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Re: I Need Help And Advice From Married People I Am Tired Of Her Behavior by Nobody: 7:18pm On Apr 26, 2017 |
Dontaskme:Nice one papi.. you welcome |
Re: I Need Help And Advice From Married People I Am Tired Of Her Behavior by nnamdiosu(m): 7:37pm On Apr 26, 2017 |
Foxyn: Bros....wait...have u paid her her money. Did she take all her stuffs? As in all? |
Re: I Need Help And Advice From Married People I Am Tired Of Her Behavior by bigcp(m): 7:51pm On Apr 26, 2017 |
ehen....now u are talking...as she don leave no ever accept her back...no matter what... just start saving up money to pay her back....bross if she comes back begging n u accept her back...na u sabi ooo...then...na only u carry WAKA COME go be ur name...she's evil....try as much as possible 2 be busy so u don't think of her that much....GOOD LUCK n welcome 2 a new beginning... |
Re: I Need Help And Advice From Married People I Am Tired Of Her Behavior by Nobody: 8:12pm On Apr 26, 2017 |
Thanks to that babe for making you discover the part of you which was until now yet undiscovered. lol i'm kidding you bro. First and foremost, the only tool used in controlling people is debt, when you indebted to a person, the person uses the debt as a leverage to control you, that's what your girlfriend is doing to you. paying her back should be the way out of this situation or plan b, move out of the apartment and go stay with your friend and let her stay in the apartment all by herself and still promise to pay her back in due time, This should work and even gets her depressed for loosing you and having to deal with loneliness. |
Re: I Need Help And Advice From Married People I Am Tired Of Her Behavior by An0nimus: 11:19pm On Apr 26, 2017 |
This one don turn to Nairaland series OP, one thing you need to ask yourself when dealing with someone like this is ''can I live this way for the rest of life?''. Forget all the begging and tears that may come. If your answer to that question is no, bros cut off from that relationship ASAP. Do not take her back. I repeat, do not take her back. You're not quarreling with her but you guys are not compatible. It's as simple as ABC. I can't imagine a level-headed introvert living with the person you described. Please for your sanity, consider how you proceed with this woman. 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help And Advice From Married People I Am Tired Of Her Behavior by Mosa1982(f): 2:34pm On Apr 27, 2017 |
Foxyn: Must You comment? |
Re: I Need Help And Advice From Married People I Am Tired Of Her Behavior by fluxbush(f): 7:16am On Apr 28, 2017 |
Dontaskme:Good. It is time to take control of your life and emotions. First things first, change all the locks in case she has keys to the apartment. Then get a mutual friend who will stand as a witness, to agree on a specified date and manner to pay off your debt. Better for you if the friend is a lawyer. Mean it this time and let her know that you can't be pushed around anymore. This life is too short for bullshit. And after this passes away,no more cohabiting till marriage. Work on yourself and relieve yourself of all the emotional baggage. |
Re: I Need Help And Advice From Married People I Am Tired Of Her Behavior by Nobody: 9:10am On Apr 28, 2017 |
This one na dorty cohabitation abeg. |
Re: I Need Help And Advice From Married People I Am Tired Of Her Behavior by adedayoa2(f): 12:13pm On Apr 28, 2017 |
Thank God you work from home, run away from her and her environs |
Re: I Need Help And Advice From Married People I Am Tired Of Her Behavior by Nobody: 12:50pm On Apr 28, 2017 |
You are not married yet and you have started living in hell what happen after you get married to her? Food for thought oh. Try to pay back the money you borrow from her and leave the relationship before you get more frustrated than you are already with her. Who knows if is this same attitude that is driving her away from home. |
Re: I Need Help And Advice From Married People I Am Tired Of Her Behavior by Nobody: 12:56pm On Apr 28, 2017 |
Dontaskme: She is gone for good. Change your house key if you really want her to leave your life for good. |
Re: I Need Help And Advice From Married People I Am Tired Of Her Behavior by hysteriabox(m): 1:11pm On Apr 28, 2017 |
Da foq u doing with that gal, boui!!! When a person repeats stinging habits that hurt the other partner over n over... its a sign. You can manage until d marriage chord finally seals your fate. But guy, run! Loving, gentle chicks, lose their cool in marriage n unleash terrible moments, howbeit temporarily. But this ya chick... even b4 going anywhere... kai My advice... Ka gudu ka tsira Run for your life BTW, going ethnical, igbo gals will hardly....hardly... hardly end up with non-igbo guys ( ofcos there are some exceptions) |
Re: I Need Help And Advice From Married People I Am Tired Of Her Behavior by YesNo(m): 3:50pm On Apr 28, 2017 |
Dontaskme: so you type this by yourself and you are still here asking for advice. I advice you to sit down and read through what you wrote. read it like 3 times over. then advice yourself. |
Re: I Need Help And Advice From Married People I Am Tired Of Her Behavior by Nobody: 5:25pm On Apr 28, 2017 |
i really feel ur pain bro.. m a female also buh i am strongly against a girl dats always narrating how she helped her boy friend nd all.. its really bad..i wish u can jst exit dat apartment nd pay her bck...i jst wish..so u can be free from embarrassment..... |
Re: I Need Help And Advice From Married People I Am Tired Of Her Behavior by Alennsar(f): 9:23pm On Apr 28, 2017 |
fluxbush: seconded |
Re: I Need Help And Advice From Married People I Am Tired Of Her Behavior by Alennsar(f): 9:30pm On Apr 28, 2017 |
Dontaskme: marriage is interesting if you choose rightly and also frustrating if you choose wrongly. I tank God for my marriage. |
Re: I Need Help And Advice From Married People I Am Tired Of Her Behavior by Prognose: 1:15am On Apr 29, 2017 |
An0nimus:Do not take her back. I repeat, do not take her back. You're not quarreling with her but you guys are not compatible. Do not take her back. I repeat, do not take her back. You're not quarreling with her but you guys are not compatible. Do not take her back. I repeat, do not take her back. You're not quarreling with her but you guys are not compatible. Do not take her back. I repeat, do not take her back. You're not quarreling with her but you guys are not compatible. |
Re: I Need Help And Advice From Married People I Am Tired Of Her Behavior by bellong: 10:46am On Apr 29, 2017 |
@OP, The essence of courtship is to understand each other as well as know if you can live together for the rest of your lives. If whatever you have written here is true, I see no reason why you are still asking for advice when the handwriting is clearly on the wall. In life, we all will surely face challenges at one point or the other. No one can escape it, only that the challenges may differ. If you happen to have financial issues in future, with this girl, you will be in hot soup. You would prefer death to life. Going by what you have described, she is not yet ready for a relationship. She has had a lot gone wrong for and with her unresolved. She needs help in behaviour management and understanding life. She offered to help you yet sings about it at every given opportunity. She constantly harass you about many things yet you remain in the relationship. Do you want to die young? Since you are going to face a very stiff opposition from her family, there is no point hanging around with her. Let her go except you are tied down with free sex. The earlier you realised she needs to go now, the better for you. 2 Likes |
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