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she is 37:,No Husband And No Job by lazygal: 12:55pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
I came across this Lady in a family friends place got talking and we kind of clicked. How ever I was shocked though hid my shock well to hear that she has no ,husband no boyfriend,no job And no business... She says she never dwells on her predicament as depression and high bp might set in ... Funny enough she's a muslim so I felt she should at least be able to marry as even no .2 I advised she goes spiritual as this kind of issue get jay kegs oooo What do u think? |
Re: she is 37:,No Husband And No Job by thesicilian: 1:09pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
At that age you just have to have achieved at least one thing in life: a good job, business, family, money, anything - even if it's just a boyfriend. Her lack of ambition is astonishing. 2 Likes |
Re: she is 37:,No Husband And No Job by Nobody: 1:48pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
I think you should mind your business and stop ameboism 14 Likes |
Re: she is 37:,No Husband And No Job by lazygal: 2:38pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
[quote author=Joavid post=56036073]I think you should mind your business and stop ameboism [/quote lwkmd ooo.. 1 Like |
Re: she is 37:,No Husband And No Job by lazygal: 2:39pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
thesicilian: I don't think its lack of ambition sha as she has been maki g efforts |
Re: she is 37:,No Husband And No Job by lazygal: 2:40pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
Joavid: By the way she asked for advice and yes she knows am posting it ....so please u mind your own business 2 Likes |
Re: she is 37:,No Husband And No Job by aljharem(m): 2:48pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
Is she a feminist ? A lot of nigerian women will end up like this funny enough. Later they would get one small boy to please marry them and they will be paying the boy 1 Like |
Re: she is 37:,No Husband And No Job by Nobody: 3:08pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
aljharem: Muslim feminist? How ridiculously absurd! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: she is 37:,No Husband And No Job by ifyalways(f): 3:36pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
So how does she feed and take care of herself? She is not doing anything, as in anything? 1 Like |
Re: she is 37:,No Husband And No Job by aljharem(m): 4:35pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
Fifthcolumnist: Yes there are Muslim women that are feminist |
Re: she is 37:,No Husband And No Job by Mznaett: 9:22pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
I have a friend too (Christian) that's in her late 30s BUT No husband, no boyfriend, no child and worst enough no job. Heaven alone knows how she survives I once informed her about a particular school in PH that was in need of staff. After submitting her CV,the HRM told her the available positions were meant only for those that studied "English" and not "Linguistics". ?? Hmmm... |
Re: she is 37:,No Husband And No Job by tensazangetsu20(m): 11:20pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
Mznaett:Is it that she didn't want to get a bf or what? There are way more men than women and women get to choose so how come? Even fat and ugly girls are changing boyfriends like tissue paper. |
Re: she is 37:,No Husband And No Job by baby124: 12:57am On Apr 30, 2017 |
OP, How about you mind your business and face your life? If your life was not depressing for you, you won't have the time to table another woman's business. 4 Likes |
Re: she is 37:,No Husband And No Job by Nobody: 1:36am On Apr 30, 2017 |
Because she's a Muslim "she should at least be able to marry as even no.2", as a second wife? OP, I hope you didn't tell her that. Not everyone wants that kind of life for themselves. Don't pressure her into settling for the wrong person or marriage. Since she doesn't have a job either, she should be looking into getting one or starting a business and keeping herself occupied + making her money to gain some confidence. That should be her main focus right now. 1 Like |
Re: she is 37:,No Husband And No Job by lazygal: 6:10am On Apr 30, 2017 |
ifyalways:She lives with her parents .... |
Re: she is 37:,No Husband And No Job by lazygal: 6:13am On Apr 30, 2017 |
baby124: My dear obviously by your choice of words and manner if expression,its clear who has depression.A depressed person stays in her shell and sees nothing good in life they also don't care about others or their problems. Be honest with your self,you fit the description 3 Likes |
Re: she is 37:,No Husband And No Job by lazygal: 6:15am On Apr 30, 2017 |
aljharem: What makes u feel lot of women will end up like this ?do u have sisters? Do u have daughters? Be care ful of your tongue 1 Like |
Re: she is 37:,No Husband And No Job by jashar(f): 6:36am On Apr 30, 2017 |
She may have tried out stuff that didn't work @ no job/no biz. She may have made up her mind that she has come too far to settle @ no husband/boyfriend. |
Re: she is 37:,No Husband And No Job by Mznaett: 7:09am On Apr 30, 2017 |
tensazangetsu20: I'm not exaggerating o If not for some reasons I'd have upload at least two of her pictures here. (A beautiful body+a pretty face+brain). It's not as if she doesn't need a man in her life but in a situation whereby those approaching her are mostly married men with kids? Haba! |
Re: she is 37:,No Husband And No Job by ifyalways(f): 8:15am On Apr 30, 2017 |
lazygal:Her parents feed her, change her wardrobe, get her the necessary feminine stuff each month? And she does what from morning till night? Even Alfa wife dey do something. |
Re: she is 37:,No Husband And No Job by maclatunji: 8:55am On Apr 30, 2017 |
Okay, now I know there is a 37 year old single Muslim lady with no job. Let her try this http://www.namusorg.com/msms/, it might help with her marriage issues. |
Re: she is 37:,No Husband And No Job by tensazangetsu20(m): 9:34am On Apr 30, 2017 |
Mznaett:Well she should come seek admission to my school. If really you say she is what she is, she will get proposals left right and center. Even ugly girls here are treated like gods. |
Re: she is 37:,No Husband And No Job by Mznaett: 9:39am On Apr 30, 2017 |
tensazangetsu20: You're mouthed Location please? |
Re: she is 37:,No Husband And No Job by tensazangetsu20(m): 9:46am On Apr 30, 2017 |
Mznaett:Regional maritime university, Ghana. If she didn't find a husband here then her villagers are at work. An average girl here has like 10 bfs with each having their own portfolio. |
Re: she is 37:,No Husband And No Job by Mznaett: 10:10am On Apr 30, 2017 |
tensazangetsu20: Ooops! she's done with school but no job. |
Re: she is 37:,No Husband And No Job by tensazangetsu20(m): 10:22am On Apr 30, 2017 |
Mznaett:Lol men she can just move and live here for like a month. |
Re: she is 37:,No Husband And No Job by Mznaett: 10:27am On Apr 30, 2017 |
tensazangetsu20:Lol Guy,please free her jor. |
Re: she is 37:,No Husband And No Job by tensazangetsu20(m): 10:32am On Apr 30, 2017 |
Mznaett:Lets not derail the thread any further.I sent you a pm. |
Re: she is 37:,No Husband And No Job by aljharem(m): 10:35am On Apr 30, 2017 |
lazygal: No I know what I typed if you decided to bury your head in the sand like the ostrich then fine, your opinion but my household will not end up like that because I have thought them how to be a responsible woman with the fear of God. Not to disrespect responsible men, take care of the home, loyal and caring. That has made all of them to be married today and have a happy home. The last married last year when she decided to drop that feminism rubbish. The husband respect her to the core. My dear you can give poo and expect flowers in return, what you give is what you get. The same goes to men, you can't treat your wife as a slave and expect a queen. It can't just work. It takes two to tango. Any single woman that comes to me for advice never get single again after 3 months. Another is getting married next month. There is no ugly woman. Notice even the extremely fat ones are getting TRUE LOVE while the "slim and beautiful" are still single. Just think about it 1 Like |
Re: she is 37:,No Husband And No Job by Mznaett: 10:38am On Apr 30, 2017 |
tensazangetsu20:Ok. Sorry,I have issues with my mail. |
Re: she is 37:,No Husband And No Job by lazygal: 10:38am On Apr 30, 2017 |
aljharem: I didn't bother readin your response but my advise to u still stands don't expect to curse women and expect that the same won't apply to women in your house hold..they are not any different mind words that you utter |
Re: she is 37:,No Husband And No Job by lazygal: 10:41am On Apr 30, 2017 |
ifyalways: Lol ..ify..some Alfa wives no dey do things ooo |
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