Love gives. God gave his only son to die for us. If someone really loves you, he would give to you. You can ask God to send you the love of your life. Believe and you will receive.
1The person you marry must be a Christian who does God will.
The person must not only be a Christian but he should be a doer of the word (e.g. hardworking, humble and kind).
2 YOURSELF
Before you find true love, work on yourself. You want to be someone you yourself would choose to marry. Are you a doer of the word? Be of good character. Put God first and be a devout Christian.
These are tips to help you win the love and respect of the one you love.
A Be chase-
It is important to girls should keep their bodies pure because you could lose the respect of the man of your dreams if you continue to be promiscuous. And if a guy cannot respect you, he might love you platonically but won’t be in love with you. You can repent if you have been promiscuous and God can help him respect you.
B Keep your body healthy-You want to look nice for the one you love. Eat in moderation and exercise regularly to keep your body attractive. Being fat can lead the one you like to disrespect you.
Care for your skin, teeth, hair and dress decently. Indecent dressing can lead the one you like to disrespect you. But don’t over focus on your appearance.
C Be clean- Keep your entire body and home clean and break all dirty habits. Dirty habits can make the one you love and others disrespect you.
D Work hard-at your job, housework and God’s work. This will make the one you like respect you.
E Also, be well-behaved. Don’t talk too much as being a talkative can lead the one you like to disrespect you.
F. Honesty is the best policy in a relationship. Telling lies can lead to distrust.
G. Let me add this tip. When a guy tells you to do something wrong like have sex or get drunk and you tell him no, he would even respect you more for it. On the other hand giving in would make him disrespect you.
Respect is necessary for someone to fall in love with you and you must continue to do all this if you want him to continue to respect you (meaning he can remain in love with you)
Try to read the bible and do the will of God in every area of your life. If you face any difficulty, pray.
Lastly, don’t make the guy you like the only focus of your life or he would probably run. Put God first and work on your own dreams, hobbies and spend time with friends.
3 Friendship-
Love is friendship. It is best to start a relationship as friends to get to know the person first. Build the friendship slow and steady. Don’t rush
These are ways to give your love.
A Words of appreciation
Always speak kindly to him. If you get angry, you can walk away or pray. Don’t ever say anything mean or harsh. People can remember hurtful words long after and it can ruin a relationship. But don’t be insincere in your compliments because he might notice and it is wrong.



B Attention
You should spend time with him. Pay regular attention to him. Don’t be obsessed with your phone. Listen to him when he talks.
C Gifts
Lots of people like gifts. But you can’t buy love so you don’t need to buy expensive gifts to win his love. He either likes you or he doesn’t.
You can buy him something small like couples tea mugs and it would touch his heart. Or as a sign of love, you can buy him something he really really wants, like a phone or something he really needs (e.g. a Christian book)
D Acts of service
Things like taking a lunch box to his office can win his heart. People in Nigeria say the way to a man heart is through his stomach. Other act of service may be helping him with his work etc

E Physical touch-Touch him like your own brother until married. You can hug and peck your brother, hold hands etc. Sleeping with any man (including the person you like) outside of marriage can lead the one you like to disrespect you.
E A friend in need is a friend indeed.
This means that when the guy you like is in need, you should be there for him in any way you can. This is true love.
If you underwater a flower (the relationship) it dies and if you over water the flower, it dies too. A relationship is like a flower. If you are uncaring, it can die and if you are obsessive it can die too. So, just be a very caring friend.
F Kindness- It is said the way to known a person character is to watch how he treats those beneath him. He could only be pretending to love you. You will be under the person when you marry. If he treats them badly, he could also treat you badly.
You should also listen to what people say about him because in a multitude of counsellors there is safety.

4 Respect

The bible says a wife must respect her husband so you must marry someone you respect. Watch a person character. He has to be a doer of the word. Does he behave like a born again Christian. Avoid sluggard, drunkards and wilful sinners
What is respect? It is to hold someone in high regard. It is putting someone on a pedestal.
His character counts. You have to marry someone with a good character and he has to treat you like a queen. He has to respect you too.
You don’t have to get angry if he make mistakes a lot but if he shows a real sign of disrespect like pushing you away and rejecting you, you should leave or else he won't respect you. Remember the famous saying-if you love someone, let him go, if he doesn't come back, he was never yours.
5 Passion
I read that most people want to marry someone they find attractive so it is important. He must not be conventionally handsome but you should find him attractive.
Also remember that even if you follow this advice, some people are not just that into you. Not everyone is going to fall for you.
Do all this steps to win his heart and continue to do them to sustain his love.

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