Following reports and viral photos which showed Nollywood Actress, Tonto Dikeh showing up at son's school Father's day celebration dressed like a man, her estranged husband, Olakunle Churchill has reacted to this with a cryptic message.

Dropping a message on the IG photo he shared which reads, 'Don't play the victim to circumstances you created', Olakunle Churchill wrote;

"It’s cruel and it’s unfair.

You are lying to yourself because you seek comfort. Well comfort is overrated. You are lying to yourself because you are scared of the unknown. But you must stop. To continue lying will eat away at your soul, causing you untold amounts of future pain.

A lie is something that you make yourself believe in order to make life a little easier. A lie is a paradigm under which you operate to avoid pain. A lie will destroy you, inside and out. A lie is something you want to believe because to consider the opposite would hurt your ego.

Sometimes the difference between a lie and the truth can be subtle. Sometimes your brain will try to “logically” trick you into believing a lie. I cannot give you a definitive guide on how to differentiate between the two; I am not you and I do not understand your specific circumstances, motivations, and desires. I can, however, give you some tips to guide you to make decisions that will serve you well.
DM me for guidelines"

http://www.lailasblog.com/2017/06/dont-play-victim-circumstances-created-churchill-reacts-tonto-dikeh-showing-sons-school-dressed-man.html

Lalasticlala

This one weak me! She should be arrested for impersonation. Lols



FTC again and again and again! Where is my award Mr Seun?
Anyway, I dedicate this to all the motherless children around the world. God will continue to provide for you.

representing the brilliant husband. please dm him for guidelines antie homo

bad move

Immature display

Her display is simply madness

Tonto went too far on this one

Clinical depression loading...

Celebrity life....... 70% of it Na wahala

Tonto is just simply irrational and deluded. An unrepentant drama queen. She is sick as well.

How can u subject that little boy to a life of not having an ordained fatherly care. She is on a very high level of stupid.

daddy with no dick...what a drama Queen is she..

I'm officially tired of Tonto Dike, so Tonto dike hired a makeup artist to coat her face and a fashion designer to make her a male clothing? Tonto wahala just too much. Why does she to make have her failed marriage and her sole parenting trend online? Instead of her to attach herself to responsible married female artist for mentoring, she's busy parading her irrational self on social media.

Must he talk?? If he says he is done with Tonto, Why is he doing this?? Ehn?!

SURElee:
I'm officially tired of Tonto Dike, so Tonto dike hired a makeup artist to coat her face and a fashion designer to make her a male clothing? Tonto wahala just too much. Why does she to make have her failed marriage and her sole parenting trend online? Instead of her to attach herself to responsible married female artist for mentoring, she's busy parading her irrational self on social media.

Ogbeni is it your marriage, or is tonto your sister? Why are you taking it personal na? You don chop??

Imagine that little man asking for his dad,common i see nothing extreme in this.... Churchill can write a novel about LIE for all we care!

Churchill ko mosqueill ni...abeg shift lemme pass

Tonto is mad i swear! What kind of girls do we have this days bikonu!

tonto dikeh chop churchill eye sha ....shift lemme faint biko

now am sure the weed and cocaine truly affected tonto's brain...

This Tonto story weak me sha.... has it come to that? She's always looking for attention. Na so craze dey start. Anyways her and Churchill can goan die, their matter don expire.

she was actually lookin 4 his attention... and she sure got it

graciella:


Ogbeni is it your marriage, or is tonto your sister? Why are you taking it personal na? You don chop??

Is it your personal? Is it your your hunger or are you the owner of nairaland?



Do you baff at all?

I dey tell you

Just look at how he's vibrating on another person's matter like his life depends on it

graciella:


Ogbeni is it your marriage, or is tonto your sister? Why are you taking it personal na? You don chop??

Tonto 1 - Churchill 0

She got Churchill this time

Mr. Churchill what stopped you from representing yourself? You were busy with your foundation while your primary foundation is in a mess.

Dey there dey write grammar, King will grow up seeing such efforts his mom has put to make him happy and he will love the mother more than you.

You have to reunite again. It does not matter what we will say.

Am only here to read comments....

It's amazing how some people feel Tonto behavior is OK. Is she the only single parent? It's so childish and stupid. What if the boy was asking for his father, you said, so will she continue painting fake beard and wearing male native attires as long as possible because she doesn't want him to miss his dad who u have clearly shut out of the boys life yourself? Talk about Hiding behind a finger.

graciella:
Must he talk?? If he says he is done with Tonto, Why is he doing this?? Ehn?!

yes he must talk since it concerns the kid. If she wanted to roam about the streets unclad, that doesnt concern him.. As long as it affects the mindset of a kid, any sane father would react..


Shows you are not even married sef

I was one of the few that rooted for her after she ended her marriage citing infidelity/abuse. No one (male or female)should ever put up with any form of abuse.

When I read that she dressed up as a man to attend father's day celebration in her Son's school, the first few questions I asked myself were

1. Where is his father?
2. It is okay to be done with him but he is still the father of that boy
3. Did she inform him of this school celebration?
4. Why is she playing God?

In fact why isn't he even actively involved in his son's life? He is trying to be the mature one but this has gone on for too long. Find a way to reach an agreement/arrangement with your son's mother for the sake of your son and if unsuccessful GO TO COURT

This is crazy. I read an interview Caroline Danjuma granted some time ago. She said her marriage might have failed, her husband has failed her but one thing she cannot deny him is access to his children.

stephleena:
daddy with no dick...what a drama Queen is she..

You're not sure, it's medically possible.