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Re: How Do You Gain Complete Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by obaoyedotun(m): 12:37am On Sep 27, 2017 |
You just keep your own part of the deal in court and wait for him not to do his part but visitation still comes with some responsibilities like child support mihrab34: |
Re: How Do You Gain Complete Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by Muzanga(f): 1:19am On Sep 27, 2017 |
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Re: How Do You Gain Complete Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by revolt(m): 2:08pm On Sep 27, 2017 |
AdaNri1:that's a rare case and still doesn't mean the children will be a son of the soil. |
Re: How Do You Gain Complete Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by Nobody: 8:17pm On Sep 27, 2017 |
revolt:does it mean that those women who had no children and married other women are not going to claim the children by those women? The children of the land belong to the family they adopt their names from. |
Re: How Do You Gain Complete Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by revolt(m): 6:13am On Sep 28, 2017 |
AdaNri1:women having children togeda ke? IN ANAMBRA STATE?!! Joker. So when the boys. Adopted children are lost kids, the only people that recognise them are the foster parents . |
Re: How Do You Gain Complete Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by Nobody: 9:15am On Sep 28, 2017 |
revolt:not having children together!!! I'm not sure you're Igbo self. How can you not understand that a childless married woman, marries another woman in her husband's name to get children for her husband. She sleeps with other men in a case where the man is deceased or sleeps with the man at the say so if his main wife. But she is answerable to the woman that married her. Everybody recognises this in Igbo land https://www.blackagendareport.com/content/tradition-same-gender-marriage-igboland-nigeria |
Re: How Do You Gain Complete Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by revolt(m): 9:44am On Sep 28, 2017 |
AdaNri1:plsssss don't create your own tradition. So the father from the same village, that impregnates the woman wife( very laughable) suddenly forfeits his offspring?!!. And elders would gather together for ibankwu BTW two women. Is weed so cheap these days?!!! Lgbts would do anything to legitimise their mundane weird proclivities ... Pls only an efulefu can claim Igbo's condone same sex marriage. Infact the brothers are even next in line as she's their wife. The wife belongs to the family. |
Re: How Do You Gain Complete Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by Nobody: 10:16am On Sep 28, 2017 |
revolt:ok, I can see we clearly don't share the same tradition. Same sex marriage does not mean those two women sleep together, it is not a sexual marriage. But I don't think you understand this so I won't explain any further. |
Re: How Do You Gain Complete Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by jpilata(m): 2:55pm On Sep 28, 2017 |
Let me help you. The principle is that a child can never be owned by a woman unless the the father of the child denies the child. The only benefit you have is for you to go to court,and ask for the custody of the child for the time being, since she is young, she is a female child and the father is an irresponsive man. you still have to prove to the court that her father is a useless person. The court will grant access for the man to see his child and to provide for her welfare. Note ,after she might have gotten to twelve years of age, the custody of the child will move to her father. You must be very careful because your life is at risk. |
Re: How Do You Gain Complete Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by GoodFaith: 3:16pm On Sep 28, 2017 |
Evaberry: for a man or woman to have a full custody it does come down to evidence that the other person is incompetent of being a good parent Good luck with that |
Re: How Do You Gain Complete Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by dom(m): 10:15pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
Didn't see ur message. Shalomdee: |
Re: How Do You Gain Complete Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by Waffarianman(m): 7:17pm On Mar 17, 2018 |
What if the man decided to pay her dowry in anyway. What will happen 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Gain Complete Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by ladycomfort(f): 3:09pm On Mar 18, 2018 |
mihrab34:. .. |
Re: How Do You Gain Complete Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by Inifresh: 12:04am On Nov 19, 2019 |
Pls what if the child in question is a male child I am asking this because of my friend in her case the guy deceived her and promised marriage she trusted him and was with the guys parents till she gave birth and went back to her parents together with d child but when the child stopped sucking the guys parent took charge of d child so she could go back to school and since then each time she comes back to school she has always been denied of taking her child with her to spend time with her at least till she go back to school she wanted d custody of her child not because she has another man but because the guy in question has been cheating on her and maltreating her despite the fact that she has been loyal to him and they have also denied her access to spend time with her son because he knows she will never marry another man except for him because of the love she has for her son the child is 2 year pls what can such woman do to gain d custody of her child |
Re: How Do You Gain Complete Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by ZIMDRILL(m): 1:24am On Nov 19, 2019 |
Evaberry: i get what you are saying two countries having different laws but in africa people most follow culture and tradition they rarely go to court so most people think culture and tradition is law eg when hubby dies late hubby relatives grab everything, its tradition but by law everything belongs to wife by law in most countries which has laws that were formed from english common law, custody of a child is given to the mother unless proved in court that, she cant look after the child in other forms remember custody doesnt mean the child shouldnt visit or spend time with the other parent custody means the child is register as living with named parent, so you can have custody but it doesnt the child is cut off from the other parent according to law, a child must have contact with both parents, irregardless of how they broke up or how they feel, only cases whereby abuse as been seen and recorded thats when a parent can be barred from having contact with a child remember the above is law, not custom ot tradition per tribe etc most people in africa use tradition than going to court |
Re: How Do You Gain Complete Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by ZIMDRILL(m): 1:49am On Nov 19, 2019 |
hokafor: you are wrong dont mix culture/tradition and law to knock same sense to you lets reverse it a bit so the lady cant claim maintainence of the child simply because their are not married ? or the guy cant look after the child because their are not married by law whether you are married or not its your responsibility |
Re: How Do You Gain Complete Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by SexytorresE(f): 3:03pm On Nov 19, 2019 |
Tell us it u, we won’t kill u na |
Re: How Do You Gain Complete Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by SexytorresE(f): 3:04pm On Nov 19, 2019 |
Just confess na u. Nothing like impregnate deliberately. Dem dey pour akamu inside u u no use drugdon’t mind him |
Re: How Do You Gain Complete Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by ZIMDRILL(m): 10:14pm On Nov 19, 2019 |
Mrnairalandd: thats not true in Europe kids are always left in custody of the mother unless otherwise if the mother is proved by court via different government services like social services look at most single parents in UK they have custody of the kids |
Re: How Do You Gain Complete Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by Nobody: 9:31pm On May 27, 2020 |
AdaNri1: Can you say this rubbish in the front of a judge? |
Re: How Do You Gain Complete Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by shaneroberts26: 11:26am On Jul 14, 2020 |
dom: Bro, under the law or customary court, who has the custodial rights of the children if the partners weren't lawfully wedded and are separated ? |
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