I was wondering what is going on in marriages this time, I picked a diary and decides to check the contents, to my greatest surprise I came across where the lady gives a date that she made up her mind to live and care for her children and don't care what happens to the husband anymore. nairalanders what's the husbands fate?

Water melon

It all boils down to loyalty.
With all the stories flying upandan about marital disloyalty between husband and wife I wouldn't blame anybody who thinks outside the box at the initial stage.

it could have been caused by the man or husband or both. when love is strained it shifts to the next available person and mostly for women are the kids. a woman's online pictures are mostly shows where her heart is,

What do you mean by what's his fate?

If he's so bothered by his wife's care and attention, he should talk to her na.

I'm not sure why she decided to not 'care' about the husband, but has he behaved in a manner showing her she cannot rely on him?

Anyway, his fate is in his hands.

D couple need to come together and talk over d whole issue.God give every couple wisdom to settle their differences

no smoke without fire

What were you doing snooping in her diary.? The guy should adjust himself.

op what fate are you talking about?
what if
the husband must have already taken responsibility for his happiness probably has side chicks and enjoying his life. the wife noticing she has been worrying herself for things she cannot change decided to be responsible for her own happiness by transferring her love to her kids who naturally love her back. isn't it a win win situation for both of them?

This is the husband. Lol. Instead of you to change your ways, you are here looking for ideas to get what you don't deserve. LOL.

baby124:
This is the husband. Lol. Instead of you to change your ways, you are here looking for ideas to get what you don't deserve. LOL.

whose husband? I don't pray for such but if it happens ,they're still my children so let her care for them!