Its often said that "No marriage is perfect","Marriage is endurance","If you leave this one,how sure are you about the next person","just forgive her" bla bla bla,all in the name of staying in a marriage,but within you,you know that you have tried all you can to make it work,but to no avail and its not working out and you keep on staying on the union and be listening to the above statements etc while facing heart break,unhappiness,lack of joy,frequent depression,unrepentant attitude etc from your wife. Fast forward- The question is: For how long and at what stage can a man finally made up his mind and call it quit over his wife.(dissolution of the marriage) rather than keep managing it,etc.

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When he feels his sanity is being threatened

when all he can think about is hitting his wife or killing her

when she repulses him..

when he can't stand to be in the same room for more than 5 minutes with her

when after work he drives extra slow or stops at a friend place to ensure he gets home late at night when she might be asleep


when he feels like jumping into the lagoon


Marriage is not a do or die affair, if your feel your life or mental health is being threatened, carry yourself and leave! if he or she cheats and can't stop it or refuses to stop carry your Ghana must go bag and leave.

Leave before you die, the same people that tell you to stay and pray for the best will still come to your funeral and eat rice and drink coke

You will know when you're ready to move on...

Stage 7 final stage

at d last stage, u can quit rather than being keep bearing but in hellish union

One step from Hell's gate?

When you've tried EVERY possible way to sort out your issues and nothing seem to change...maybe then you can

When you have TRULY made GENUINE effort to reconcile, and still no solution, laced with the fact that you have observed deeply that she no longer wants you. The easiest way is that she stops you from making love to her, or even if it happens, it is just one sided. Stop trying to make things work, just take a step back and focus on her reactions and behaviours to see if she still wants the marriage

ojun50:
Stage 7 final stage

serious matter

You guys are scaring the crap out of me!

The time when he/she coughed, you wish he or she can choke to death...

When the good morning u managed to wisper doesn't sound convincing to your ears...

Alot of unmarried folks turn counsellor...OP believe this ones at your peril