In the same article where a man reacted to the issue on sex education for children as ", the worst case of child abuse brazenly endorsed by the nations education authorities and unleashed on today’s kids like a poisonous live snake!" A man responded to the issue this way, "SEXUAL ABSTINENCE: Rubbish! To demand that a girl abstains from sex until she is married is to impose an unbearable burden on our daughters.” (Ugochukwu Ejinkeonye, “Nigeria’s Last Virgins” The Vanguard, (Kaduna), 12 October 2006, p.39). If teaching children to abstain from sex before marriage is rubbish, what do we tag promiscuity before marriage?

Is it right for parents to encourage their daughters to have sex before marriage? Kindly give reasons to help others please. Thanks for your anticipated responses.

speaking personally for myself, it is not something i would be proud of  or gracefully encourage and i dont think any good mother in the deepest depth of her heart would also, but those are just wishes because at last, the girl is going to make the decision herself to or not to. but the good thing about is that as a mother and as a parent you are in better position to let her know her options and leave the decision to her.