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I Need Answers by Cherie69: 3:39pm On Mar 19, 2017 |
Hello everyone, I'll like find out ways on how to stop being shy. I'll like to work as a news reporter in future, I don't know how I'll cope with shyness. I'm 21yrs |
Re: I Need Answers by blessedvisky(m): 3:51pm On Mar 19, 2017 |
Cherie69:Are you M/F? |
Re: I Need Answers by Cherie69: 4:07pm On Mar 19, 2017 |
Female |
Re: I Need Answers by pasqal09: 4:31pm On Mar 19, 2017 |
Look for things that will make u be in the spot light often. Once u get used to it then you're good to go. |
Re: I Need Answers by Nobody: 4:37pm On Mar 19, 2017 |
If you meet me In person I swear your shyness would dissappear because I will keep throwing you into situations that would call for you to speak up. Am that horrible as am a former shy person it means you lack self confidence because you don't see yourself in a positive light. What's the cure ? Being non challant , value yourself more and somehow you will reach a pointment where your confidence in your self will make you be outspoken |
Re: I Need Answers by Cherie69: 6:04pm On Mar 19, 2017 |
I have been trying to stop it for many years, I don't want to destroy my dreams |
Re: I Need Answers by Nobody: 6:37pm On Mar 19, 2017 |
Cherie69: By the way, why do you want to be a news reporter? What other things do you do well? Your natural strengths are more likely to be where your REAL talents lie. Also it's usually easier to work on your strengths than to invest a lot of time trying to refine weaknesses. |
Re: I Need Answers by Nobody: 7:27pm On Mar 19, 2017 |
shy people desperately seek the acceptance and approval of others. This makes them extremely self-conscious and fearful of being judged, ridiculed, criticized, humiliated, embarrassed, and rejected. so you have to challenge your assumptions be comfortable and confident in your self and your abilities, and take steps to overcome it. * try to sing at a karoke bar * walk up to someone and start a conversation * ask strangers questions. * if you're in university, take up projects that include presentation. *join some solidarity group, forum etc etc step out of your comfort zone and don't be hard on yourself. don't rush things. people may never say it, but secretly people admire and sometimes envy confident people. Most of us have been shy at some point in our lives, I have - so you're not alone. |
Re: I Need Answers by Cherie69: 7:42pm On Mar 19, 2017 |
I have a flair for Journalism and story telling but I think I'm too reserved for the profession for instance I can't stand many faces |
Re: I Need Answers by blessedvisky(m): 4:01am On Mar 20, 2017 |
Cherie69:my dear, you need books. Lots of them. After 2 or 3 books you'll learn enough tips to make you into a young strong brave woman. You'll be able to hold conversations with anybody. |
Re: I Need Answers by Nobody: 10:20am On Mar 20, 2017 |
I'm extremely shy too... always conscious of myself |
Re: I Need Answers by blessedvisky(m): 3:46pm On Mar 20, 2017 |
Cherie69:Post your whatsapp number. I'll send you some helpful E-books |
Re: I Need Answers by Cherie69: 5:58pm On Mar 20, 2017 |
09076518079 thanks |
Re: I Need Answers by Cherie69: 6:03pm On May 04, 2017 |
blessedvisky:hello blessedvisky |
Re: I Need Answers by Absalomh: 10:46pm On May 04, 2017 |
. abeg who get 5k? make ehhe borrow me now. u go inbox mi. |
Re: I Need Answers by klexycole(m): 11:31pm On May 04, 2017 |
Cherie69: Take down your number. |
Re: I Need Answers by Cherie69: 6:48am On May 05, 2017 |
klexycole:I don't understand... Elucidate |
Re: I Need Answers by klexycole(m): 8:53am On May 05, 2017 |
Cherie69: Delete your number completely on this thread to avoid scammers. Guess you just joined Nairaland |
Re: I Need Answers by yvesboss(m): 9:16am On May 05, 2017 |
Thank God i got fed up of my shyness in my second year in school, then went into departmental politics to bring out that unexplored part in me and it worked magic. 1 Like |
Re: I Need Answers by blessedvisky(m): 5:14pm On May 14, 2017 |
good evening . how have you been. I've been offline for quite a while , phone got spoilt Cherie69: |
Re: I Need Answers by PresVA: 5:23pm On May 14, 2017 |
Cherie69:Join ushers, lay readers, choir in the church or whatever society that will make you face people. .. try reading motivational books too.. |
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