Yu 4got to add...Must be on nairaland

julietkcee:
So true..

Nd am working towards them

you are already 47 years old Jo,go sidon

Why is this necessary?

jerryunit48:
A Husband or at least a guy that is ready

preshdiva:
Hmmmm! Society and obnoxious parameters. Who makes all these rules anyway Its wrong for people to set standards for others... If you don't get mastery in cooking, you're not successful? If you don't have a decent home at 30, you're not successful? Success is relative, and there's no one measuring metre for everyone. Some people are late bloomers and might not achieve their dreams or amount to anything till 40 or later... This life is a pawpaw biko, allow women to live at their own pace.

lol elu uwa nkea bu popo mana onye mee ngwa omeghara odachi.

BlaQWolf:


I really want to hear... Its ok to talk to someone...you never know what you might uncover or learn.

Buh i never told u i wanted speaking with anybdy abt my life....hmmm.
It's ok

solasoulmusic:
thank you have a great week

And you too..

lilmax:
are you really surprised?

those tips op gave are for strong women, not the ones that think life is a fairy tale

I don't know why some of them are being unnecessarily defensive. This write-up is for strong willed women not for a woman who lives a life of carelessness

saydfact:
The dream of every lady is to be an independent woman. By the time she is sixteen she starts to conjure up so many fantasies in her head. In the diary of a girl, life moves so fast she hardly realises she has reached the triple decade. However there are certain things every lady should achieve before marking her 30th birthday.

1. A Good education - Education here is not the formal University education; however by education, we refer to a trade, business or employment that she can rely on - The purpose is to ensure she doesn't rely on a man for all her daily needs or petty cash. She should be able to take care of herself at least.

2. Full sexual education - By this age, every lady should have acquired every possible knowledge of sex, and sex education to a standard that she can teach her offspring, relatives, and community same.

3. Mastery in cooking - If by 30 a female cannot prepare a wonderful, tasty meal (even if it’s her local dishes) then something is wrong - she doesn't have to be a professional cook, but she should be able to 'wow' her friends, relatives and lover (if any) once a while or every time.

4. A confidence outlook - At 30, every lady should be bold; she should be able to address anyone, walk into any space e.g. into a classroom where only boys are no matter their numbers, if the need arises.

5. A sense of discipline - Every lady at this age should have laid for herself solid principles, no late night, no sex on first date, no this or no that - this vary from one lady to the other, but be ready to live by your principle irrespective of peer or social pressure.

6. Menstrual Attainment - That’s funny right? - Well if you haven't seen your period at 30, you're in serious problem already.

7. A trusted adviser - Unlike guys who can just talk to anyone to get advice, every lady needs at least one person she can run to - we talked about using the social media for this purpose in No 6 above; but social media won’t solve all, there is going to be that once when she has to talk to someone; so get a trusted person NOW.

8. A home (away from parent's home) - Preferably that place should be her husband's house but in any situation where is has no plan to settle anytime soon; she should get a decent but not too expensive accommodation of her own.

9. Sound religious indoctrinatiom - Not everyone would agree to this, but its common saying to hear people talk about the power of the praying wife and the influence it has on her immediate family.... if the ladies don't agree, every guy must agree; we all need one.

10. A fighting spirit: A woman's journey in life is far and filled with stones. A woman must aquire a fighting spirit if she is to move ahead in life. By fighting spirit I do not mean being aggressive but having the calmness to wade through difficult challenge with poise.

How old are you? Do you see yourself as being a successful woman? Going through all these points which of them are you presently struggling with? It is important for a woman to always develop herself inwardly and outwardly.

Source: http://m.af1234.com/Af1234/details/10-things-every-lady-most-attain-before-age-30

What do you mean by "menstrual attainment"?

And about that number 9, don't you know that "indoctrination" is an insult? I couldn't tolerate a woman who has been indoctrinated or shows signs of being easily indoctrinated.

Ishilove:
Rubbish.
Le fuckery grande.
So much bullshit tightly packaged in one post.

Really

preshdiva:
Hmmmm! Society and obnoxious parameters. Who makes all these rules anyway Its wrong for people to set standards for others... If you don't get mastery in cooking, you're not successful? If you don't have a decent home at 30, you're not successful? Success is relative, and there's no one measuring metre for everyone. Some people are late bloomers and might not achieve their dreams or amount to anything till 40 or later... This life is a pawpaw biko, allow women to live at their own pace.

So a lady who cant cook a decent meal at the age of 30 is a late bloomer?

FellaL:
Why is this necessary?

Family fit use mouth finish am na

very interesting tips check at www.hermaze.com for more tips on how to deal with inlwas and about parenting..

lilmax:
from this post on this thread .... it's very easy to know the kind of woman you are

and it's really not a good sight

ok

lilmax:
from this post on this thread .... it's very easy to know the kind of woman you are

and it's really not a good sight

lol

saydfact:
The dream of every lady is to be an independent woman. By the time she is sixteen she starts to conjure up so many fantasies in her head. In the diary of a girl, life moves so fast she hardly realises she has reached the triple decade. However there are certain things every lady should achieve before marking her 30th birthday.

1. A Good education - Education here is not the formal University education; however by education, we refer to a trade, business or employment that she can rely on - The purpose is to ensure she doesn't rely on a man for all her daily needs or petty cash. She should be able to take care of herself at least.

2. Full sexual education - By this age, every lady should have acquired every possible knowledge of sex, and sex education to a standard that she can teach her offspring, relatives, and community same.

3. Mastery in cooking - If by 30 a female cannot prepare a wonderful, tasty meal (even if it’s her local dishes) then something is wrong - she doesn't have to be a professional cook, but she should be able to 'wow' her friends, relatives and lover (if any) once a while or every time.

4. A confidence outlook - At 30, every lady should be bold; she should be able to address anyone, walk into any space e.g. into a classroom where only boys are no matter their numbers, if the need arises.

5. A sense of discipline - Every lady at this age should have laid for herself solid principles, no late night, no sex on first date, no this or no that - this vary from one lady to the other, but be ready to live by your principle irrespective of peer or social pressure.

6. Menstrual Attainment - That’s funny right? - Well if you haven't seen your period at 30, you're in serious problem already.

7. A trusted adviser - Unlike guys who can just talk to anyone to get advice, every lady needs at least one person she can run to - we talked about using the social media for this purpose in No 6 above; but social media won’t solve all, there is going to be that once when she has to talk to someone; so get a trusted person NOW.

8. A home (away from parent's home) - Preferably that place should be her husband's house but in any situation where is has no plan to settle anytime soon; she should get a decent but not too expensive accommodation of her own.

9. Sound religious indoctrinatiom - Not everyone would agree to this, but its common saying to hear people talk about the power of the praying wife and the influence it has on her immediate family.... if the ladies don't agree, every guy must agree; we all need one.

10. A fighting spirit: A woman's journey in life is far and filled with stones. A woman must aquire a fighting spirit if she is to move ahead in life. By fighting spirit I do not mean being aggressive but having the calmness to wade through difficult challenge with poise.

How old are you? Do you see yourself as being a successful woman? Going through all these points which of them are you presently struggling with? It is important for a woman to always develop herself inwardly and outwardly.

Source: http://m.af1234.com/Af1234/details/10-things-every-lady-most-attain-before-age-30

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