Sometimes it really difficult to understand some certain things, You see, people believe things that best works for them, some believe life isn't competitive and complex while some believe very chances in life is difficult and competitive to get.. in fact, some believe "crossing the road is as difficult as taking a concrete decision in life".. You see!!! Whichever way you see and view it ,it's simply and squarely "your perspective"!!! But, the truth is that,before a child is born, the child STRUGGLE to get a space in the womb, the same child STRUUGLE to get out of womb, either in between the legs or through cesarean section, then the child try to adapt to the new environment after several beating, gets into the normal creche/Montessori , sing whatever song that was been taught, not forgetting an average child stay awake even before 6 am, then get prepared for school, get to school by 8/9 am do the normal school routine, close by 3pm, for those whose parent wouldn't be around still 6/7pm, the child gets engage in after school lesson, get home by 8pm, do school assignment, even before the food is already, then, fall asleep in between th food.. this routine continues until the child finishes his/her high school education..
Now the STRUGGLE continues, the child obtains and optin for university qualifying exam, gets in after several attempt , gets in and continue with the everyday STRUGGLE, trying to fit into whatever future endeavour that was chosen, alas,undergraduate race is over... then the STRUGGLE continues for those that don't "have longs legs", some get employed immediately, while most people attend several interviews , write aptitude tests and submit cv application, Now the STRUUGLE is as difficult as securing a space in the womb,because of it high level of competitiveness "just as the way you and I got a space, even before we became a zygote "..
Successfully, got an employment space, you did the usually 9 to 5, for almost 2 decade, then you get out of services, you got remitted of all your dues and benefits, then old age knocks, this time around "the human strength and power is beginning to diminish","the strength of running from one bus top isn't longer there, the strength of jumping from one office to the other isn't longer there, the strength and power of multi tasking isn't longer there, the strength of putting the best and on flick foundation on your face isn't longer there, " and this time around the normal phenomenon "struggle" will beginning to wind away, you no longer think about the STRUGGLE,but the aftermath of it all..
All the Struggles ends the day you officially sign of out services,the jumping and rushing to meet with up with the lagos traffic won't be there anymore! ,what remains with you is your "achievement and impact to people lives...
Sooner or later , "Glorious Exit sets in" you don't longer struggle to get a land, but people try has much as possible to secure a bed space for you at the "Most Quiet place on Earth!! " in order words, "the land STRUGGLE for people" not the other way around!! .. What you are been reference to are your achievement, impact and things you will be remembered for after the Glorious Exit.. The struggling isn't longer there, Noise from the other building isn't longer there,Lagos traffic wahala will not longer be a struggle for you, What remains is SILENCE and PEACE!!! We offend remember everything about History "the date, event and happenings " and forget about the LESSONS...
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