| Re: How Are Married People Coping In Nigeria? by Nobody: 5:47pm On Sep 08, 2017 |
Acidosis:
9 out of 10 men and women you see out there are unmarriageable.
Slay mamas and fck boys everywhere.
Don't marry a woman that shares opposite characteristics with you; she will kill you. If you hate Snapchat and the likes, don't go after a woman that Snapchat 247, she will kill you with frustration unless your maturity level is at 100%.
If you hate alcohol, don't go after a woman that drinks beer, she'll kill you.
If you've never had s.ex in your life, or you have less than 2 sex experience, don't go after one with many body counts, you will never be enough for her. You might die searching for useless experience, its all lies, even animals have se.x, experience is not needed to enjoy s.ex.
Get details of previous relationships. Mind you, marriage does not cure cheating, marriage is not a self-control pill.
If you love God, go after one that shares same passion. If you enjoy clubbing, go after one that loves clubbing.
When u go clubbing and u abandon your SU wife at home to attend Friday Vigil, she'd appreciate those church brothers more. When you stay at home enjoying your alone/introverted moments, and you leave your woman to attend all kinds of owanbes and holidays alone, chances are that she'd meet other men that share same passion with her out there. This is the reason many nollywood marriages die.
Finding the right person is simple, red flags are everywhere for all to see, some people only choose to be blind. If she asks you more than her father has ever given her, RUN! People run into marital problems because they feel they can selfishly tap from the other. If she's marrying you because of wealth, car, business, and she has none of these, you're in hot SOUP. If you're marrying her because of her butt and beauty, and you're as ugly as fck (because u selfishly desire handsome kids to brag on Facebook), you've already created a deficit, something, somehow and someday will make up for your deficiency.
Can two people walk together unless they agree? Absolutely No! That's the reason you MUST marry your friend. A true friend will LOVE to share the same experience with you, even if her daddy owns a Lamborghini, she'd love to take that Okada ride with you for the fun of it..
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| Re: How Are Married People Coping In Nigeria? by wristbangle: 7:54pm On Sep 08, 2017 |
Acidosis:
9 out of 10 men and women you see out there are unmarriageable.
Slay mamas and fck boys everywhere.
Don't marry a woman that shares opposite characteristics with you; she will kill you. If you hate Snapchat and the likes, don't go after a woman that Snapchat 247, she will kill you with frustration unless your maturity level is at 100%.
If you hate alcohol, don't go after a woman that drinks beer, she'll kill you.
If you've never had s.ex in your life, or you have less than 2 sex experience, don't go after one with many body counts, you will never be enough for her. You might die searching for useless experience, its all lies, even animals have se.x, experience is not needed to enjoy s.ex.
Get details of previous relationships. Mind you, marriage does not cure cheating, marriage is not a self-control pill.
If you love God, go after one that shares same passion. If you enjoy clubbing, go after one that loves clubbing.
When u go clubbing and u abandon your SU wife at home to attend Friday Vigil, she'd appreciate those church brothers more. When you stay at home enjoying your alone/introverted moments, and you leave your woman to attend all kinds of owanbes and holidays alone, chances are that she'd meet other men that share same passion with her out there. This is the reason many nollywood marriages die.
Finding the right person is simple, red flags are everywhere for all to see, some people only choose to be blind. If she asks you more than her father has ever given her, RUN! People run into marital problems because they feel they can selfishly tap from the other. If she's marrying you because of wealth, car, business, and she has none of these, you're in hot SOUP. If you're marrying her because of her butt and beauty, and you're as ugly as fck (because u selfishly desire handsome kids to brag on Facebook), you've already created a deficit, something, somehow and someday will make up for your deficiency.
Can two people walk together unless they agree? Absolutely No! That's the reason you MUST marry your friend. A true friend will LOVE to share the same experience with you, even if her daddy owns a Lamborghini, she'd love to take that Okada ride with you for the fun of it..
Comment like this is the one of the reason I have not left NL. Words of wisdom 3 Likes |
| Re: How Are Married People Coping In Nigeria? by Nobody: 8:02pm On Sep 08, 2017 |
Acidosis:
9 out of 10 men and women you see out there are unmarriageable.
Slay mamas and fck boys everywhere.
Don't marry a woman that shares opposite characteristics with you; she will kill you. If you hate Snapchat and the likes, don't go after a woman that Snapchat 247, she will kill you with frustration unless your maturity level is at 100%.
If you hate alcohol, don't go after a woman that drinks beer, she'll kill you.
If you've never had s.ex in your life, or you have less than 2 sex experience, don't go after one with many body counts, you will never be enough for her. You might die searching for useless experience, its all lies, even animals have se.x, experience is not needed to enjoy s.ex.
Get details of previous relationships. Mind you, marriage does not cure cheating, marriage is not a self-control pill.
If you love God, go after one that shares same passion. If you enjoy clubbing, go after one that loves clubbing.
When u go clubbing and u abandon your SU wife at home to attend Friday Vigil, she'd appreciate those church brothers more. When you stay at home enjoying your alone/introverted moments, and you leave your woman to attend all kinds of owanbes and holidays alone, chances are that she'd meet other men that share same passion with her out there. This is the reason many nollywood marriages die.
Finding the right person is simple, red flags are everywhere for all to see, some people only choose to be blind. If she asks you more than her father has ever given her, RUN! People run into marital problems because they feel they can selfishly tap from the other. If she's marrying you because of wealth, car, business, and she has none of these, you're in hot SOUP. If you're marrying her because of her butt and beauty, and you're as ugly as fck (because u selfishly desire handsome kids to brag on Facebook), you've already created a deficit, something, somehow and someday will make up for your deficiency.
Can two people walk together unless they agree? Absolutely No! That's the reason you MUST marry your friend. A true friend will LOVE to share the same experience with you, even if her daddy owns a Lamborghini, she'd love to take that Okada ride with you for the fun of it..
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| Re: How Are Married People Coping In Nigeria? by aputel: 5:01pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
The simple rule is to identify your parameters you need in your search for a marriageable lady. As a rule don't go to church to find wife ,deception and holy packaging abounds in the place. You may be lucky in social parties but mostly you gain a lot in social interaction.
Many of you celebrate wedding through Facebook ,how many people come back to tell you what they are facing in such marriage .
Make sure you carry out a background check on your choice.
Never marry out of pity , don't marry her or him because she or he assisted you in your time of needs.
Marry her ordinarily as your choice . If you can smell better, all indices of failure are written all over any lady, who constantly password her phone and who is very reluctant to open it ,it's a red flag , a stubborn lady will do you no good ,you may not be able to have your ways in the marriage. When you meet one whose point of solution is in calling her mum now and then on any issue ,check very well .
As a rule cut your coat according to your cloth and let her know what you stand for ,your way of life,and all others . Assure her all is well even if she decides to opt out if she may not be able to accept you the way you are , no hard feelings . Nothing like packaging in marriage .
Sexual life also comes into focus ,if you have a low libido don't go for a lady with high libido ,it is very important in marriage don't deceive yourself with her church life discuss it ,sex must be discuss and iron out .It's one of the most thing that wrecks marriage secretly.
Religion to me plays no role once neither of you is an extremist but if the parent are extremist please stick to your religion in the choice of marriage. Lastly don't go too far, it's good to marry within the circumference of your culture for better understanding. Life is too short to keep learning the way of a Kanuri girl ,or for a Ibo man using years to sort out issues with the culture and way of life of a Yoruba girl . Marry within your tribe or a tribe so close and whom you can understand very well . Check the family it's important avoid ladies whose mother has 4 children from 5 husband. 5 Likes |
| Re: How Are Married People Coping In Nigeria? by Nobody: 5:52am On Sep 12, 2017 |
Zilifish:
Bros run! Im in hell!! Pls marry your friend or your life will be a living hell Eyaa sorry |
| Re: How Are Married People Coping In Nigeria? by Nobody: 5:56am On Sep 12, 2017 |
Brilliant one Acidosis 1 Like |
| Re: How Are Married People Coping In Nigeria? by Afam4eva(m): 8:16am On Sep 16, 2017 |
The truth is and it's unfortunate that a lot of men are looking for trophy wives instead of people with character and common sense. 3 Likes |
| Re: How Are Married People Coping In Nigeria? by egopersonified(f): 8:54am On Sep 16, 2017 |
Acidosis:
9 out of 10 men and women you see out there are unmarriageable.
Slay mamas and fck boys everywhere.
Don't marry a woman that shares opposite characteristics with you; she will kill you. If you hate Snapchat and the likes, don't go after a woman that Snapchat 247, she will kill you with frustration unless your maturity level is at 100%.
If you hate alcohol, don't go after a woman that drinks beer, she'll kill you.
If you've never had s.ex in your life, or you have less than 2 sex experience, don't go after one with many body counts, you will never be enough for her. You might die searching for useless experience, its all lies, even animals have se.x, experience is not needed to enjoy s.ex.
Get details of previous relationships. Mind you, marriage does not cure cheating, marriage is not a self-control pill.
If you love God, go after one that shares same passion. If you enjoy clubbing, go after one that loves clubbing.
When u go clubbing and u abandon your SU wife at home to attend Friday Vigil, she'd appreciate those church brothers more. When you stay at home enjoying your alone/introverted moments, and you leave your woman to attend all kinds of owanbes and holidays alone, chances are that she'd meet other men that share same passion with her out there. This is the reason many nollywood marriages die.
Finding the right person is simple, red flags are everywhere for all to see, some people only choose to be blind. If she asks you more than her father has ever given her, RUN! People run into marital problems because they feel they can selfishly tap from the other. If she's marrying you because of wealth, car, business, and she has none of these, you're in hot SOUP. If you're marrying her because of her butt and beauty, and you're as ugly as fck (because u selfishly desire handsome kids to brag on Facebook), you've already created a deficit, something, somehow and someday will make up for your deficiency.
Can two people walk together unless they agree? Absolutely No! That's the reason you MUST marry your friend. A true friend will LOVE to share the same experience with you, even if her daddy owns a Lamborghini, she'd love to take that Okada ride with you for the fun of it..
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| Re: How Are Married People Coping In Nigeria? by OGHENAOGIE(m): 2:59pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
nuelyoyo:
 250k not enough for two weeks!!! Jeez, that wan na slay grandma. with dis kind money u can take care of extended family Kai nawa oooo |
| Re: How Are Married People Coping In Nigeria? by Nobody: 8:08am On Sep 17, 2017 |
I thoroughly enjoyed the contributions and I thank everyone that posted. |
| Re: How Are Married People Coping In Nigeria? by onyegwu(m): 2:39pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
Acidosis:
9 out of 10 men and women you see out there are unmarriageable.
Slay mamas and fck boys everywhere.
Don't marry a woman that shares opposite characteristics with you; she will kill you. If you hate Snapchat and the likes, don't go after a woman that Snapchat 247, she will kill you with frustration unless your maturity level is at 100%.
If you hate alcohol, don't go after a woman that drinks beer, she'll kill you.
If you've never had s.ex in your life, or you have less than 2 sex experience, don't go after one with many body counts, you will never be enough for her. You might die searching for useless experience, its all lies, even animals have se.x, experience is not needed to enjoy s.ex.
Get details of previous relationships. Mind you, marriage does not cure cheating, marriage is not a self-control pill.
If you love God, go after one that shares same passion. If you enjoy clubbing, go after one that loves clubbing.
When u go clubbing and u abandon your SU wife at home to attend Friday Vigil, she'd appreciate those church brothers more. When you stay at home enjoying your alone/introverted moments, and you leave your woman to attend all kinds of owanbes and holidays alone, chances are that she'd meet other men that share same passion with her out there. This is the reason many nollywood marriages die.
Finding the right person is simple, red flags are everywhere for all to see, some people only choose to be blind. If she asks you more than her father has ever given her, RUN! People run into marital problems because they feel they can selfishly tap from the other. If she's marrying you because of wealth, car, business, and she has none of these, you're in hot SOUP. If you're marrying her because of her butt and beauty, and you're as ugly as fck (because u selfishly desire handsome kids to brag on Facebook), you've already created a deficit, something, somehow and someday will make up for your deficiency.
Can two people walk together unless they agree? Absolutely No! That's the reason you MUST marry your friend. A true friend will LOVE to share the same experience with you, even if her daddy owns a Lamborghini, she'd love to take that Okada ride with you for the fun of it..
Bros are u a marriage coach?If not please u qualify for one. I have never heard such precise, absolute well matured write up. Please thank u very much we all learnt from it. Keep up the good work OK! Not some fake people on radio who call them selves marriage coaches without sound judgement. They will justify why someone did what dey did instead of tackling the root cause with preventive measures. 2 Likes |
| Re: How Are Married People Coping In Nigeria? by malaria(f): 9:52pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
Aptuel, you finish work there. I owe you 1 casket of ace of spade. Some men want a collabo of slut,sister Mary and Mitchell Obama in one lady. I wonder |
