HOW TO KNOW A BAD WIFE:

The primary assignment of a wife is to be a helper to the man. When a husband needs help and the wife refuses to help even when she is in the capacity to help then she is a bad wife.

HOW TO KNOW A BAD HUSBAND:

When a man refuses to meet up his responsibility even when he is able to and waits to be reminded the he is a bad husband. When he does not even try to meet then he is bad. When he meets the needs of outsiders but abandons his home then he is a bad husband.

THE BALANCE

As a man always ask your wife what she needs. It begins from here. Don't assume.

As a wife ask your husband in what area he needs your help. You never know how high his love for you will be boosted by just ASKING.

YOUR MARRIAGE SHALL BE HEAVEN ON EARTH IN JESUS NAME.

Unless you live on another planet. It doesn't work that way. A man doesn't necessarily have to be a provider and a woman a helper. If both see each other as equals and are ready to stick together, the union will be a success. Marriage is not necessary though but it can work