a bike and chased after him. Who knows, he could settle me with something tangible. The okadaman was a skillful rider but the prado guy had no chill. After five minutes, I spotted his car parked right in front of my babe’s apartment. Fear catch me like politician wey receive alert from Dasuki. I paid off the bike man and cautiously peeped into my girlfriend’s one room apartment. What I saw shocked me.

Continue reading here
http://9jachannel..com.ng/2017/03/diary-of-frustrated-graduate.html
You are good smiley
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by DanielGb(m): 11:18am On Aug 10, 2017
Buharimustgo:
May be he will have an erection when he sees u naked please help your sister in need

Smile.
I don't know if to say do it or not self.
But you and ur sister should use it to test him.
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by CHARLOE(m): 11:27am On Aug 19, 2017
FortuneTeller:


You are very late to this story. His money has been returned and my sister is free.
Oh! So sad. He's not impotent if he had erection @ any time, after all he could masturbate n sleep with prostitutes. I've been there, today I'm happily married with 2 kids.
His problem is psychological n medical. Alot of young men are going through similar challenge n don't no who to talk to n are also too shy to talk about it.
D solution: do a lab test n treat any infection present. Next is to boost confidence, a good way is to use libido boosting drug. D danger is he may become dependent on it. I recommend reyouth root.
Plz help ur ex in-law, u can refer him to me: digipixstudio@yahoo.com
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Nobody: 4:27pm On Aug 19, 2017
CHARLOE:

Oh! So sad. He's not impotent if he had erection @ any time, after all he could masturbate n sleep with prostitutes. I've been there, today I'm happily married with 2 kids.
His problem is psychological n medical. Alot of young men are going through similar challenge n don't no who to talk to n are also too shy to talk about it.
D solution: do a lab test n treat any infection present. Next is to boost confidence, a good way is to use libido boosting drug. D danger is he may become dependent on it. I recommend reyouth root.
Plz help ur ex in-law, u can refer him to m e: digipixstudio@yahoo.com

My sisters bride price was returned and paid by another man. She is doing well in her new marriage. Sadly my own is not.
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by CHARLOE(m): 5:42pm On Aug 19, 2017
FortuneTeller:


My sisters bride price was returned and paid by another man. She is doing well in her new marriage. Sadly my own is not.
Really? Do u mind sharing ur story?
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Nobody: 7:53pm On Aug 19, 2017
CHARLOE:

Really? Do u mind sharing ur story?

This is her story. My husband works fine. He is just very lazy about what he does. He's fast and doesn't want to do anything extra. You are welcome to go through my threads to learn more.
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by bigl: 5:23pm On Aug 20, 2017
I am coming today with tears in my eyes for my little sis. She is kind, sweet, and a very nice young lady. She met a 35 year old man last year who courted her and convinced our family of his sincerity. He is a nice guy and very handsome. They went for medical tests before the marriage and were told everything was fine. They have now been married for 3 months without sex. My sis has cried to me for the past 2 weeks. She says he has tried some herbal supplements and even saw a pastor, but nothing has changed. They did not have sex before marriage, but she says she has seen him with an erection before and after the marriage. However when he is about to insert himself, he loses the stiffness. I don't know what to do. Someone from our area says he is known to visit many prostitutes. I don't believe he is seeing them now because he has been with our family for some time now and even working in the family business. As they have not consummated the marriage, we are thinking of returning the things he bought so she can be free. How can a 35 year old man be impotent?? My sister shall not suffer.

It's merely a thing of the mind.

However, he's likely to av infection. Let him go for semen mcs.

He wld be given some antibiotics.

Then take things slow with him since he's been visiting prosties. Nothing is wrong with his pipe or ur sister's veejayjay.
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Kingsdave(m): 3:57am On Sep 17, 2018
CHARLOE:

Your bro Inlaw is not impotent if he can have an errction but loses it just b4 penetration, it could b any of 2 reasons: 1.psychological 2.std .
This is a prob a lot of young men face n surpassed (urs sinerely inclusive) while In their teenage to 20s n even 30s.
1st thing I'd advise: let him do a lab test to confirm presence/absence of bacteria/viral infection. If present, he shld treat with Orthodox method n follow up with any good bitters or agbo, cos some Infection cld be stubbornn they usually cause ED.
Next, he can tackle d psychological prob by taking libido boosting drug like Re-youth Root (Chinese herbal product). I(i recommend herbal products with no side effects.)
This will ensure he has hard erection b4 n during d act, he can stop using it when his confidence returns.
Pls help ur bro Inlaw, its not a big deal, it will only be if he has never had an erection in d past.. Don't advice ur sis to live her marriage, pass this info to her let her pass on to her hubby, u guys shld help him, cheers.
Let me also add this: let him run away from sugar! No soft drink/beer, no sugar in tea/garri etc. Sugar causes weak erection n also creates an enabling environment for bacteria/virus to thrive n multiply exponentially.
He shld also take lots of fruits like: water Mellon, cucumber, banana, lemon, groundnut etc
Please what's the dosage for the re youth
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by CHARLOE(m): 11:49am On Sep 18, 2018
Kingsdave:

Please what's the dosage for the re youth
Pls c a doc 1st n do a lab test n treat any infection present, that's d 1st step, cos infection (bacteria/viral) is d biggest culprit of erectyle disfunction (ed)). After d othodox treatment, start taking bitters, like beta or ruzu bitters to flush out d infection totally. Start with 4 tablespoons (measure into cup n drink) morning n night.for a month, then reduce to once daily ((morning or night) for 5-6months. Subsequently I can b taking it once or twice weekly, for detoxification.
D reyouth root is a temporary measure to boost ur libido so u can have sex n boost ur confidence.
Also plz start taking multivitamins if u don't take it already, I recommend reload men, very good, packed with useful antioxidants (google usefulness of antioxidants), vitamins n minerals ur body needs, restoring ur body to d state it shld b in. I use it n c d improvement in my performance, I last longer now with rock hard erection.
If u can't get these drugs: reyouth, beta bitters n reload for men, contact me, I'll help u get them (08030822276), cheers.
Reyouth dosage: start with 2 caps, 3-10hrs b4 sex. If ur erection during sex is not rock hard or u didn't last long, increase to 3/4. And don't 4get; Avoid sugar!

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Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Tuezday: 10:14pm On Mar 06, 2023
EmilyShoton:
Modified

Hello

sorry I am seeing this late. First your sister didn't marry an impotent man. What your husband has is called "Sexual Exhaustion" which is the cause of his ED.

It has to do with his brain on porn. It happens to most men who used porn to masturbate at a very early age so their brain is twisted to porn and not reality.

To know nothing is wrong with your husband, when you visit a urologist, he will definitely tell you nothing is wrong after series of test.

It is not a permanent problem but a temporary problem and it takes the two of them to work this out.

How old is your sister? because maturity in solving this is very essential.

1. If your husband is still masturbating, he should stop that and porn. sit him don and tell him what you discovered. I believe both of you are very close so you can open up to each other, you are husband and wife

2. He should go 30 days pure without any sexual activity and then introduce sex unto it little by little. After 30 days, you will see immense improvement if you true to the 30 days but you wont be totally cured as it takes 90 days to recover from sexual exhaustion. after the first 30 days, introduce sex maybe twice a week which is necessary to re-wire the brain back to reality. He could also take supplements, eat a lot of fruits and drink a lot of water and also with a lot of exercise. This hasten the whole process. Some men have been said to recover within two weeks of sexual exhaustion.

3. you have to have that connection to be helpful, cuddle him, make him connect with you. You are even lucky he has an erection at all, some don't do so can't know if it is psychological or physiological. I married my husband with PIED and that is when I started making research on this health issue. I couldn't even make him have an erection but when he watches porn of masturbates, it is soooo hard and erect so we went through this process and now I even beg him to stop that I am tired wink. Once any man has an erection at all during sexual intimacy with a woman, he is not impotent so many factors can contribute to his sexual dysfunction which is very reversible.

4. google on "sexual exhaustion" and both of you should go through this together she will feel better when you discover its not the end of the world or your marriage.

This process takes a while so please be patient with him. He will also experience flat lines along this period so don't freak out during this periods

Her husband might not even know he had such until he decided to have a penetration with her so don't tag him a devil.

PIED (Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction) is common among many men. Its psychological and very reversible so your sister should not freak out.

When having sex, both of them should relax and also see a doctor.

Lastly, please keep issues to you both, seek help together if you require but dont start telling friends and relatives. This is not maturity in marriage and be very careful so you dont spoil your marriage because that man will definitely recover if you both work together.

cheers


What’s ur instagram or WhatsApp please I want to talk to you
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Nobody: 11:06pm On Mar 06, 2023
I am coming today with tears in my eyes for my little sis. She is kind, sweet, and a very nice young lady. She met a 35 year old man last year who courted her and convinced our family of his sincerity. He is a nice guy and very handsome. They went for medical tests before the marriage and were told everything was fine. They have now been married for 3 months without sex. My sis has cried to me for the past 2 weeks. She says he has tried some herbal supplements and even saw a pastor, but nothing has changed. They did not have sex before marriage, but she says she has seen him with an erection before and after the marriage. However when he is about to insert himself, he loses the stiffness. I don't know what to do. Someone from our area says he is known to visit many prostitutes. I don't believe he is seeing them now because he has been with our family for some time now and even working in the family business. As they have not consummated the marriage, we are thinking of returning the things he bought so she can be free. How can a 35 year old man be impotent?? My sister shall not suffer.

Divorce his ass and get out of the marriage ASAP. Return the dowrh as well.

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