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Lady Cursed For Being Pregnant Out Of Wedlock Becomes Family's Breadwinner by HeWrites(m): 3:11pm On May 09, 2018
A lady who was let down by her parents after she got pregnant before marriage, has become a manager and now takes care of her parents and siblings.

Ogbaji Comfort got pregnant out of wedlock and gave birth to a baby girl. This angered her parents and her mother placed a curse on her. Both parents abandoned her and refused to sponsor her education. But she worked to see herself through school, according to a story she shared.

Her problems continued when she tried to get a job. She was abused physically, sexually, and emotionally by her bosses. Eventually, she got a job as a cook in a company and rose from being the cook to being the manager of the company. She now takes care of her parents and siblings who abandoned her initially, according to her.

She shared her grass to grace story to encourage people who are suicidal as a result of problems they are currently facing.

Sharing her story on Instagram, she wrote:
"I thank God for who I am today.i taught I have seen it all,after having a baby out of wedlock, rejected by my parents.

My mum placed a cursed on me out of anger for getting pregnant out of wedlock as the only daughter.

After child birth, I applied for national diploma without a penny in my pocket. I was given an admission, I went home to tell my dad, my dad said he is not ready to waste money again, my brother became the most loved. But I didn't give up.

I went to school with faith, I sell satchet water for money, from satchet water I started making hair, fixing nails and lashes for money. Every Friday I will go to market to hawk for money.

After my ND certificate. I went to Lagos, my life in Lagos started as a house help. I was beaten to coma by my boss for drinking water from the water dispenser instead drinking tab water. He used my salary to pay my hospital bills, I went back to my cousin house.

Life in Lagos was terrible, I was raped, scammed, sexually abused. One day I received a call from my agent, I went for the interview, got the job as a chef in a hotel out side Lagos, from chef I became the manager .

I went back to the village enrolled my daughter into the best school in taraba state, started paying my elder brother school fees. Now he is a graduate of biochemistry, started a business for my mother also supported father in his farming business.

Am now the breadwinner of the family, nothing happen without my approval. Suicide is not an option, don't give up"

Culled from; https://www.torimill.com/2018/05/lady-cursed-by-parents-for-being-pregnant-out-of-wedlock-becomes-familys-breadwinner.html


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Re: Lady Cursed For Being Pregnant Out Of Wedlock Becomes Family's Breadwinner by Evablizin(f): 3:16pm On May 09, 2018
Thank God for your life.

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Re: Lady Cursed For Being Pregnant Out Of Wedlock Becomes Family's Breadwinner by xynerise: 3:16pm On May 09, 2018
The rejected stone becomes the...........


Your mistake sometimes is your door to success.

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Re: Lady Cursed For Being Pregnant Out Of Wedlock Becomes Family's Breadwinner by aristocrazzy: 3:20pm On May 09, 2018
Ok now u r the breadwinner, good for you.
But that doesn't justify your actions for having unprotected sex and been irresponsible or wayward.
And if ur child does the same thing u did later in life. Give her a bottle of small stout to celebrate her achievement.

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Re: Lady Cursed For Being Pregnant Out Of Wedlock Becomes Family's Breadwinner by Preshy561(f): 3:26pm On May 09, 2018
mmmm thank God for your life. that's how they will be placing curses on their children.

African parents shaa.

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Re: Lady Cursed For Being Pregnant Out Of Wedlock Becomes Family's Breadwinner by delugajackson: 3:28pm On May 09, 2018
Ordinary people do extraordinary things, great exploits.

You may be ordinary in people's outlook but you're far more extraordinary within, only if you believe in yourself. Ambition knows no father or mother.

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Re: Lady Cursed For Being Pregnant Out Of Wedlock Becomes Family's Breadwinner by Pojomojo: 3:43pm On May 09, 2018
Pres. Buhari is doing well. He has beaten the benchmark for governance in Nigeria if there is any. He has so far risen the bar and of course put in place a towering legacy for a new leader to attain & maintain. He deserves a comeback. He has our support & that of many Nigerians

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Re: Lady Cursed For Being Pregnant Out Of Wedlock Becomes Family's Breadwinner by Nobody: 3:44pm On May 09, 2018
Challenges only help to sharpen us. Whenever you are in a hopeless situation, look on the brighter side. No situation is hopeless; hopelessness is only in the head.
Miss Ogbaji happens to be an Igede girl from Benue, my sister. Discipline/intergrity is not a thing of joke in that part of Nigeria, ask around.

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Re: Lady Cursed For Being Pregnant Out Of Wedlock Becomes Family's Breadwinner by Bossontop(m): 3:44pm On May 09, 2018
undecided
Dont judge a book by its cover........nuff said

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Re: Lady Cursed For Being Pregnant Out Of Wedlock Becomes Family's Breadwinner by BruncleZuma: 3:44pm On May 09, 2018
grin grin grin grin
Re: Lady Cursed For Being Pregnant Out Of Wedlock Becomes Family's Breadwinner by cantok(m): 3:44pm On May 09, 2018
I know one isoko girl from rich family who marry a rich yoruba alhaji now living London as "second wife". trained two of her siblings (twins) through uniben in medcine. her father is an elder. what's the morale of such stories such as this and the one here undecided
Re: Lady Cursed For Being Pregnant Out Of Wedlock Becomes Family's Breadwinner by Nobody: 3:45pm On May 09, 2018
Lemme go and carry my own belle and become rice-winner.

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Re: Lady Cursed For Being Pregnant Out Of Wedlock Becomes Family's Breadwinner by abike12(f): 3:45pm On May 09, 2018
Love this story and how she forgave her family. Life is a lot easier without holding grudges

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Re: Lady Cursed For Being Pregnant Out Of Wedlock Becomes Family's Breadwinner by Nairalandmentor(m): 3:45pm On May 09, 2018
Hmmm, the curse didn't work, chai

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Re: Lady Cursed For Being Pregnant Out Of Wedlock Becomes Family's Breadwinner by MsFaith: 3:45pm On May 09, 2018
Where is your impregnator in the story lipsrsealed

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Re: Lady Cursed For Being Pregnant Out Of Wedlock Becomes Family's Breadwinner by Mutemenot(m): 3:46pm On May 09, 2018
Does that delete her name from baby mamas list? shocked

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Re: Lady Cursed For Being Pregnant Out Of Wedlock Becomes Family's Breadwinner by Tolbanks(f): 3:48pm On May 09, 2018
aristocrazzy:
Ok now u r the breadwinner, good for you.
But that doesn't justify your actions for having unprotected sex and been irresponsible or wayward.
And if ur child does the same thing u did later in life. Give her a bottle of small stout to celebrate her achievement.

STOP THINKING FROM YOUR AN*US FOR CRYING OUT LOUD! angry

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Re: Lady Cursed For Being Pregnant Out Of Wedlock Becomes Family's Breadwinner by Mslovelystar(f): 3:48pm On May 09, 2018
xynerise:
The rejected stone becomes the...........

Your mistake sometimes is your door to success.
i totally agree with that
Re: Lady Cursed For Being Pregnant Out Of Wedlock Becomes Family's Breadwinner by Yaba4sure: 3:49pm On May 09, 2018
Pojomojo:
Pres. Buhari is doing well. He has beaten the benchmark for governance in Nigeria if there is any. He has so far risen the bar and of course put in place a towering legacy for a new leader to attain & maintain. He deserves a comeback. He has our support & that of many Nigerians

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Re: Lady Cursed For Being Pregnant Out Of Wedlock Becomes Family's Breadwinner by Sirpaul(m): 3:49pm On May 09, 2018
When you burn the bridge, your appetite for survival is fired. Your adrenalin becomes turbo charged!

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Re: Lady Cursed For Being Pregnant Out Of Wedlock Becomes Family's Breadwinner by MrOwonikoko: 3:52pm On May 09, 2018
But why do pipu look for story to cook up for the masses to read and believe it?


I like this op sha...."according to her" was the phrase i love most grin grin cheesy



Pls, does anybody have Toyota Camry orobo to sell within 300k/350k?

Re: Lady Cursed For Being Pregnant Out Of Wedlock Becomes Family's Breadwinner by Nobody: 3:52pm On May 09, 2018
Your usefulness is noted.

aristocrazzy:
Ok now u r the breadwinner, good for you.
But that doesn't justify your actions for having unprotected sex and been irresponsible or wayward.
And if ur child does the same thing u did later in life. Give her a bottle of small stout to celebrate her achievement.

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Re: Lady Cursed For Being Pregnant Out Of Wedlock Becomes Family's Breadwinner by AshCoded(m): 3:53pm On May 09, 2018
God is great....
never give up

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Re: Lady Cursed For Being Pregnant Out Of Wedlock Becomes Family's Breadwinner by AshCoded(m): 3:53pm On May 09, 2018
God is great....
never give up
Re: Lady Cursed For Being Pregnant Out Of Wedlock Becomes Family's Breadwinner by KrystosCJ(m): 3:54pm On May 09, 2018
The average south-eastern Nigerian parent easily comes to mind.

I can relate to her story and I'm sure this experience of hers still persists in our homes. He who is without sin, let him cast the first stone. In their moral righteousness, some parents inadvertently push their children to despair. Glad that this lady did not succumb to it.

Yes, she did badly in the beginning but she realized her error and did great.

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Re: Lady Cursed For Being Pregnant Out Of Wedlock Becomes Family's Breadwinner by frbona: 3:55pm On May 09, 2018
aristocrazzy:
Ok now u r the breadwinner, good for you.
But that doesn't justify your actions for having unprotected sex and been irresponsible or wayward.
And if ur child does the same thing u did later in life. Give her a bottle of small stout to celebrate her achievement.
is he for real!
Everyone is celebrating this lady's Gutter-to-grace story and here you are, hating on her for no specific reason. Search yourself, am super sure you are twice as irresponsible and wayward as you believe she is, making me wonder why your Dad never sold you long ago to buy ballons with the money, sit somewhere and be bursting them one by one. Quit the hate game and focus on your dreams Nigga. Thank me later

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Re: Lady Cursed For Being Pregnant Out Of Wedlock Becomes Family's Breadwinner by eric111111(m): 3:56pm On May 09, 2018
Nice one. But remember to ask her to break the cause she place on you.
Re: Lady Cursed For Being Pregnant Out Of Wedlock Becomes Family's Breadwinner by Bustincole(m): 3:57pm On May 09, 2018
I tink dey are just protectin dare daughters


so dat she wont just accept anyhow man


I decree and declare, receive it by fire by force

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