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Re: 7 Terrible Mistakes People Make In Marriage by thesuave10(m): 12:36pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
iamsammie: TRUST ME IT IS WAY OVERRATED 1 Like |
Re: 7 Terrible Mistakes People Make In Marriage by bobkezel(m): 12:37pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
Another trash from op 1 Like |
Re: 7 Terrible Mistakes People Make In Marriage by lordm(m): 12:42pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
scofieldsimba:strongly agreed 1 Like |
Re: 7 Terrible Mistakes People Make In Marriage by kinguwem: 12:43pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
The writer is approaching the issue of marriage from the religious point of view. But marriage predates religion & no one school of thought can claim to be an authority in marriage. However, a successful marriage has basic principles: - Love, tolerance, understanding, ability to share & take responsibilities & good communication. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 7 Terrible Mistakes People Make In Marriage by Blessingbenson(f): 12:47pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
Great piece,especially No 1 |
Re: 7 Terrible Mistakes People Make In Marriage by Akalia(m): 12:51pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
kinguwem:I couldn't agree more with your valid points. OP's view is religiously influenced which is not totally correct. |
Re: 7 Terrible Mistakes People Make In Marriage by emmyw(m): 12:54pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
bobkezel:
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Re: 7 Terrible Mistakes People Make In Marriage by davillian(m): 12:55pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
[3] If the foundations be destroyed, what can the righteous do? They go home work don finish be that. |
Re: 7 Terrible Mistakes People Make In Marriage by olowobaba10: 1:00pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
YOUR THREAD SHOULD HAVE READ CHRISTIAN MARRIAGE, STOP BEING A BIGOT. |
Re: 7 Terrible Mistakes People Make In Marriage by joenor(m): 1:04pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
I must thank you for this words of wisdom for those in search for a life partner, may God bless u |
Re: 7 Terrible Mistakes People Make In Marriage by harrymoses24(m): 1:04pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
No. 1 reason says it all. |
Re: 7 Terrible Mistakes People Make In Marriage by spartan117(m): 1:05pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
thesuave10:Stop clinging onto hopelessness. Having a fulfilled marriage is possible |
Re: 7 Terrible Mistakes People Make In Marriage by FRANKOSKI(m): 1:05pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
guard your heart with all diligence for out of it are the issues of life. 1 Like |
Re: 7 Terrible Mistakes People Make In Marriage by Nobody: 1:10pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
""1) RUNNING MARRIAGE WITHOUT GOD Psalm 127:1-2 [1] Except the Lord build the house, they labour in vain that build it: except the Lord keep the city, the watchman waketh but in vain. [2] It is vain for you to rise up early, to sit up late, to eat the bread of sorrows: for so he giveth his beloved sleep."" Not everyone on earth are Christians. Not only Christians succeed in marriage. |
Re: 7 Terrible Mistakes People Make In Marriage by Dollabiz: 1:20pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
Really |
Re: 7 Terrible Mistakes People Make In Marriage by Dotng: 1:24pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
olowobaba10: userplainly: Sard: It is interesting that the fellows above claim to be Christians but they have denied power and influence of Christianity in their thought process. Rather than comment on the value or otherwise of the suggestions posted, they prefer to attack the faith they verbally claim to belong to. What is the foundational principle behind what works? Aside from common speech, on what is your suggestion rooted upon? The OP has given his own suggestions. Kindly give yours without exposing the confusion going on in your mind on whether to allow your faith to impact your thinking or refer only to contemporary psychology that you don't know where the thought behind it originated from. EVERY TRUTH IS NOT LIMITED TO THE BIBLE BUT IS LIMITED BY THE BIBLE. 1 Like |
Re: 7 Terrible Mistakes People Make In Marriage by Raskasal(m): 1:26pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
I concur with you OP. Everything is true. May God help all couple |
Re: 7 Terrible Mistakes People Make In Marriage by MightyHand(m): 1:27pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
Nice writeup for some1 lik me that havn't marry nd no Gf. |
Re: 7 Terrible Mistakes People Make In Marriage by olowobaba10: 1:34pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
Dotng:
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Re: 7 Terrible Mistakes People Make In Marriage by Lomprico2: 1:57pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
emmyw: How will u not put pastors in ur point #4? Do u know how many marriages this kind of third party have crashed? |
Re: 7 Terrible Mistakes People Make In Marriage by bobkezel(m): 2:09pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
[quote author=emmyw post=61033251][/quote] Trash distributor. |
Re: 7 Terrible Mistakes People Make In Marriage by Nobody: 2:13pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
Thank you. I sometimes wonder how people before this century were able to marry total strangers and still built good homes, it's clear that marriage is not the problem but the orientation,bahaviour and values of people that have changed over time jagugu88li: 1 Like |
Re: 7 Terrible Mistakes People Make In Marriage by MDGsVISIBLE: 2:33pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
Nice piece,so loaded..When the purpose of a thing is not known abuse of it is inevitable. Thank you again for the post. |
Re: 7 Terrible Mistakes People Make In Marriage by Rozaytee: 2:48pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
thesuave10:future failed marriage..#spotted |
Re: 7 Terrible Mistakes People Make In Marriage by Rozaytee: 2:50pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
yeyerolling:obviously.....forget all dis pastorin tinz o |
Re: 7 Terrible Mistakes People Make In Marriage by Nobody: 2:50pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
No 2 (diabolical door) on d part of women is very correct More than 60% of marriages to afonja bitches are guilty of this Followed closely are d Benin gals, Ogoni gals in Rivers State and Abakiliki gals |
Re: 7 Terrible Mistakes People Make In Marriage by Rozaytee: 2:52pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
userplainly:its even wen reality comes knocking u need christ d more..keep decieving yah self...just pray and pray u dont fall into d wrong arms 1 Like |
Re: 7 Terrible Mistakes People Make In Marriage by oodua1stson: 2:56pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
I didn't even bother to read once I saw bible verses there. The same bible and Psalm written by a murderous warmongering idiot called David is now your own yardstick for a successful marriage? Nonsense |
Re: 7 Terrible Mistakes People Make In Marriage by Dotng: 3:16pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
frenzyduchess:The values of the society then is different from that of now. 1. People were committed to make marriage work. Their emotional financial and social security was tied to it. You can't be a leader in a community without a functional family. Neither can you succeed in an agrarian society without one. 2. It is a sign that you are either not responsible or incapable or managing your home if you separate from your spouse. 3. Society frowned on divorce because disfunctional homes lead to disfunctional societies. 4. People were prepared for marriage right from childhood and they knew what to expect and what is expected of them. They also have processes of resolving conflicts. 5. There was much deference to the elders in the society who knew how to keep balance in the society. You can't just tell the elders that you want to separate due to irreconcilable differences. They will tell you that such terms don't exist. They will mandate you to find a solution to the issue or live with it. Also, the punishment for misbehavior is grave. 2 Likes |
Re: 7 Terrible Mistakes People Make In Marriage by Dotng: 3:22pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
oodua1stson: You don't need to read it. It is the same school that produced failures that also produced successfully people. That your teacher has moral failures did not prevent you from going to school. We chose what we want. |
Re: 7 Terrible Mistakes People Make In Marriage by thesuave10(m): 3:37pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
spartan117: Read my comment and stop being a fool |
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