Specifically, the bible does not directly address certain troublesome areas of sexuality which have been debated and debated upon. to the spiritual strong men what have you think the christians view on masturbatio.n, a.nal sex and o.ral sex should be?

^ to be clear i do not do any of the above. kapish? dunno what your tears are for. there is a raging debate in our youth(singles) fellowship on these issues so i just extended it here. got an opinion? speak

All unrighteousness is sin,Avoid all forms of immoralities.A word is enough for d wise

Kgdavid:

^ to be clear i do not do any of the above. kapish? dunno what your tears are for. there is a raging debate in our youth(singles) fellowship on these issues so i just extended it here. got an opinion? speak

What do you hope to take away from this thread to your youth (singles) fellowship that you have not found in the multiplied threads you say have debated the same things before now?

what are you talking about? did i say any thing about multiplied threads? to put things more into perspective i'm talking about comitting these acts within the institution of marriage not outside of marriage. are these acts sins when comitted in[b] marriage[/b]? why are people getting offended over this

Kgdavid:

^ to be clear i do not do any of the above. kapish? dunno what your tears are for. there is a raging debate in our youth(singles) fellowship on these issues so i just extended it here. got an opinion? speak

a raging debate in your youth fellowship over these issues?

Kgdavid:

what are you talking about? did i say any thing about multiplied threads?

I used the word 'multiplied' in reference to your own 'which have been debated and debated upon' - I was trying to use as few words as possible and not repeat the entire part of your statement. If you go through the Religion Board of this forum, you will find multiplied many threads on the same subjects you want to debate or seek answers for here.

to put things more into perspective i'm talking about comitting these acts within the institution of marriage not outside of marriage. are these acts sins when comitted in[b] marriage[/b]?

Take my advice: there are other threads that have tried to shed light on that same issue. Just search.

why are people getting offended over this

Did I sound like I was gnashing at you in my previous comment?

tpia.:

a raging debate in your youth fellowship over these issues?

pastor was talking about fornication and then someone stood up and asked if ora.l sex is really sex and the whole thing blew up from there to the full range of sexual issues including (if you can believe it) whether or not kissin is a sin (no need to discuss that one here though)

^ Dude, no offence. . but you could have used the Search facility of the forum.

A few results from searching might interest you, including (but not limited to) :::::>

:::> Is self-service A Sin Against God?

:::> Born Again Courtships

:::> Pastor Adeboye On intimacy

:::> Is Oral Or super-perversion Permissible In A Christian Marriage?

:::> Oral intimacy: What Does The Bible Say About It?

:::> The [b]Sexual Ac[/b]t And Christian Teaching

:::> Smooching And Petting As Alternatives To Premarital intimacy?


Cheers.

If the dog has ever taken the missionary's style, then anal is permissible. If the cock had left back mounting to take 69 position, then you can do oral. Take heed, nature has given every being its own. Anything contrary is heavenly prohibited. Q.E.D

@ viaro thanks a lot.

^^ No worries.

Kgdavid:



pastor was talking about fornication and then someone stood up and asked if ora.l intimacy is really intimacy and the whole thing blew up from there to the full range of sexual issues including (if you can believe it) whether or not kissin is a sin (no need to discuss that one here though)

hmmm- sounds like they're experts in everything mentioned.

oh well.

kissing is no sin but that doesnt prevent anyone from picking up a kissing related infection from their partner's mouth. Who in turn picked it up from someone else.

hollywood rarely shows this "other side"

@ Kgdavid

please ignore those that try to make it seem as if discussing sex is a taboo or discussing it among the youth is. I applaud your pastor for actually tackling the issue.

Sex is a gift from God, it is not evil, it isn't a taboo. It is beautiful, it is pleasurable, it is sacred, and from it we get new life.

But as with all gifts given to us by God, we humans with our fallen nature can abuse it.

Ways of abusing sex are:

Fornication
Adultery
Masturbation
Pornography
Homosexual sex

Sex is not meant to be selfish, or self-gratification. It is a giving of oneself to another, it is a giving of one's self to one's spouse.

The problem today is that people don't realise that God is in the midst when sex takes place. God is everywhere and we cannot keep him out. When couples engage in sex, the man and woman and God in a way 'commune' together. The man brings his sperm, the woman her egg, and God the soul of the person that results from that sexual act.

Most people tell God to be with them everywhere, but please stay out of their bedroom.

Sex is meant to bind a couple together, in what way does satisfying yourself bind you to your spouse? It becomes selfish and only about pleasure of one's self. A man or woman who seeks their own gratification during sex is selfish and unwilling to give his or herself to their spouse. If that is your goal in sex, then you have no love for your spouse and God, but only love for yourself.

ok what's up with the editing? are we toddlers or adults?

lol @ masturbation being a form of abuse.

some of you christians are living caged lives. hilarious.

Oral Intmacy

Anal Intimacy

Er, pray: is your god disturbed about what part of a woman a man sticks his plumbing equipment?

C'mon, what sort of unserious god bothers about such stuff?

And, is he watching when females and males are, er "self-servicing"? You need to remind him what's going on in Dafur. And Chile. And Haiti. And, heck, Nigeria. Tell those guys in heaven to stop watching earthly p.orn; there's more important stuff to bother about.

They need to get over it. Now.

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~Lady~:

@ Kgdavid

please ignore those that try to make it seem as if discussing intimacy is a taboo or discussing it among the youth is. I applaud your pastor for actually tackling the issue.

intimacy is a gift from God, it is not evil, it isn't a taboo. It is beautiful, it is pleasurable, it is sacred, and from it we get new life.

But as with all gifts given to us by God, we humans with our fallen nature can abuse it.

Ways of abusing intimacy are:

Fornication
Adultery
self-service
indecency
Homosexual intimacy

intimacy is not meant to be selfish, or self-gratification. It is a giving of oneself to another, it is a giving of one's self to one's spouse.

before i make my statement are u a virgin? if yes then read 11th commandment b4 u conclude.

^^llth commandment? thou shallt not be caught??

ARE CHRISTIANS ROMANTIC
http://www.taiwoodubiyiministries.com/estore.php

this post is ridiculous. are u folks 4real?