Maduawuchukwu:


That a man is the leader of the house does not mean that it is a master/servant relationship. It just means that the man takes the final decision on matters affecting the family when he and his wife might not come to a consensus.

see your choice of words, final decision indeed, what if that decision is a bad one?,it is this i am the boss mentality we are talking about

frenzyduchess:
see your choice of words, final decision indeed, what if that decision is a bad one?,it is this i am the boss mentality we are talking about

Lol. In anything in life a person always make the final decision that others have to follow; that is the key behind human success. The decision can be good or bad; that's just life for you. A decision must be made.

I need me a ghanaian wifey to have and to hold.

Deseo:
All dis wan no consain me o; Love me, I submit to you. Simple sontinss

There's nothing like having a submissive wife

Maduawuchukwu:


Lol. In anything in life a person always make the final decision that othe rs have to follow; that is the key behind human success. The decision can be good or bad; that's just life for you. A decision must be made.

I hear,the universe knows that is why unreasonable and men who are not analytical turn me off, so if he wants to begin to fight for headship I can let my mind be at rest knowing he is not going to sail the ship into an iceberg with poor judgement and poor decision making

Saintsbrown:
Don't mind them.
I believe The golden rule in marriage is stated in d bible.
" Man love ur wife, wife should be submissive to the husband"
These days ladies claim equality in marriage, that's y the number of broken homes in d west is on d rise.

God bless u and ur generation with what I just read from u.

Run your own marriage how you want. Don't tell others how to do theirs

Maduawuchukwu:


That a man is the leader of the house does not mean that it is a master/servant relationship. It just means that the man takes the final decision on matters affecting the family when he and his wife might not come to a consensus.

Why him?

He's smarter or you've been fed to believe his decision must be better? Such blatant sexism. It's disgusting.

Guess what? In a normal relationship if they can't reach a consensus, one of the parties will have to yield. Yes.

Sometimes it can be the woman, sometimes it can be the man. The woman does not always have to drop what she wants so the man can get his way. How these things sound okay to you people is beyond dumbfounding to me.

I always feel deep disgust when I read such things. Like how can another human be so full of themselves that they believe what the other person wants is unimportant compared to their wants.

It's highly irritating to people with functional brains.

cococandy:

Why him?

He's smarter or you've been fed to believe his decision must be better? Such blatant sexism. It's disgusting.

Guess what? In a normal relationship if they can't reach a consensus, one of the parties will have to yield. Yes.

Sometimes it can be the woman, sometimes it can be the man. The woman does not always have to drop what she wants so the man can get his way. How these things sound okay to you people is beyond dumbfounding to me.

I always feel deep disgust when I read such things. Like how can another human be so full of themselves that they believe what the other person wants is unimportant compared to their wants.

It's highly irritating to people with functional brains.

But we indeed have instances where the man yields to the woman but it rightly has to be the exception and not the rule. A man is generally the leader of the home and I feel that it is one of the concepts all humans should just accept. I once supported giving leadership to whomever was "fitter" but I now feel it is wrong. A man's temperament does not support following a woman in family situations. He has to lead. Just learn to accept it the same way you accept that there is a God in heaven. Trying to reverse it is a battle that nobody can win.

frenzyduchess:
I hear,the universe knows that is why unreasonable and men who are not analytical turn me off, so if he wants to begin to fight for headship I can let my mind be at rest knowing he is not going to sail the ship into an iceberg with poor judgement and poor decision making

Yeah. Marry analytical and courageous guys and follow their lead sometimes like you follow Jesus. If you can't you can always divorce.

cococandy:

Why him?

He's smarter or you've been fed to believe his decision must be better? Such blatant sexism. It's disgusting.

Guess what? In a normal relationship if they can't reach a consensus, one of the parties will have to yield. Yes.

Sometimes it can be the woman, sometimes it can be the man. The woman does not always have to drop what she wants so the man can get his way. How these things sound okay to you people is beyond dumbfounding to me.

I always feel deep disgust when I read such things. Like how can another human be so full of themselves that they believe what the other person wants is unimportant compared to their wants.

It's highly irritating to people with functional brains.

Aunty, I know you are married, but I love you for posting this comment.

You are a true daughter of your parents

is this girl real? I go like to unwrap and confirm this her package o.

tintingz:
Lol, actually the wedding gown and wedding jacket are western culture it has nothing to do with equality, you can simply wear your native wedding outfit to office.

Women are more praise in wedding than men, i guess no equality.

My dear .there is no equality at all

Maduawuchukwu:


Yeah. Marry analytical and courageous guys and follow their lead sometimes like you follow Jesus. If you can't you can always divorce.

why must you assume everyone is a brainswashed blind follower ,I can smell sarcasm ,by the way I dont go to church , definitely, its better to get a life jacket than sink with the ship

darlenese:



My dear .there is no equality at all

You can tell that to queen Elizabeth or Oprah Winfrey.

Saying there is no equality at all is fallacy.

There is equality and equity.

You won't be there typing this from your phone if there is no equality, you either be in the kitchen or the other room.

frenzyduchess:
why must you assume everyone is a brainswashed blind follower ,I can smell sarcasm ,by the way I dont go to church , definitely, its better to get a life jacket than sink with the ship

Hmm. Religion is not the only thing we follow blindly sha. We follow many things blindly just so that we could stay sane.

Maduawuchukwu:

Hmm. Religion is not the only thing we follow blindly sha. We follow many things blindly just so that we could stay sane.

other things like?

frenzyduchess:
other things like?

somethings like our moral ethics which we are taught from birth, our values etc. If you look deep you will discover that there is no really no anchor on which base most of our morals,desires and values. Some of them are even illogical but we follow them because doing otherwise would deprive us of our ability to function like normal beings. To function in society you need some form of stupidity. Have u heard of skepticism.

Maduawuchukwu:

somethings like our moral ethics which we are taught from birth, our values etc. If you look deep you will discover that there is no really no anchor on which base most of our morals,desires and values. Some of them are even illogical but we follow them because doing otherwise would deprive us of our ability to function like normal beings. To function in society you need some form of stupidity. Have u heard of skepticism.

morals,ethics, hehehehe,that was probably in the 19th century not in this generation

frenzyduchess:
morals,ethics, hehehehe,that was probably in the 19th century not in this generation

Huh? We still follow them till date nah. Not all but most like care for others, don't kill and shit.

Maduawuchukwu:

Huh? We still follow them till date nah. Not all but most like care for others, don't kill and shit.

I beg your pardon but do you need values and morals not to kill?,anyway I get your point sha

frenzyduchess:
I beg your pardon but do you need values and morals not to kill?,anyway I get your point sha

Of course nah! Most people refrain from it subconsciously but when following it becomes inconvenient it is then that you will realise that it is a choice and to avoid doing it you would need to make a decision to stand by that moral.

Maduawuchukwu:


Of course nah! Most people refrain from it subconsciously but when following it becomes inconvenient it is then that you will realise that it is a choice and to avoid doing it you would need to make a decision to stand by that moral.

alright,i hear you,thanks for your time, enjoy the rest of your day

frenzyduchess:
alright,i hear you,thanks for your time, enjoy the rest of your day

The day don finish. Good night.

Maduawuchukwu:


The day don finish. Good night.

alright,good night

lilian yansh

Men are really trying o! so na person dey control des resource? Aal izz well

abeg jor! women of her size dont give me the shivers. DONT LIKE THEM ALL LOOK LIKE A BAG OF RICE.

l don finally confam say na Ghana gal i go marry.

Ehiscotch:


www.vanguardngr.com/2017/06/wrong-woman-claim-equality-man-marriage-lilian-larkai/

Desperate ashawo speak for yourself.

cococandy:

Why him?

He's smarter or you've been fed to believe his decision must be better? Such blatant sexism. It's disgusting.

Guess what? In a normal relationship if they can't reach a consensus, one of the parties will have to yield. Yes.

Sometimes it can be the woman, sometimes it can be the man. The woman does not always have to drop what she wants so the man can get his way. How these things sound okay to you people is beyond dumbfounding to me.

I always feel deep disgust when I read such things. Like how can another human be so full of themselves that they believe what the other person wants is unimportant compared to their wants.

It's highly irritating to people with functional brains.

First time someone made 100000% sense in a comment.

tintingz:
What if the wife is the breadwinner of the house?

She still have to submit if she is a believer.