There are many reasons why a woman would remarry. I know of many people that say nice things about their stepmothers even though their mothers are alive. Is there anyone who has a stepfather and sees him as a blessing in their life and mothers life? Or the stepfathers end up not being worth the remarriage? My husband's step father squandered his mom's property and finances despite being much lower in status than his late dad. What's your take on stepdads?