I know too well that every human being has some flaws which they might not be able to eradicate totally. And a lot of times, couples do not discover these faults until they tie the knots. They decide to carry on with this person for the rest of their lives

Please we want to know, what is that fault that you can say, 'this is the worst fault that can be found in a partner?

Based on your experiences, you have always found a way to address some of these flaws but have one that is a no-go-area for you.

Giving Your reasons for picking that fault as the worst will be highly appreciated as it will throw more light to the discuss..

Thanks in advance.

A partner that can't give you peace is a death warrant to you.

Abusive personality.

KanwuliaExtra:
Abusive personality.

Verbal or physical

pasqal09:
A partner that can't give you peace is a death warrant to you.

Peace in what sense

Through prayers, discussion, we have learned to overcome each others fault and live peacefully. Both of us are not perfect, we both have our flaws.
Marriage is sacrificial. Christ is d secret of our home.

Vision4God:
Through prayers, discussion, we have learned to overcome each others fault and live peacefully. Both of us are not perfect, we both have our flaws.
Marriage is sacrificial. Christ is d secret of our home.

Nice one.

But which of her flaws pisses you off the most.

Cheating.

The only sin I cannot forgive my wife is giving her body to another man. I can never live with that knowledge.

Aside this, I can live comfortably well with the 'devil' of a woman.

Someone who lies and nags!!

Disrespect and pride

Refusal to admit ur fault even when you know you're wrong.

Believe me so many idiots still go into so-called "peaceful marriage" with the instinct of always winning quarrels and elongating simple arguments to d point of neglecting d children instead of having a mindset of "even if I have to apologize or just keep quiet for peace to reign, I will"

They call it self esteem..funny. Pride is pride. And humility doesn't mean weakness. As a matter of fact, a humble person is stronger.

RadicallyBlunt:
Refusal to admit ur fault even when you know you're wrong.

Believe me so many idiots still go into so-called "peaceful marriage" with the instinct of always winning quarrels and elongating simple arguments to d point of neglecting d children instead of having a mindset of "even if I have to apologize or just keep quiet for peace to reign, I will"

They call it self esteem..funny. Pride is pride. And humility doesn't mean weakness. As a matter of fact, a humble person is stronger.

Word!

Depends on your principles. Afterall, one man's meat is another's poison.

OchoL:
Any of these:

1. A weak man who cannot protect or defend his family.

2. A violent spouse.

3. A cheating spouse.

4. A dirty spouse with bad hygiene.

Do you have anything particular in mind when you say "protect or defend his family "

The worst fault is the one you cannot handle or tolerate. Everyone has flaws. You stay with the person whose flaws you can tolerate.

ImaIma1:
The worst fault is the one you cannot handle or tolerate. Everyone has flaws. You stay with the person whose flaws you can tolerate.

Which one do you think is the most difficult to tolerate

Destined2win:
Which one do you think is the most difficult to tolerate

Dishonesty in its totality.

Let me add to the listed faults

Deceptive partner

where there is deception there is no relationship

pabostt:
Let me add to the listed faults

Deceptive partner

where there is deception there is no relationship

Yeah you right

I've come to learn that 'lack of respect' as the universal flaw most relationship face today.

Disrespectful being : Inconsiderate of your partners feeling.

Ask your partners opinion in EVERY decision you're to make. it makes a lot of difference in relationship and sets yours aside from others.

A nag...gosh!

Ewuro4:
I've come to learn that 'lack of respect' as the universal flaw most relationship face today.

Disrespectful being : Inconsiderate of your partners feeling.

Ask your partners opinion in EVERY decision you're to make. it makes a lot of difference in relationship and sets yours aside from others.

Honestly lack of respect is so bad in any relationship

Artistree:
A nag...gosh!

Do men really nag?

ImaIma1:


Dishonesty in its totality.

All acts of lie are dishonesty but not all acts of dishonesty are lies. I sure know that when you understand this then you will find out that truly, you can accommodate a dishonest person who doesn't tell lies - diplomat. Well, I know that the kind of person you wouldn't accommodate is a perfidious person. And truly, no person of the noble class would contemplate putting up with a perfidious person.

While an act of a perfidious person/liar is detrimental to the other party, diplomacy which literally is an act of dishonest, but not an act of lie, isn't detrimental. Example of a diplomatic dishonest act; honey I'm coming to meet you where you're now, what's your location? While your honey is at home under the captive of armed robbers, for the love he has for you he doesn't want you to fall into the captive of the same armed robbers too, he says oh darling, I'm in the church, please stay where you're at present until I come over to pick you up.

From the analysis above, you can see that why he's dishonest to you about his location, yet his dishonest act - diplomacy - was to save you from danger.

Well, to the OP, even though your question is for those already married, that notwithstanding my status as a bachelor, let me chip in my thoughts. . . I can never put up with a perfidious, covetous, greedy and conceited person. I'd rather remain single than to tolerate any woman that possesses these four negative attributes.

LordKO:


All acts of lie are dishonesty but not all acts of dishonesty are lies. I sure know that when you understand this, then you will find out that truly, you can accommodate a dishonest person who doesn't lie but can be diplomatic a times. Well, I know that the kind of person you wouldn't accommodate is a perfidious person. And truly, no person of the noble class would contemplate putting up with a perfidious person.

While an act of a perfidious person/liar is detrimental to the other party, diplomacy which literally is an act of dishonest, but not an act of lie, isn't detrimental. Example of a diplomacy/dishonest act; honey I'm coming to meet you where you're now, what's your location? While your honey is at home under the captive of armed robbers, for the love he has for you he doesn't want you to fall into the captive of the same armed robbers too, he says oh darling, I'm in the church, please stay where you're at present until I come over to pick you up.

From the analysis above, you can see that why he's dishonest to you about his location yet, his dishonest - diplomatic - act was to save you from danger.

Well, to the OP, even though your question is for those already married, that notwithstanding my status as a bachelor let me chip in my thoughts. . . I can never put up with a perfidious, covetous, greedy and conceited person. I'd rather remain single than to tolerate any woman that possesses these four vices.

You make a whole lot of sense!

Destined2win:
Do men really nag?

My dear, I almost died when I had one o!

Artistree:

My dear, I almost died when I had one o!

That's quite strange. Thought it was only women that nag

Destined2win:
That's quite strange. Thought it was only women that nag

That made mine quite strange and disgusting!
The guy can nag for the 9 planets combined.
Never do I pray to meet a human being as useless as he is.

Artistree:

That made mine quite strange and disgusting!
The guy can nag for the 9 planets combined.
Never do I pray to meet a human being as useless as he is.

Yeah. You won't. But you married sha

Destined2win:
Verbal or physical

Any any.
All of the above.