This foolish boy is my Daughters classmate (13) in the Summer he played stupid pranks , called house the Big Girl picked the phone and he says he wants to F**K my daughter (13) his bad luck was that his number was showing. My Bad luck is that when i phoned his mother she refused to listen even insulted me.
Well i saved the number just bin case.
Now yesterday i was going through the phone list and saw the number . I asked all my kid if that fool had phoned again.
Yes he had to speak to my last born (11).She was home alone.
You people need to see this boy. I do not know what country he comes from but his mother is German,. He has colored hair, Lip, nose and eye piecing am not sure about his thong.
My daughter (13) whos class mate he is says he is even quater to repeating the class.
If That happens he may land in my last borns class.


How did it all come about?

This girl next door i know her since she was born , she feels very free in my house (age 14) free enough to even come into my bedroom when am sleeping to ask me something. Or for me to message her into my handbag. . Besause she has repeated she is also in my daughters(13) class.
Well she came with some friends here to use the phone and call the boy to call them.
Only the little girl was home. And the Arrow of a boy now wanted to speak to my little girl.
I cannot talk to the Mother she is as stupid if not more than her son.
I have told my daughter (13) to tell the girl next door she is only allowed to come here alone and not bring her friends if i am not here or if she is not here.
I have told the llast born (11) not to let anyone into the house again if non of her sisters are home.
The big girl (17) told me that she has already driven them out of here b4.
She told them Ho ha that they are 14 and little girl is 11 so if the 13 year old is not here they have no biz here.
So what now.

B$ i get smart answers my last born could pass for 8 or 9 years.
she is small childish and acts childish. even dresses childish

lol. I understand how you feel a little.

some weird girl used used to call our home phone like two years ago to ask for my lil brother and my mom will always freak out. lol
but this guy you described is really bad and farrr from innocent.

you should go to her school and talk to her teacher (or his teacher) if his mom won't listen.
they know how to work their things out. maybe they'll suspend him for harrasment or something and he'll learn his lesson.

and you can tell your kids to stay away from him.

don't break his neck and don't fight his mom. lol
there must be other ways

Anyway i have cooled down a bit.
It was only last week i saw the bunch of them down the street hiding and smoking.
The only think that passed my mind was thank god that my kids are not among them.
They were afride i will report them . But i do not know ther parents from Adam so why bother

you think say ya pikin no dey follow dem smoke when you no dey there?

I bet my life on it they will not.

lol. . . Don't even get this topic and the whole essay.

Radiant:

lol. . . Don't even get this topic and the whole essay.

Its all about a stupid boy of about 14 with a bad reputation that has decided to put his eye on my daughter.
I hate him and i hate his mother. What kind of mother will allow her son to Peirce his lips and eye at that age? and a Dundee for that matter.

Now am annoyed again.
Yesterday My big girl was in the bus one of her old school mates told her that her sisters hang out with his brother, they dress tatty and drink and smoke,.(His brother gave then alcohol to drink.
Well my daughters told him that can never be her sisters. They do not drink , smoke or hang out anywere and not with boys. And they do not dress tatty.
So he now called the names of the so called sisters.It was the name of the girl next door and her new friends.
Come see how they just spoil some ones reputation.
Well My daughter told her school mate those are not her sisters and .And her sisters do not hang out with them.
And by the way The brother must be very stupid to give girls drink at that age,.
Me is thinking I know the parents of these girls.If i should report them or talk to them my self. Or just do as if i do not know

OGa Seun you changed the name of my topic.
One day you too will have a Daughter i want to see your reaction if one stupid boy like that will talk to her

Its so sad but that's the reality of the world we live in.

I suggest you talk to your daughter, don't speak to her like a child, speak to her as a young lady. Let her know the pros and cons of her actions. Watch movies or read lbooks/materials about bad influence with her. This is because you will not always be there when the silly boy comes around and when the chips are down what matters most is what she does in your absence.

Add prayer to that and you will have solved a problem which may linger or reoccur in the near future.

you could change their schools
or better still, sit them down and give them a real loooong talk, like nite angel suggests.

report those kids.

Its all about a stupid boy of about 14 with a bad reputation that has decided to put his eye on my daughter.
I hate him and i hate his mother. What kind of mother will allow her son to Peirce his lips and eye at that age? and a Dundee for that matter.

any other person on Nairaland i would gladly give a reasonable opinion on this matter, but you mamaput sorry. You are the very same person on one thread saying there is nothing wrong in allowing your 17yrs old daughter sleep over at her boyfriend's place(and she lives in your house ).  you were busy telling everyone oh if they are going to have sex then why not let her go to his house. Well you want to ask what sort of mother this boy's mum is who is disturbing your daughter ? maybe she is asking what kind of mother you are too.   Just to let you know people in glass houses !!!!  oh by the way you never know what your children get up to. you say they smoke and drink. I read some where here on Nairaland that you too smoked abit of weed when growing up tutututut!!! what do they say? karma and glass houses>? ring a bell?

by the way your weed confession  https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=39251.msg871671#msg871671
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-26450.0.html#msg736435

you easily give bad advice to young ppl here on the internet , now your child looks like she could be going the wrong way and you panicking . I so don't like hypocrites

The boy did not come he phoned.
He has the number from the phone list that everyone in the class has,.
Am not worried about my daughters .
Am mad about the boy calling here.
No need to talk to my daughter she did not do anything. Picking the phone is not a crime.Talking to a boy is not a crime.
having classmates that smoke is not a crime
But it is a crime for a 14 year old boy to approach an 11 year old girl .



Eurphoria You did not grow up in Nigeria did you?
Weed is even cheaper than Marlboro.
Yes i have tried weed who has not? Maybe you thats not my problem But there are worse things than smoking weed.
Show me one 17 year old Nigerian girl that is a Virgin.
For every one you show me i will show you 10 14 year old Nigerian girls that have had an abortion.
In other words you are saying because you cannot stand me my 11 year old daughter deserves it if that boy waylays her .
Good for you.
You think you are better than me.
Maybe one day you will have children . maybe one day they will read what their mother has been writing here. Will you stand to it.
My Kids know i smoked weed. I tell them.
Will you tell your kids about your sucking of white Dicks?
Do you think mothers fall out of containers ready made?
Every mother has a past.
Am sure am not much older than many of the users Mothers here .
We are maybe all one Generation and they were not living in a wordrobe-
They had a life

me I never smoke weed before o. God no go let my eye see bad thing
all the things wey you dey talk for here sef na bad things. you dey always try to lead our girls astray. I pray make all the yeye things wey you dey try put for our young girls minds, make dem happen to your own daughters too.
Eleru gbe ere u

Amen>
And let your daughters be like you and do what you did.

Just good come and answer Amen if you are bold

but u dey give bad advice to other people's younger girls here
so u want spoil other people pikin but u think say ya own sef no go spoil

Answer Amen .
You want your Children to be like you not so. so answer Amen.
I answered amen to your prayer.

as u dey try lead girls astray for here na so ya pikin sef go go astray.

Okey but you have not answered amen .
Spoil your girls myAss.
You think say i be one useless bin to.
I grew up in Nigeria went to boarding house.
Na them bad pass. Let me not start here
No be Ghana girls wey rape new commers of class one or jss1.
No be Angola girls that get BRother Owerri in every state sugar daddy in every Village.


So why you never answer Amen that let your daughters be like you.
me have answered to amen .

you really think my kids in future will come here to read about how i like to suck white cocks? lmao please get real mamaput. Do u seriously think my name is really eurphoria and nairaland will still be here come 20yrs from now, or that you and I will still be posting here 20 odd years from now? lmao. I am an adult, leave by myself, and whose cock i suck blue green or otherwise has no bearing on anything here what so ever. You called this boy's mother a bad mother, you say he has tattoos and piercings all over , i just wanted you to hold a mirror to yourself and see if everyone judged kids by their parents then you too are a bad mother like you easily call another woman you don't know .

you say mothers do not come in ready made containers, very correct. please is that not contradicting yourself? you are calling this boy's mother bad,this boy  frankly is just being a child, well sort your child out and don't worry about other people's children. it is always those mothers who scream how bad other people's children are that are really bad mothers themselves or have the worst kids. Listen to this , true story yeah, when i was a teen one of my friend's mum refused to let myself and another girl come to her house to see her daughter,she called us bad South London breeds, just because her daughter came from Nigeria , so the rest of us born here were bad children. Anyways this girl who spent all her life in Nigeria turned out not to be a virgin after all, because she got pregnant at 16, myself and my friend were shocked because we thot she was a good girl and we the bad ones.By the way we were still virgins(just want u to know that your so called girls may not be angels, it is always the ones that look bad or talk bad that preserve themselves. Take a good hard look at yourself lady. Maybe if you werent spending 24hrs a day on Nairaland you would pay more attention to what your children get up to.

@Justgood
i thought it was just me who noticed how mamaput is quick to advice young girls here badly and tell them to go against their parents. Now the shoe is on the other foot and she is crying ''someome else is a bad mother'' .

mamaput advice for you. try not to wash your dirty linen in public, your problem is we have all seen and probably know so much about u and your daughters here that it is boring. Don't you have middle aged friends to talk this issue with? why come to a site full of children(myself included) people who know nothing about raising children like u have so often said?why? there are sites dedicated to mothers with teenagers all over , why not find one? that way you can take what they say knowing they too have children. You want to sit here and play internet mother to all here and at the same time play rebel kid(sometimes i wonder if u really are as old as u are? you don't make sense half the time and you are quick to take things personal) i thot wit age came wisdom? or is old age dementia showing a premature entrance?

In other words you are saying because you cannot stand me my 11 year old daughter deserves it if that boy waylays her .
Good for you.
You think you are better than me

.

I can stand you mamaput, don't get overly drama school about this.  Your 11yr old deserves the best(just like every other child in this world) and i will never wish her harm. As for being better than u, you said it not me, have a better opinion of yourself this sound to me like a complex. Dont let what people say about u be how u value yourself.

Eurphoria  You did not grow up in Nigeria did you?

SO? the problem you brought here to NLis universal, do you have to grow up in a certain region to relate? mamaput u no longer leave in Nigeria yourself so what is your noise? some of the things u come out with are so ancient.

Last words i do not hate u or dislike you, i dislike your hypocrisy and double standards. Just don't be so quick to let bad advice reel from your tongue in future on the internet especially to someone else's child. KARMA IS A BITCH

lol jeez E.

Sunday's sermon?

i am just sayin it as it is

Okey good i out of nairaland.
Seun come and lock my account .

dont belive everything you read.
You will be suprised what people can dig up after 30 years.
You know so much about me and i know much about you.
Your picture has been here so has mine.
I wounder who has more to hide

Am not going anywere
Am here to stay a middleaged frustrated old woman.
What about you young girl do you not have a boyfriend? Or other friends
You spend too much time here yourself.

Eurphoria:

you really think my kids in future will come here to read about how i like to suck white cocks? lmao please get real mamaput. Do u seriously think my name is really eurphoria and nairaland will still be here come 20yrs from now, or that you and I will still be posting here 20 odd years from now? lmao. I am an adult, leave by myself, and whose cock i suck blue green or otherwise has no bearing on anything here what so ever. You called this boy's mother a bad mother, you say he has tattoos and piercings all over , i just wanted you to hold a mirror to yourself and see if everyone judged kids by their parents then you too are a bad mother like you easily call another woman you don't know .

you say mothers do not come in ready made containers, very correct. please is that not contradicting yourself? you are calling this boy's mother bad,this boy frankly is just being a child, well sort your child out and don't worry about other people's children. it is always those mothers who scream how bad other people's children are that are really bad mothers themselves or have the worst kids. Listen to this , true story yeah, when i was a teen one of my friend's mum refused to let myself and another girl come to her house to see her daughter,she called us bad South London breeds, just because her daughter came from Nigeria , so the rest of us born here were bad children. Anyways this girl who spent all her life in Nigeria turned out not to be a virgin after all, because she got pregnant at 16, myself and my friend were shocked because we thot she was a good girl and we the bad ones.By the way we were still virgins(just want u to know that your so called girls may not be angels, it is always the ones that look bad or talk bad that preserve themselves. Take a good hard look at yourself lady. Maybe if you werent spending 24hrs a day on Nairaland you would pay more attention to what your children get up to.

@Justgood
i thought it was just me who noticed how mamaput is quick to advice young girls here badly and tell them to go against their parents. Now the shoe is on the other foot and she is crying ''someome else is a bad mother'' .

mamaput advice for you. try not to wash your dirty linen in public, your problem is we have all seen and probably know so much about u and your daughters here that it is boring. Don't you have middle aged friends to talk this issue with? why come to a site full of children(myself included) people who know nothing about raising children like u have so often said?why? there are sites dedicated to mothers with teenagers all over , why not find one? that way you can take what they say knowing they too have children. You want to sit here and play internet mother to all here and at the same time play rebel kid(sometimes i wonder if u really are as old as u are? you don't make sense half the time and you are quick to take things personal) i thot wit age came wisdom? or is old age dementia showing a premature entrance?
.

I can stand you mamaput, don't get overly drama school about this. Your 11yr old deserves the best(just like every other child in this world) and i will never wish her harm. As for being better than u, you said it not me, have a better opinion of yourself this sound to me like a complex. Dont let what people say about u be how u value yourself.SO? the problem you brought here to NLis universal, do you have to grow up in a certain region to relate? mamaput u no longer leave in Nigeria yourself so what is your noise? some of the things u come out with are so ancient.

Last words i do not hate u or dislike you, i dislike your hypocrisy and double standards. Just don't be so quick to let bad advice reel from your tongue in future on the internet especially to someone else's child. KARMA IS A BITCH

aww bless.

Anyway back to the Topic.
It is not normal for a 14 yearold boy to approach an 11 year old Girl.
We are talking of a small girl and not an almost adult of a Teenager.
She tells me he keeps on comming to talk to her but she dose not answer him.
So what dose he want from her.
he is not her age not her classmate.
It would be different if it was age mate or class mate that will be something she can handle.
But this boy is normally or 3 years above her but he repeated two times i think

just talk to the teachers about it and about the whole calls thing. contact the police.

TOH rubbish !!
people in glass houses should not throw stones mamaput. Now you change your story , i like your manipulative way   
answer this why did you call this boy's mother a bad mother? and why did you advice a girl here with a problem about sleeping at her boyfriends house, that this was ok? you cant have it all. if u want a sympathetic ear, try not to be judgemental urself.

Am not that wicked. he is in the older girls class and she says the Teacher hates him.
If i tell her she will hate him More and maybe mark his papers worse.
He is already on the boarder to repeat again.
I will not use my hand and push that last push.
Talking to the police ? Will that not give him a file.